parents or boyfriend??

Philippines
December 7, 2006 11:48am CST
If your parents want you to choose between them and your boyfriend,who would you choose?
6 responses
@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
7 Dec 06
my parnets would never ask this of me because i know they love me and wants whats best for me. if they would - it is only because they know that the guy is not beeing nice to me or whatever but i think not even then would they make this ultimatum.. Ultimatums are soooo wrong!
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• Philippines
7 Dec 06
you are lucky for having loving parents..;))
@tbomb2002 (269)
• United States
7 Dec 06
It's been my observation that most parents want only what is best for their children, and can usually see if their child is with the right or wrong person. Maybe sit down with them and listen to their reasons they don't like the boyfriend, and let them hear your side on why you do like him.
• Philippines
7 Dec 06
communication is always needed in that situation right?;P
@clownfish (3272)
• United States
7 Dec 06
Hi! Well, I've actually been in this situation. Having the benefit of hindsight, I would choose my parents. If the people who've loved you and known you all your life see a problem with a person you are dating, they are more than likely right. They have the ability to be more objective that we sometimes do. I would wait for someone my family approved of.
• Philippines
7 Dec 06
ill remember that..=)
@himalanka (1339)
• United States
7 Dec 06
i want both , but if have to choose, i will gowith parents only,
• Philippines
7 Dec 06
thanks..=))
• Bangladesh
7 Dec 06
in this situation, need some cause to choose anyone. it is really dangerous situation. i dont want to face this situation with my girlfriend and parents.
• Philippines
7 Dec 06
so am i..;P
• Philippines
8 Dec 06
i will definitely choose my parents! i won't even have a second thought of it! there are million of males in this planet who will love me (and i'll love) better than what my boyfriend is doing right now but THERE IS NO WAY A PERSON IN THIS WORLD WILL LOVE ME THE WAY MY PARENTS DO, IT'S UNCONDITIONAL.