4children

@4children (13)

United States • Age 49

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Life is what You make it! Complaining gets you nowhere!

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is ur partner is ur best friend?

aissha @aissha (2036) • India 19 Mar 07

i have no idea whether a partner or spouse can be your best friend or not, i believe very few lucky people are around who have such luck ,because with them u share ur life and have to do adjustments which i guess is not in case...

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4children I do. My husband is my best friend. Mostly because we started out as friends. His sister was my best friend and we all hung out together. Before I knew it we were more than friends. It just kind of worked out that way. This is the best marriage in the world...

19 Mar 07

does your PARENTS SPANK YOU when you were YOUNG ??

nengs10 @nengs10 (3180) • Philippines 19 Mar 07

Have you tried to be spanked by your parents? How do you feel? Will you do the same to your children?

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4children My parents did not spank for no reason. I gave reason. They were pretty easy going with me and my brothers, however, if they felt it was important they would spank us without question. I am the same way. I have four children and I do not spank for little...

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Step children

mamasan34 @mamasan34 (6518) • United States 19 Mar 07

I am marrying next month and I will become step-mom to two children on a part time basis. These children are very undisciplined and I don't agree with their mom's parenting techniques. They will be coming to visit soon and usually...

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4children I had two children by my ex-husband when I married hubby four years ago. My ex was a complete @&& about how we were with the children however he did nothing for them. Barely even spoke to them. However, my husband takes care of the kids like they were his own....

19 Mar 07

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When is your Child's B-day

stacy624 @stacy624 (2776) • Canada 18 Mar 07

My kids Birthdays are: Oct 3 , Nov 17, Mar 9, July 25, Oct 13, Nov 15, Apr 5 and due in Aug ...When is your child's special day?

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4children Wow how many do you have. I have four the birthdays are Jan 13, Sept 13, August 6, and April 29.

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How do I help my son?

4children @4children (13) • United States 17 Mar 07

I have a 12 y.o. son who has a big heart. He never gives up on anybody. His father is worth nothing. He makes all these promises to the two kids that we have and does absolutely nothing for them. No child support which I don't...

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Does your child interrupts when you are busy with a phone call?

Melody1 @Melody1 (967) • India 17 Mar 07

Whenever I am busy talking on phone,my younger daughter keeps interrupting with her cute and silly questions making it very difficult to continue my conversation on phone. It is embarrasing particularly when it's your senior...

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4children Sweetheart I wish I could. I have four children of my own. They are 12, 10, 3, and 10 months. They will spend a whole day with nothing to say to me, and my phone will not ring. The minute the phone rings everyone of them have evrything in the world to say to...

17 Mar 07

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what do you like best,? the csi original, csi: miami, or csi new york???

laiza21 @laiza21 (7) • Philippines 16 Mar 07

i started to like watching csi the original since its first airing on television but i didn't like it when they're started to create other version of csi because they're just cunfusing the people who watch csi especially the...

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4children I have been watching csi the original since the beginning also. I love it and I don't understand why they thought it would be a good idea to introduce all of these other ones either. I was born and raised in NY, however I can't stand csi NY. It makes me crazy....

16 Mar 07

Can a WRONG marriage make a RIGHT baby?

lordwarwizard @lordwarwizard (35747) • Singapore 12 Mar 07

We often refer to our spouses as our other halves. As a single, I've always wanted to find my missing half so that I would be complete. After all, 2 halves make 1 whole, right? Yet I was thinking... there are so many countless...

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4children My extremely wrong marriage made two very "right" children. M1 and F2 may end up together for various reasons, however you never know if something is going to work out until you try. I was F1 and my ex was M2 however, I believe that I had to go through that...

12 Mar 07

How can I tame the kids in the house?

bettyrose20 @bettyrose20 (997) • Philippines 12 Mar 07

My kids are very stubborn and they always make me shout at them and even if i shout, they dont listen to me..I tried everything from talking softly to speaking loudly to them it wont work..My kids are 9 and 4 years old...

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4children Honey I think it is a girl thing. My daughters are 10 and 3, and they can't get along to save their lives, however I have a 12 year old boy who is the complete opposite of them, very quiet, able to be on his own without having to drive everyone crazy, and he...

12 Mar 07

Child Support

4children @4children (13) • United States 12 Mar 07

What does it take to make some people to do the right thing. My ex and I have two children together. I have a child support order in place. This fool swears up and down he loves the kids, when he calls them every two to three...

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i caught my wife cheating on me.my friend is also involved.what do i do now????

inneedofmoney @inneedofmoney (40) • India 12 Mar 07

That b*tch cheated on me wid my childhood pal.After 7 yrs of our marriage she left me.I will get a divorce 4 sure or end up my life.Such a harsh betrayl.sombody help plz Help me plz......

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4children What you do now is not an easy question. It all depends on you. Are you ready to walk away, what is going to happen with the kids, etc. These questions are going to drive you completely nuts, but when it comes down to it you will do what you need to do to keep...

12 Mar 07

Do you think having a single child can make your child lonely in future ??

andysminky @andysminky (330) • India 12 Mar 07

We as parents play a vital role in our child's life right till the end .. today I have a daughter and dunno if going for one more child is really important .. I dont know whether I should have one more baby for me or for my...

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4children Honey it is a personal decision. You never know how things are going to turn out. We all want to do what is best for our kids, however it is hard when it comes to how many to have. I have four. Two of them get along. I have a twelve year old boy, a ten...

12 Mar 07

Are "grand parents" better today?

hockeygal4ever @hockeygal4ever (10021) • United States 12 Mar 07

Do you think that many grand parents today are just "younger" acting, hence making them just seem like better grand parents then yesteryears? There's such trends as vacations with the grandkids and things like that that prove...

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4children I don't think that the grandparents of today are better. I think that it is just a different time. I think that it was better before. Grandparents for us had actual wisdom. Now there is nothing for the grandparents of today to have much wisdom about. Our...

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