1hipmomma

@1hipmomma (53)

United States • Age 40

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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Being a single mom

maxen7 @maxen7 (54) • Philippines 7 Apr 07

I'm currently pregnant with my first and now that my family knows about it, they've still accepted me, my dad commenting that he prefered that there's no father at all. With a sigh of relief, I'm now hoping that everything would...

children

parenthood

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1hipmomma I had the same worries when I was pregnant, but now that shes here, and I've had some time, I dont worry so much. There will be a day when you have to explain why everyone else has a daddy...and that day will probably break your heart, but if you choose your...

12 Jun 07

What did you want to do before your kids were born?

beautyqueen26 @beautyqueen26 (16030) • United States 12 Jun 07

Before my daughter was born, I wanted to finish my degree. Or, even get one started. But, it seemed that fate and lack of finances always stood in the way. Now that she's here, it's hard enough to pay bills with one income, and...

chat with others online

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1hipmomma I wanted to go back to school and get my degree, and just as you my tiny wallet always got in the way. I am also a single mom, and it is very hard to work full time, make that money stretch, and spend quality time with my daughter. I'm so afraid she'll grow up...

12 Jun 07

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Dont call him that.

vorbro @vorbro (83) • United States 12 Jun 07

Hi Everyone. Well for some reason I keep catching myself calling my son Bubba. Hes got a cute little round face and it just fits him to me. Of course some would see this as having negative conotations. For instance my loving wife...

nicknames

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1hipmomma LOL Bubba is cute for now, but you are right, he probably wont appreciate it when he's older. I would try replacing it with something equally "natural" to you...or something close to bubba, like buddy. I got the habit of calling my daugher Punkin-head (her...

12 Jun 07

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Ever feel like no one understands you? Or that you can't do anything right?

lorikrasch007 @lorikrasch007 (18) • United States 27 Mar 07

Have you ever been going about your day-to-day lifethinking things are pretty much okay then suddenly discover you are "in Trouble" with someone and you have no idea why? Or that you supposedly said or did something that you...

dont know others angry at you

misunderstood

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1hipmomma Yeah...and I lovingly call the people that start such rumors and drama "sh*t starters". The world is full of them. Some people, for whatever reason (boredom?), need drama in their lives. My step-father is a big one. When it comes to him, I can't do anything...

12 Jun 07

Ratings

AndriaToh @AndriaToh (1268) • Malaysia 12 Jun 07

Hi, Can someone please explain to me about ratings? How can I check my ratings? How does "best response" affect the ratings of others? How does the selecting "+" affect the ratings of others? Thanks for your help.

discussions

mylot

ratings

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1hipmomma I'm new to mylot, but the best i can gather, the little numbered stars by peoples names correlate how many good responses or discussions they've posted. The numbers go up and down as they are rated + or - i guess. So if you give a + rating, you'll boost their...

12 Jun 07

Why people tend to believe in their lies

yemberzal @yemberzal (301) • India 12 Jun 07

I have seen and noticed many a people though they know they are lying in a given moment, make themselves believe that they are speaking truth.

truthful liars

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1hipmomma i agree with sandwegde...i know a guy who is a compulsive liar, and he's told his lies so much that you really have to get to know him to realize that its all bullshit. On the other hand, some people just have good poker faces.

12 Jun 07

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food for thought,, quotations

yammydudes @yammydudes (865) • Philippines 12 Jun 07

hi guys! just thought of creating a thread for those who want to share quotations,food for thoughts,sayings, proverbs and etc...thanks

food for thought

sayings

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1hipmomma some little bits i've always enjoyed... Life is what happens to you while youre busy making other plans. ---John Lennon The world is round; it has no point. ---Anon

12 Jun 07

surly this "interest is wrongly placed?

bobbyjoe143 @bobbyjoe143 (1287) 12 Jun 07

i have just joined this "delightful interest" lol and it got me thinking, is this misplaced as an interest? i mean surely "going to the tiolet" should be under things i have done with my life not hobbies that i enjoy LOL!

toilet

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1hipmomma i like the add me button "i enjoy going to the toilet"...thats just funny

12 Jun 07

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Too young for MTV?

beautyqueen26 @beautyqueen26 (16030) • United States 4 Jun 07

One of the moms in our local play group admitted that she lets her six year old daughter watch MTV. Do you think it's right to expose a child to those types of influences at such a young age? Or, am I being old...

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1hipmomma Um no. I dont even watch MTV. Because it is stupid. But I'd never let my daughter watch it at such a young age. Seems like by the time she is 6, they'll be allowed to say anything on tv.

4 Jun 07

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Would You Rub Urine Into Your Skin?

ParaTed2k @ParaTed2k (22940) • Sheboygan, Wisconsin 1 Jun 07

In many cosmetics and toiletries, there is an ingredient called, "Urea". Urea is an organic compound taken from the urine of mammals and amphibians. Now how does that lipstick look to you? Sexy?? ;~D

cosmetics

urea

urine

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1hipmomma as a side note, urea is also in cigarettes. so thats great, i rub pee on my lips and then smoke it.

2 Jun 07

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Got good news in the mail today!!

SheliaLee @SheliaLee (2736) • United States 1 Jun 07

I was so excited! Just for the fun of it a few weeks ago I decided to enter a photo contest on picture.com. I had taken a picture of some roses from my Don Juan rose bush and thought, what the heck, I'm just going to give it a...

don juan rose bush

entered contest just for the fun of it

so excited

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1hipmomma Endless Journeys? I entered that contest and was told I'd be published as well! Soon they'll send you an offer to go to Vegas or somewhere for a convention, and tell you (or they told me) that you've got awards to recieve at said convention-which isnt cheap....

2 Jun 07

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Do all men feel afraid of responsibilities?

jencai @jencai (3412) • Philippines 17 May 07

I mean, do you feel afraid of getting married to someone you love? This is with regards to one of my discussions I have posted here in MyLot. I feel frustrated with my boyfriend. After 8 years of boyfriend-girlfriend...

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1hipmomma I have a friend who wants to propose to his gf, but doesnt because he doesnt feel he is good enough to marry her bc he can't afford the ring he wants....much less a wedding...so maybe it is not you or cowardice thats stopping him, but something else.

2 Jun 07

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Would you ever donate your eggs to a friend so she could have a baby?

beautyqueen26 @beautyqueen26 (16030) • United States 1 Jun 07

I just heard a story of this woman who donated her eggs to a woman so the couple could have a baby. Honestly, I don't think I could do it, cause everytime I saw the kid, I would feel like she or he were my child. And, I...

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1hipmomma I think I could donate my eggs to a friend, but doing it anonomously would be better...because you never know how you'll feel about it until it actually happens. Donating i could do, but surrogate mothers, those are some strong women. I could not carry a baby...

1 Jun 07