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Tina Arnold @Coffinspire92 (38) • Spring Mount, Pennsylvania 22 Dec 15

It's really not my fault actually. I didn't have a choice in the matter. From research that I've done, I've come to realize that we don't actually pick our partners. Rather, our parents show us what we want in a partner....

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Tina Arnold That's not what I meant. I'm saying psychologically, we base our love life on what we've seen from our parents (not always, but try to recreate it in a sense) and find a partner to fill that role.

28 Dec 15

Tina Arnold @Coffinspire92 (38) • Spring Mount, Pennsylvania 22 Dec 15

It's really not my fault actually. I didn't have a choice in the matter. From research that I've done, I've come to realize that we don't actually pick our partners. Rather, our parents show us what we want in a partner....

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Tina Arnold Yeah lol it's funny how that works out.

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Tina Arnold @Coffinspire92 (38) • Spring Mount, Pennsylvania 22 Dec 15

It's really not my fault actually. I didn't have a choice in the matter. From research that I've done, I've come to realize that we don't actually pick our partners. Rather, our parents show us what we want in a partner....

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Tina Arnold Oh yeah I would never say anything is definite or that it's going to happen, but since parents are literally your world when you're young and taught you to be everything you are (as you grow older friends and others come into play but your parents are your...

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Tina Arnold @Coffinspire92 (38) • Spring Mount, Pennsylvania 22 Dec 15

It's really not my fault actually. I didn't have a choice in the matter. From research that I've done, I've come to realize that we don't actually pick our partners. Rather, our parents show us what we want in a partner....

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Tina Arnold I wouldn't say I would like them to do anything illegal or mean (not mean to me anyway, to someone else if they had it coming to them, but not just because) My dad was like that though. Illegal, ready to kick someones butt for the people he cared for. There is...

28 Dec 15

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Tina Arnold @Coffinspire92 (38) • Spring Mount, Pennsylvania 21 Dec 15

I've mostly been researching why men and women do what they do together or apart and the social and physical reactions to relationships. It's really crazy actually, apparently what makes you physically attractive is completely...

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Tina Arnold @moffittjc Thank you very much! No kids yet, I've been bugging him about it though. Hoping to start a family soon. I'm a nanny so I know how it is with kids and I think I'm ready for it (not the pregnancy part, that's a whole other story)

23 Dec 15

Tina Arnold @Coffinspire92 (38) • Spring Mount, Pennsylvania 22 Dec 15

It's really not my fault actually. I didn't have a choice in the matter. From research that I've done, I've come to realize that we don't actually pick our partners. Rather, our parents show us what we want in a partner....

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Tina Arnold I'm so sorry to hear that :(

23 Dec 15

Wendy789 @Drosophila (16573) • Ireland 19 Dec 15

@jaboUK inspired this post with her post on "10 things I wonder about men". All I can say is well, women baffles men too.. This is a list I've compiled based on all the questions I've received from my male friends over the years....

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Tina Arnold @Drosophila Omg I know! My mom got us lost one year on the way back from the beach, and what do you know my YOUNGER brother (he was like 15 at the time) gets us through deleware and home! I slept in the back seat lol I knew my place in that situation...

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Tina Arnold @Coffinspire92 (38) • Spring Mount, Pennsylvania 22 Dec 15

It's really not my fault actually. I didn't have a choice in the matter. From research that I've done, I've come to realize that we don't actually pick our partners. Rather, our parents show us what we want in a partner....

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Tina Arnold Oh my husband isn't bad (well sometimes but not in a way that he will get himself into serious trouble) most of my exes were though. I always end up being with guys that remind me a little bit of my dad that's all. And I learned long ago that you can't change...

22 Dec 15

Tina Arnold @Coffinspire92 (38) • Spring Mount, Pennsylvania 22 Dec 15

It's really not my fault actually. I didn't have a choice in the matter. From research that I've done, I've come to realize that we don't actually pick our partners. Rather, our parents show us what we want in a partner....

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Tina Arnold @mommaj I noticed some people do that too. I depends on the person of course.

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Tina Arnold @Coffinspire92 (38) • Spring Mount, Pennsylvania 22 Dec 15

It's really not my fault actually. I didn't have a choice in the matter. From research that I've done, I've come to realize that we don't actually pick our partners. Rather, our parents show us what we want in a partner....

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Tina Arnold That's the thing, I ended up attracted to "bad boys" because my father had every bad boy trait in the book :/ It didn't really hit me that people actually base their partner off of their parents until my husband and I were talking about his mom and I was...

22 Dec 15

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Tina Arnold @Coffinspire92 (38) • Spring Mount, Pennsylvania 22 Dec 15

It's really not my fault actually. I didn't have a choice in the matter. From research that I've done, I've come to realize that we don't actually pick our partners. Rather, our parents show us what we want in a partner....

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Arnik @FREE_GUY (30) 20 Dec 15

Do girls really fall for bad boys or for so called "Good Boys". I really suspect, if there are any Good Boys....at least I don't know of any... I believe deep down every boy is a bad boy.. What do you have to say about it??

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Tina Arnold @DWDavis I can't really argue about it, 2 of my exes went to prison so :/ I've always been attracted to the bad boys.

22 Dec 15

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****DANIELLE**** @VivaLaDani13 (60355) • Perth, Australia 21 Dec 15

It is extremely rare that I wear odd socks. The ONLY time I would wear odd socks is if I couldn't find a matching pair and had no time to find a pair. Otherwise they MUST be the same. Even bothers me when other people have odd...

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Tina Arnold @VivaLaDani13 Girl we are totally on the same wave lol! I'm actually a babysitter and I do their laundry and I didn't know the whole thing about the unmatching socks fad, so I always put them aside to try and match them up, and then never found the matches...

22 Dec 15

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Tina Arnold @Coffinspire92 (38) • Spring Mount, Pennsylvania 21 Dec 15

I've mostly been researching why men and women do what they do together or apart and the social and physical reactions to relationships. It's really crazy actually, apparently what makes you physically attractive is completely...

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Tina Arnold I'm glad you can recognize that. I really can't be attracted to someone that I'm not physically attracted to AND attracted to their personality. I guess I'm weird :/

22 Dec 15

Tina Arnold @Coffinspire92 (38) • Spring Mount, Pennsylvania 21 Dec 15

I've mostly been researching why men and women do what they do together or apart and the social and physical reactions to relationships. It's really crazy actually, apparently what makes you physically attractive is completely...

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Tina Arnold @moffittjc It's only been a year but we've been together for 6 years, since I was 17.

22 Dec 15

Wendy789 @Drosophila (16573) • Ireland 19 Dec 15

@jaboUK inspired this post with her post on "10 things I wonder about men". All I can say is well, women baffles men too.. This is a list I've compiled based on all the questions I've received from my male friends over the years....

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Tina Arnold @Drosophila Lol Idk if it's girl thing or not because my brother and husband have zero problems navigating their way around, they think getting lost is a good challenge I guess and it helps them learn where they are going. I on the other hand start freaking...

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Tina Arnold @Coffinspire92 (38) • Spring Mount, Pennsylvania 21 Dec 15

I've mostly been researching why men and women do what they do together or apart and the social and physical reactions to relationships. It's really crazy actually, apparently what makes you physically attractive is completely...

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Tina Arnold @moffittjc Lol keep your fingers crossed for me!

21 Dec 15

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Tina Arnold @Coffinspire92 (38) • Spring Mount, Pennsylvania 21 Dec 15

I've mostly been researching why men and women do what they do together or apart and the social and physical reactions to relationships. It's really crazy actually, apparently what makes you physically attractive is completely...

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Tina Arnold @moffittjc Oh I'm married I know the feeling lol Things settle down and you find what you really want in a person after a while.

21 Dec 15

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Wendy789 @Drosophila (16573) • Ireland 19 Dec 15

@jaboUK inspired this post with her post on "10 things I wonder about men". All I can say is well, women baffles men too.. This is a list I've compiled based on all the questions I've received from my male friends over the years....

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Tina Arnold 1. Why do women always go to the toilet together? It's just so we have someone to talk to while we tinkle, or we say things that we couldn't say in public lol 2. Why do women say "Fine" or "Nothing" when clearly something is wrong? We are trying to figure out...

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Arnik @FREE_GUY (30) 20 Dec 15

Hello all, A very merry Christmas and a happy new year to everyone here and away. Since new year's eve is approaching fast, what say about your new year's resolutions? How do you plan to celebrate your holidays ? Share you plans...

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Tina Arnold @FREE_GUY Would love to but I don't like the awkward family gatherings. I was hoping to work all day so I didn't have to deal with that. I'm a bit of a scrooge I guess lol

21 Dec 15

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