Bluepatch responded to a discussion called Do you ever wonder what happens to your food when you are going out to eat. in questions & answers.
6 days ago
That's like the old adage of never going into the kitchen of a Chinese restaurant. If people were allowed to do this, go into kitchens as they please, we might get a lot of people being turned off food in restaurants. Its very possible they do things like that especially if they don't like the customer. Most of us will never know either.

Bluepatch responded to a discussion called Dealing with an empty nest. in the bible.
5 days ago
I think you need to adjust to your new situation. That's all. Spend some time thinking about how to do that instead of hanging on to the old sitaution and drifting all through your house trying to pick back up the past. It can be just as good now as before once the adjustment is made. So take the time to think about what you believe you need to do and then take more time to do it and you will a...

Bluepatch responded to a discussion called What is the saddest song you've ever heard? in listening to music.
5 days ago
I'm not sure but the theme from the Titanic comes close to this with me. Also, years ago the song " Don't take your gun to town, " and that other one where the hero dies just as his true love reaches his side. It was a western cowboy song. I don't know enough about music to hear old Hungarian songs but those would be my saddest.

Bluepatch responded to a discussion called Married someone you actually didn't love? in relationships.
5 days ago
I guess this does happen. I know one woman who is in crucifixion over being past 40 and not married. Others go their whole lives and just never marry. In my opinion it does not pay to marry just to be married. A woman who was married four times in her life once told me never to marry unless you're truly in love. I never did but do not regret this. At least I will not experience a loveless marri...

Bluepatch responded to a discussion called sleeping in the car while commuting to school in life.
5 days ago
Its not being rude to fall asleep when you're really tired. Tiredness is a natural thing. Besides, if you have to study that early you're going to fall asleep in the day anyway. Try to explain to the good lady that you need to study very early in the morning if you're going to get your degree and its almost impossible for you to stayt awake while being driven after that.

Bluepatch responded to a discussion called do you find it's hard to do grocery shopping? in questions & answers.
5 days ago
Tell her what you like and then discuss with her what she likes and then let her do the shopping accordingly. I don't think it should be a major problem to decide what groceries everyone wants. Let her walk with a list so she would not forget anything and try not to argue after that.

Bluepatch responded to a discussion called Have You Put Up You Christmas Tree Already? in philippines.
5 days ago
At home here in Trinidad we usually put up the Christmas tree at the begining of December. But right now in my office they have begun to put up the Christmas decorations. Some people put up their tree the week before Christmas Day. And, some people here in Trinidad hang lights up outside their house for the entire season all the way into January.

Bluepatch responded to a discussion called When did you met your partner. in life.
5 days ago
Sounds like a nice homely and endearing way to get to know the person you end up marrying. My story is a little different. I got a rental with a girl who was living in a townhouse and needed a partner to share the townhouse and pay half the rent and other expenses. After a very long time, a few years in fact, she told me she loved me and that I wasn't getting any younger and needed a person to ...

Bluepatch responded to a discussion called Have you ever been threatened with violent crime? in life.
1 day ago
I was assaulted in the streets of Port of Spain more than once. The first time it was hate, the second time it was robbery. I have also been threatened on the phone and in other places, like the office where I worked in 1972. Its hard to escape this because we live in a violent world. However, I am still living at 58 and still have no permanent damage. Thank God for that!

Bluepatch responded to a discussion called How to earn more from Neobux? in make extra money.
3 days ago
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