How many of you are involved in your child's education?

United States
October 22, 2007 6:02pm CST
How many parents out there are involved in your child's education? Or do you just leave it up to the school and teachers to educate your children?
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• Philippines
26 Oct 07
I am very much involved in my children's education. Teacher and parents should complement each other in educating the child. We as parents cannot leave it all to the teachers. The teachers are there to guide and fill in the gaps since I accept that as a parent I cannot fully teach my children because we too have many obligations aside from family matters- that's why we send them to school. What the students learn in school should always be followed up by the parents at home. There are many times that teachers have also shortcomings in their teaching. I for one is also a graduate of early childhood education and in fact, modesty aside can teach better than my child's teacher, but because of my job (which is non-teaching related) I cannot fully attend to this. I just help in my child's assignment and give or supplement more on the lessons that maybe the teacher has forgotten or mislooked to do or teach. Parents should not just leave to the teachers or school their children's education. Nor should they fully put the blame to the school or teacher if they perceived that their children is 'slow'.
• Canada
26 Oct 07
I'm interested to know why you accept you cannot fully teach your child? I don't send my children to school because I have to or because I don't think I can homeschool. I know I can, I did it before! I believe the best education is from different sources, not necessarily the school system!
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• United States
28 Oct 07
It's great that you take the time to help your child with their assignments and go further with their assignments to teach them more. I can understand what you mean by not being able to fully teach your children at home. Some people have a lot of things going on in life that keeps us from doing such things. But to say we all send our children to school to learn because we can't teach them, isn't necessarily true. There are many out there that have the time to do such things. Thank you for your response!
• Philippines
30 Oct 07
When I say that I accept that I cannot fully teach my children, what I mean is I have the capability of course, but because of other responsibilities like job or community service which can really occupy my time, I cannot dedicate fully my 100% time in teaching them to learn formally, unlike when they are in school 3-5 hours a day wherein what they just do is learn to read, write, dance, sing, count, do physical, mental, social and emotional activities. As I've said I'm also very much involve in their education because I really do some follow-ups,constant reminding and helping in their school projects and lessons. It is however a question of how much time I can spend with helping or involving in their learning.
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• Canada
25 Oct 07
If any parent out there, and I know there are, leave it up to the school and teachers to educate their children, I feel REALLY sorry for those kids. Those kids are going to be left out in a cruel world with absolutely no knowledge, no logic, no ... nothing! I really hate the school system. They do not have the children's best interest at hand. It's a government run scam to make money. Do Not Trust Your School To Fully Educate Your Child 100% NEVER!! And please, please, please, check on what your children are learning. I'm continuously giving my children new challenges and topics to look up. Last summer I made a BIG DEAL over plagirism. My daughter recently had two projects to complete at school. Some of the questions made no sense at all so I decided to research the topic online. Guess what? I found the exact same two projects online from another teacher with the exact same nonsense questions. The teacher just stole someone else's work without even checking to see if it made any sense! Now there was a good lesson in plagiarism and I'm so glad my daughter was there to witness it. I've lost all respect for this teacher! The best thing you can do with your children is read read read and allow them to discover the world first hand with many many different experiences and with different people. Give them the opportunity to discover new things and ask loads of questions. And if you don't know the answer, look it up with them! Show them how to find the answers! Teach your children that there are never enough questions and there are always answers! Teach your children to be nosy and to love learning! And NEVER use the excuse my child doesn't like to read. S/He doesn't like to read because s/he hasn't found what they are interested in. If your child is into sports, find sport related reading material. If your child loves video games, find out how they're made and who came up with such concept. Research the first video games. Compare the graphics. You get the idea! Now go learn something with your child...
• United States
25 Oct 07
I have to say this. I wish there were more parents like you in the world. I am a substitute teacher and going to college to be a teacher. When school started I was given an assignment to go teach the carpentry class because the teacher was out with his wife being ill and then dying. I have three classes with middles school students and three with high school students. I started out teaching about the safety of using tools and being in a shop or on a construction site. I felt safety should be the first thing they learned. The high school students kept going on about how this was their second or third year being in that class, so I thought they should do very well considering they should know the material. You can't believe how wrong I was. We just spent about a month on how to read a measuring tape. The middle school students picked up on it and learned the subject very well. The high school students, who should have already knew how, couldn't understand it. Nor did they know that math and carpentry went hand in hand. I was shocked that they didn't know this information and asked then what it was that their teacher was teaching them. The answer was not what I wanted to hear. He would have them take one test on safety and that was it. I gave them a math equation to do to help them learn part of their lesson and they had no idea how to do it. So, I agree with you. Parents should never leave it up to the teachers to teach their children. They have to help if they want their children to be successful in life. I told my husband that I wanted to become a teacher now more than ever so that I can atleast give the children in my class the knowledge that they really need. It's sad to know that the majority of the teachers today don't care about our children. Thank you for your response!
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• United States
26 Oct 07
I have actually found that in the school I teach in, it's not that the teachers don't have what they need. It's more that they don't care to teach what needs to be taught. It's sad really. But I understand what you are saying. That does happen. And it makes it hard for the teachers that want to teach and make a difference because we are having to do the jobs others were suppose to do plus our jobs. It's a lot to take on.
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• Canada
25 Oct 07
I respect that you want to become a teacher to make a different. Many times, the problem is the curriculum. It's not complete and teachers are left without the proper knowledge to really do a good job! You will find frustration on the exact same thing you mentioned. If you're teaching a grade 5 science class, you'll expect children to know this this and that already and you'll find 90% don't! So then what? You spend a month teaching something someone else should have and you'll never finish what you were suppose to teach!
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@mamasan34 (6518)
• United States
25 Oct 07
My childs education is very important to me. I try to be involved as much as I can. However, my daughter isn't trying very hard to do well in school these days, so I am having to ground her, have her ask for extra credit and so on to help with her getting her grades up. We were going to go home for the holidays and she could visit with her friends from back home, but I have told her that's not going to happen because her grades are coming back down. She brought home her mid-term progress report and everything was B's and C's and now she tells me that she will be getting a D in one of her classes, which is unacceptable. I am not happy with this turn of events and we are going to have to try some other tactics to encourage her to do better.
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• United States
25 Oct 07
My daughter brought home a C and a D on her progress report, and I told her that if it wasn't brought up by the time report cards came out that she was going to lose the internet, phone, TV, radio, friends coming out, and the ability to have a boyfriend. Her report card comes home on Monday and she has made A's and B's. I told her that her education was more important than anything else. I help her with her home work and all of her studies. It also helps that I teach at her school and know when she is having her tests and such. Sometimes you have to keep on top of them and take away privileges in order to get them to do right.
@blueunicorn (2401)
• United States
23 Oct 07
I am involved in my daughter's education, and I feel that every parent should be. My oldest is only in 1st grade right now, but every night I sit at the dining room table with her and make sure her work is done to the best of her ability. Over time she will need to learn to be more responsible for her own studies, but even then I think it is important for parents to stay on top of what is happening at school.
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• United States
25 Oct 07
That's great that you help her with her work and that you are interested in what she does at school!