Arystocratt

@Arystocratt (5)

United States • Age 45

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Marriage a commitment or piece of paper

stacyv81 @stacyv81 (5903) • United States 26 Mar 07

Ok, so I have been with this guy for 6 years, have had two wonderful children and we all live together, but have yet to be "married". I am concerned with this as I am a christian, but is it necessary, religiously speaking to get...

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Arystocratt After you are married the marriage license really means nothing, you then have to look to the real meaning of marriage which is love and commitment. No one gets married so they can frame their marriage license on the wall. When you consider getting married to...

27 Mar 07

My husband still keeps his ex-girlfriends letters & photos..Is it ok?

cherinai @cherinai (65) • Philippines 20 Mar 07

My husband kept his ex-girlfriends photos and letters. At first I want to burn those letters and photos.However, I do not read them, its not because I am not interested, I am curious of course, its just because i dont want to...

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Arystocratt You should just let it be...It's hard to know that those reminders are there for him to go back to. But throwing them out will not make him forget, the memory will always be there. Even if you are jealous don't show it, Guys want to know we are always...

21 Mar 07

Who was Your Favorite Idol Last Night?

whiteheather39 @whiteheather39 (24403) • United States 21 Mar 07

For the first time Lakeisha was not my favorite Melinda was. I was also in agreement with Simon is she as sweet as she seems? I really like her demure she does not seem the least bit flashy or pushy. Who did you like the...

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Arystocratt Melinda was my fav too. I can't wait to see the below average singers sent home. It's so painful watching them struggle to compete. Then Melinda just shuts the show down.

21 Mar 07

are we lifeless

kamran12 @kamran12 (5526) • Pakistan 21 Mar 07

we get up in the morning. prepare ourselves for college/university or to go to work. we work all the day dealing with our studies or the customers/colleagues/boss etc. we come back to logon to internet or to see the affairs of...

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Arystocratt This is a great topic. I too am guilty of self-neglect.I find the only time I have to myself is in the shower or while I'm driving to work. Lately even those moments are shared with my 2 year old daughter. Sometimes we forget how important it is to set aside...

21 Mar 07

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Can a WRONG marriage make a RIGHT baby?

lordwarwizard @lordwarwizard (35747) • Singapore 12 Mar 07

We often refer to our spouses as our other halves. As a single, I've always wanted to find my missing half so that I would be complete. After all, 2 halves make 1 whole, right? Yet I was thinking... there are so many countless...

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Arystocratt Fortunaltely an imperfect union does not determine what type of human the two people will produce if they have a child. There are many children concieved from abusive relationships and they still manage to grow up and be respectful human beings. I think every...

12 Mar 07

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