Felicitus

@Felicitus (75)

United Arab Emirates • Age 67

Joined myLot 14 years ago

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Do you get along with your in-laws?

sguest @sguest (8) • Germany 20 Apr 10

I always got along fine with my in-laws, even though their belief system is very different from my own. However, recently my mother-in-law has become very judgemental and now I feel like she is the typical mother-in-law. What...

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Felicitus According to you you seemed to have got along with your MIL. Dont get cross with her. Give her a free hand to pass judgement. Even if she is wrong let her go ahead I am sure this will work. The more you show that you dont agree with her the more she will go on...

20 Apr 10

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Do u wash your hair with soap or shampoo..?

siliguri @siliguri (4241) • India 8 Apr 10

Do u rinse or wash your hair with soap is this harmful for hair nor using shampoo..sometimes i use to wash my hair with soap when there is no shampoo in my home...What about your story...?

hair

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Felicitus It is said that soap is not good to wash hair that it damages the hair. I use shampoo and I use it every other day. During the good old days we use soap and our hair was quite good. But today it is a different picture. So we go with the trend and use shampoo.

20 Apr 10

Boys in the womens' restroom - would you complain??

mommyboo @mommyboo (13174) • United States 16 Apr 10

I don't have a little boy, but I can certainly understand this dilemma. A friend of a friend recently had a very uncomfortable run-in with a... person who had an issue with the fact that her 8 year old son was standing inside the...

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Felicitus If I was the parent I would do the same. There are people who want to find fault and the watch and wait for opportunities. You or your child have not committed a crime so dont worry. I dont think she can take legal action against you. Just bear with her she is...

19 Apr 10

Are you compatible with your partner?

Urmyonly1 @Urmyonly1 (67) 18 Apr 10

Hi friends! Do you have a partner right now? Partner as in boyfriend/girlfriend or spouse. I just want to know if you can feel that you are compatible with your partner. Do you have a lot in commons? Do you share the same...

compatible

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Felicitus No you dont have to be 100% compatible for a relationship to work. Even opposites do attract each other. I think to make a relationship work you should try your best to understand, trust and love each other. Should not be shelfish.Try learn the partners...

19 Apr 10

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Do u sleep 8 hours daily at night...?

sanjani @sanjani (125) • Germany 3 Apr 10

Doctor said it is healthy to takes sleep at least for 8 hours..but it quite difficult to me..i usually sleep 6 hours at night...What about u friend..please share with me...?

sleep

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Felicitus I agree with you I too have the same problem. Normally I too sleep for about five hours. It is nice if we can sleep for 8 hours. There are people who do sleep for 8 hours, even if I try to sleep early I can fall a sleep for several hours.

19 Apr 10

Do you cut your nails by teeth?Why?

yoursjannat @yoursjannat (839) • India 18 Apr 10

Hi MyLotters, I've seen many of my friends cut nails with their teeth.What do you do?Do you you a nail cutter or use teeth?Often they use teeth when they are tensed.What about you.Let me know. Thanks Happy MyLotting!!

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Felicitus I use a nail cutter. It is not healthy to cut your nails by teeth. Yes when people are nervous they tend to bite their nails, this is a very bad habbit.

18 Apr 10

"Give me 1 dollar"

vine88 @vine88 (1031) • India 14 Apr 10

Interesting question right? If someone, suppose beggar ask you, "Give me 1 dollar in the name of Jesus (GOD)" If you are a christian, will you give him 1 dollar?

dollar for jesus

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Felicitus If I have money with me. I would give him a dollar. Charity is also a part of charity. So I dont see anything wrong in giving someone who does not have.

18 Apr 10

Does reading books really make someone smarter?

eddyspaghetti @eddyspaghetti (1225) • United States 16 Apr 10

When I was young I was always told that reading books made people smarter. I have found that this would include anything except for magazines, manga, and comics. In other words novels, which can be in any genre can increase one's...

bibliophile

book

bookworm

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Felicitus Yes reading books makes you smarter. It also makes you knowledgeable and you are well versed of many things around you. By this you become a very intelligent person. There is not limits to the knowleged you gather by reading, so always encourage others too to...

18 Apr 10

Purpose of going into a non-serious relationship

mae_dyrish @mae_dyrish (237) • Philippines 14 Apr 10

So what is the point in having a non-serious relationship? Do you feel it is worth it for all your time, money and effort and for your love to the person? Is this the right time for you to deal this kind of kinship without any...

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Felicitus Having a non-serious relationship sometimes leads to a serious realationship. But I think a non-relationship should not go on for too long, because either party might go for greener pastures. So you should have a non serious relationship with the idea of...

15 Apr 10

Does it annoy you when couples KISS in public..

HADDOWZ @HADDOWZ (1469) 14 Apr 10

Do people kissing, showing affection for each other in public really annoy you ? Surely in these times showing alittle love and affection is not the crime of crimes, yet some people, both male and female seem to think some...

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Felicitus I think an affectionate kiss between a couple is nothing wrong, but if it is too intimate they should not do it in public. It is also a bad example for teenagers.

15 Apr 10

Are there really runaway brides?

blue65packer @blue65packer (11826) • United States 14 Apr 10

I'm asking this because I have seen the movie with Julia Roberts and Richard Gere called Runaway Bride. Are there really runaway brides and why is the resaon?

is this true

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Felicitus Yes there are quiet a few runaway brides. Some are forced to get married to someone they do not love, while some are scared to take the bold step. I think if a bride feels that she is not sure of herself she better not take the plunge. It is better not do...

15 Apr 10

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Secrets for a happy married life.

hollowheart @hollowheart (1572) • India 13 Apr 10

Anytime within the next time i am expecting to get married. As it would be an arranged marriage and the process of bride search has started, I am very excited and at the same time a bit scared. The reason is time would be too less...

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Felicitus First find someone who will be able to share your interests. Give them a list of the qualities you would prefer for your bride to be. From there onwards you should be able to build your relationship. Even if you find someone you will have ups and downs in your...

14 Apr 10

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Cops have NO sense of humor!!

MagicalBubbles @MagicalBubbles (5103) • Canada 13 Apr 10

My 21 yr old nephew drives a red sports car. Him and his friends go out on the weekend and sometimes during the week also. He works at his dad's (my brother) company. He also likes to make fun of people but didnt we all at that...

cops

humor

qpp

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Felicitus I think that the cops have done a good job. They were good enough to question your nephew and others and when they found out the truth they let them go. I dont blame them they are only doing their duty. Your nephew is young and they normally do such things so...

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Who will you save?

jobmoone @jobmoone (442) • Philippines 1 Apr 10

If you can only save one of your family member in a sudden accident and you need to decide it right away who will you choose? and there's no other option, only which one will you value most to live with you?

family

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Felicitus First I will try for the impossible and pray to God to save both. If not I will opt for the one I can save without wasting time. and then try to save the other.

14 Apr 10

Does it matter to you how others think about you?

invisiblelady @invisiblelady (1655) • Philippines 8 Nov 09

Sometimes people can be silly. Really. No matter how you try to be good, they still have so much to say about you at your back. Do you mind? Do you care? Or do you try to ignore?

think

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Felicitus I think you continue to do good, dont worry about what others say to you. There are others too who will appreciate your good work, so dont worry those who speak bad behid your back does not have the guts to say to you, and actually they have nothing to say...

13 Apr 10

Does it matter to you how others think about you?

invisiblelady @invisiblelady (1655) • Philippines 8 Nov 09

Sometimes people can be silly. Really. No matter how you try to be good, they still have so much to say about you at your back. Do you mind? Do you care? Or do you try to ignore?

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Felicitus I think if you do your best and dont appreciate it, dont worry about what people say about you behind your back, they do not have the guts to say anything because there is nothing to say. So be happy and you be your self. Remember everybody is not the same,...

13 Apr 10

A helping husband

grace70 @grace70 (8) • Singapore 10 Apr 10

Hi dear ladies, do you have a husband who helps out in the family? I am glad to say that my husband is a great helper in the household. He not only help to bathe the kids, but also coaches them on their studies. In additon, he...

to have him in my life

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Felicitus Yeah it is nice to have a good husband who helps, even my husband helps me when I very busy, he too is capable of doing so many things and he can cook too. Why dont you get your husband interest in the cooking part as well. It will be helpful when you are sick...

13 Apr 10

My 9 year old son was caught stealing

littleone3 @littleone3 (2063) 8 Apr 10

I was so mad at him when I found out that he had been caught stealing from our local shop. He was given a warning. The people in the shop told my partner what had happened and asked him not to say anything to me or my son as they...

stealing

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Felicitus I think children at this age do tend to do these things. Do not treat him like a criminal. Teach him the values of life and tell him that if he continues to do this he will be classed as a thief, and what will lead him into if he continues to do. Try to win...

12 Apr 10