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ANIME123 @ANIME123 (2466) • United States 23 Jan 10

I don't blame you if you call me weird for this,but I sometimes talk to myself when i'm alone only though.I guess I do it because I feel lonely when their is nobody their to talk to.I do it mostly so I won't get scared.I get...

talk to yourself weird

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CristiansNana Nothing weird in that..everyone talks to themselves whether they admit it or not!

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CristiansNana @CristiansNana (101) • United States 22 Jan 10

Or maybe more to the point: why do we define ourselves? I read so many discussions about how someone defines themselves or someone else and I hear many discussions about the same thing. Now I ask: why should we feel the need to...

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CristiansNana Ok...and that has to do with my question how?

23 Jan 10

CristiansNana @CristiansNana (101) • United States 22 Jan 10

Or maybe more to the point: why do we define ourselves? I read so many discussions about how someone defines themselves or someone else and I hear many discussions about the same thing. Now I ask: why should we feel the need to...

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CristiansNana If I had that answer I would be smart too cause I would be able to answer my own question!

23 Jan 10

CristiansNana @CristiansNana (101) • United States 22 Jan 10

Or maybe more to the point: why do we define ourselves? I read so many discussions about how someone defines themselves or someone else and I hear many discussions about the same thing. Now I ask: why should we feel the need to...

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CristiansNana When did we start trying to define ourselves? You are right; most of this does start in school. Either we are in one group or another and everyone feels the need to be part of something. By indulging that need, we start defining ourselves to ourselves and to...

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CristiansNana @CristiansNana (101) • United States 22 Jan 10

Or maybe more to the point: why do we define ourselves? I read so many discussions about how someone defines themselves or someone else and I hear many discussions about the same thing. Now I ask: why should we feel the need to...

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CristiansNana I don't feel the need either and I think you have kinda gotten to the heart of my question. Number one: why do we try and define ourselves and two why do we try and define ourselves to anyone else?

23 Jan 10

CristiansNana @CristiansNana (101) • United States 22 Jan 10

Or maybe more to the point: why do we define ourselves? I read so many discussions about how someone defines themselves or someone else and I hear many discussions about the same thing. Now I ask: why should we feel the need to...

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CristiansNana This is just my point. Why should anything define us? Why do we need to be defined? I don't think any one thing I do or say defines me.

23 Jan 10

CristiansNana @CristiansNana (101) • United States 22 Jan 10

Or maybe more to the point: why do we define ourselves? I read so many discussions about how someone defines themselves or someone else and I hear many discussions about the same thing. Now I ask: why should we feel the need to...

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CristiansNana The Lamb lies! He can sing and sing very well! I am the same way Vandana..simple. I don't need much and as long as I have what I need to get by I am happy.

23 Jan 10

CristiansNana @CristiansNana (101) • United States 22 Jan 10

Or maybe more to the point: why do we define ourselves? I read so many discussions about how someone defines themselves or someone else and I hear many discussions about the same thing. Now I ask: why should we feel the need to...

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kukaisiton @kukaisiton (702) • Philippines 14 Jan 10

i am so unhappy about the job that i have right now in research,probably bec of my boss who i find it hard to deal with. sometimes, i just email him just to get away from any personal meetings with him. it just scares me that he...

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CristiansNana Your post is saying 2 different things: One, that you have all kinds of time to do as you please in regards to how long you work in a day yet at the end you say you can't understand how people have time to go to events, have vacations or hang out! Things are...

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artistry @artistry (4152) • United States 13 Jan 10

What should be done with an engagement ring, if the wedding is called off? Should the ring be returned to the gentleman, or should the lady be allowed to keep it, since the ring was given to her? What are your thoughts? Is there...

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CristiansNana In the US and by law the ring must be returned. The ring was only given to her as a promise to marry. If the marrige does not happen the ring must be returned.

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Ansen zhu @mac_fish (723) • China 10 Jan 10

I mean the pyramid of authority and importance.The one on the top usually holds the power to make final decision of important affairs and also main income in family. The one really suck live at the bottom of the pyramid,a matter...

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CristiansNana And that....my friends....is how a family is suppose to work!

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Ansen zhu @mac_fish (723) • China 10 Jan 10

I mean the pyramid of authority and importance.The one on the top usually holds the power to make final decision of important affairs and also main income in family. The one really suck live at the bottom of the pyramid,a matter...

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CristiansNana Your "position"? I live in the US and no one family member is more important or less important than the other. We all work and contribute to our families the same. I have never understood this system you speak of and generally find that it is always the man...

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