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lean_rose @lean_rose (262) • Philippines 17 Jul 07

Which is harder to do?hoping that the one you love will love you? or trying to love someone who loves you?for me hoping for the one I love will love me is the hardest thing to do because you don't know when he/she will love me....

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Becca123 I think they are both equally hard.....the turmoil you feel when you love/care for someone and they don't respond is awful...and the guilt you feel when you know someone loves you and you don't feel the same is just as bad....but there has to be a time when...

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Becca123 @Becca123 (8) 15 Jul 07

How do you get over the sadness that you feel when you thought someone cared for you and they don't.It feels like everything is crumbling away...self esteem..courage to get on and do things has gone...i just feel so very sad.

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Becca123 Thank you for your advice...they are lovely words....and so true. Thank you and take care.

17 Jul 07

Becca123 @Becca123 (8) 15 Jul 07

How do you get over the sadness that you feel when you thought someone cared for you and they don't.It feels like everything is crumbling away...self esteem..courage to get on and do things has gone...i just feel so very sad.

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Becca123 Thank you for the advice you have given me.....they were lovely words...and so true. Take care.

17 Jul 07

Becca123 @Becca123 (8) 17 Jul 07

Has anyone listened to the Scott Matthews Album Passing Stranger....Its brill. What a gorgeous voice he has....I think the lyrics are stunning too.

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Becca123 @Becca123 (8) 15 Jul 07

How do you get over the sadness that you feel when you thought someone cared for you and they don't.It feels like everything is crumbling away...self esteem..courage to get on and do things has gone...i just feel so very sad.

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Becca123 I know things will improve..its just getting my thoughts to believe it too...i will just have to try and get my head round it all....to get my esteem back and be more positive.thanks for reply.

15 Jul 07

Becca123 @Becca123 (8) 15 Jul 07

How do you get over the sadness that you feel when you thought someone cared for you and they don't.It feels like everything is crumbling away...self esteem..courage to get on and do things has gone...i just feel so very sad.

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Becca123 no i'm not a school, i'm all grown up, or meant to be. Have cried so much, I know it will get better...I know time heals, but when you're in the thick of it its hard to see the light at the end of the tunnnel....Why do we do it to ourselves..we become so...

15 Jul 07

Becca123 @Becca123 (8) 15 Jul 07

How do you get over the sadness that you feel when you thought someone cared for you and they don't.It feels like everything is crumbling away...self esteem..courage to get on and do things has gone...i just feel so very sad.

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Becca123 I've tried to keep busy, I can't face speaking with people at moment because i hurt too much...case of trying to put on a brave face...it just feels so difficult to shake these sad feelings that i have away. thank you for reply..not done this before.

15 Jul 07

Becca123 @Becca123 (8) 15 Jul 07

How do you get over the sadness that you feel when you thought someone cared for you and they don't.It feels like everything is crumbling away...self esteem..courage to get on and do things has gone...i just feel so very sad.

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