Ferdian (@Customized) on myLot

Humbug25 @Humbug25 (12540) 4 Feb 09

I have got a secret but I don't want to tell anyone about it. I don't want to tell anyone because I fear I will be judged as I have made some mistakes about this sort of thing in the past! This time it is different though and when...

judge

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Ferdian its hard to keep my own secret. but keeping other secret its easy to do.. so i dont have any secret.. except other person secret.. lol

4 Feb 09

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jepoiysh @jepoiysh (29) • Philippines 23 Dec 08

when she/he make's time and effort just to be with me... when she/he care's to me a lot... and when she/he let me sleep at her/him lap. hehe hoow about you???

inlove

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Ferdian i never know what makes me fall in love.. i just know it and try tobe the best for her..

4 Feb 09

twinklee @twinklee (894) • India 25 Dec 08

Hi, we need shoulders to cry ..and we need hands on our shoulders when we laugh and smile tooo..! So to whom you will share ur joy and sorrow moments first???!!! why are you making him/her as a choice?

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Ferdian Share the joy with everyone you know. coz it's fun to make everybody happy with our joy.. But dont share your sorrow. just tell them with the right words. dont make them feel the sorrow you've got. but make them cheer you up again. the sorrow is just for the...

4 Feb 09

explorations @explorations (1712) • United States 9 Jan 09

Lately, I feel as though I'm surrounded by people who would rather "use me" for something than be social. For example, they'll call me only when they need me for something. And, when I'd like to get together, they're always...

best friends

friendship

true friends

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Ferdian i dont care about some one use me. i just want to be their best friends. let me tell you what i think.. "Let me be a papper for U.. so U can WRITE your FEELINGS SCRIBBLE your ANGER Use me to ABSORB your TEARS Dont throw me after u use it But when...

4 Feb 09

oyenkai @oyenkai (4394) • Philippines 23 Jan 09

Can we really know if we're intelligent? Isn't the "standards" for intelligence skewed because the same group of people who make the tests are the very people who are considered "smart" by that test? For example - the people with...

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Ferdian "Nothing is impossible". like u said, every one are genius in their field. you can say that some one smarter than you when they better than you when you compare it. the people with high IQ or EQ, is not always smarter than you, like u said again that see the...

4 Feb 09

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Ferdian @Customized (15) • Indonesia 1 Feb 09

I think that *someone who loves u, can't tell u why she/he loves u. he just know you are the only one..

loves

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jepoiysh @jepoiysh (29) • Philippines 16 Dec 08

how can i ignore my self from being selfish help me guy's

huhu

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Ferdian its easy.. try to think before u act.. its ok to be selfish.. but don't to often.. try to think about the peoples around u.. think hard.. just put some word to your mind "i want to be the one who care about others".. try to put a stone into your pocket and...

16 Dec 08

jepoiysh @jepoiysh (29) • Philippines 16 Dec 08

how can i ignore my self from being selfish help me guy's

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Ferdian its easy.. try to think before u act.. its ok to be selfish.. but don't to often.. try to think about the peoples around u.. think hard.. just put some word to your mind "i want to be the one who care about others".. try to put a stone into your pocket and...

16 Dec 08

maggii2687 @maggii2687 (79) • Philippines 28 Nov 08

These year has been the year of breakups among my friends. Some almost committed suicide some just play it cool. Just last night I couldn't sleep due to the two cups of cafe latte I took while being the shock absorber, the middle...

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Ferdian friends is everything.. but u can't rely everything to friends.. try to be the one they cannot forget.. if u tired of listening of their same problem, it's just what u think of.. coz, even they told u the same stories, the answer is not always same.. try to...

16 Dec 08

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Ferdian @Customized (15) • Indonesia 15 Oct 08

what did you do if she/he always lie to u? you don't know what to do coz she/he makes u love her/him every single day.

confused

lie

love

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SketcherD @SketcherD (1114) • Canada 15 Oct 08

I won't go into a great detail here but let's just say I STRONGLY dislike the girl my son is living with right now. There are a multitude of reasons. Two being he ran away from home with her and quit high school. Anyway I...

living together

son

what do you do when

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Ferdian i always makes my life simple. if it happened to me, what can i do. i just had to learn how to like her. i cant tell him to leave her. coz i didn't want to be in his position. can u imagine u had to leave someone u love just to make your parents happy?

15 Oct 08

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ChloeStrawberry @ChloeStrawberry (285) • Philippines 15 Oct 08

Lucky are the ones who never experience being cheated in their love relationships. Most people who did, gave their offending partner a second chance especially those who are married and have children. Is it worth the try to trust...

a cheater is always a cheater

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Ferdian There always hope in every cases. they cheat coz they didn't get enough love or they search the things their couple didn't have but usually, its because of their sx life.. just change the behaviour for her/him. give her/him more love than usuall. n try to...

15 Oct 08

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