JenBth responded to a discussion called Confused: I thought people want us to respond to their discussions. in mylot.com.
1 week ago
I absolutely think you should respond to any discussion you want. When you first start out on here, how would you do any discussions? New people wouldn't respond and you could only respond to people you know. Its how you make these connections and therefore make more wide-spread and interesting discussions.

JenBth responded to a discussion called Which Browser you prefer for surfing!!! in internet.
1 week ago
I use nothing but Firefox at home- Explorer is soooo slow on my computer. I really am not sure why, but Explorer works fine at work so I use that, but Explorer is just so painfully slow at home, I have stopped using it completely. I feel like Firefox is more user friendly too and easier to navigate settings.

JenBth commented in a discussion called Confused: I thought people want us to respond to their discussions. in mylot.com.
6 days ago
I am curious about what you mean about which discussions "work and which to avoid". Do people honestly try to exclude you from discussions or badger you when you join a clique discussion between friends? If so, I think this is pathetic... (not you- the idea of this). I would think most people do not know each other as I think it would be weird if a bunch of friends got on here together instead ...

JenBth commented in a discussion called Has anyone ever stayed with anyone who has cheated on them? in relationships.
1 week ago
I am just curious what your thoughts were behind staying with this person. Its fine if you don't want to share more about it as this is of a highly sensitive and personal nature. I know people have many factors that influence staying in a troubled relationship. I personally don't feel that trying to work on a marriage or relationship where the other person cheated makes a person weak, or a pus...

JenBth commented in a discussion called Has anyone ever stayed with anyone who has cheated on them? in relationships.
1 week ago
You sound like a very strong person to have endured all of these things in your life. I think it is admirable that you have moved on and found happiness. I agree that people that pass judgment on others for not leaving in that situation have no clue what the individual is forced to endure and the emotional roller coaster you are on. Take care gabs!

JenBth commented in a discussion called Has anyone ever stayed with anyone who has cheated on them? in relationships.
1 week ago
That sounds awful... I do want to discuss what you said about you making a lot of mistakes. I don't know if you mean staying with him, or if there are other things that went on that you did not mention. If you mean that fact that you tried to stay with him- I really think you should try not to look at this as your mistake. If what you did was try to love a person you built a long relationship ...

JenBth commented in a discussion called Has anyone ever stayed with anyone who has cheated on them? in relationships.
1 week ago
I agree... I think to many women in abusive relationships are to scared, isolated and broken down to realize that their situation is not ok and they deserve much, much more from someone who should be an equal and caring partner.

JenBth commented in a discussion called Has anyone ever stayed with anyone who has cheated on them? in relationships.
6 days ago
I'm glad you were able to work though it to ultimately be happy. I think it takes a lot of strength to stay with someone and try to work on things. I think it is admirable to give it your best shot and recognize that it is on them after that and you could not have done anything more in your power to make the relationship succeed.

JenBth commented in a discussion called Has anyone ever stayed with anyone who has cheated on them? in relationships.
6 days ago
It's crazy that cheating can come in that form now with how technology is. You could be at home and with your significant other almost 24/7, but they can still be on their computer or texting on their phone. Technology is a gift in many ways, but it makes things difficult in many ways too.

JenBth commented in a discussion called Has anyone ever stayed with anyone who has cheated on them? in relationships.
6 days ago
I just think that many people get forced into staying in these relationships because they are financially tied to the other person, or have kids or a house together. Even if you wanted to leave immediately and never speak to the person ever again- you immediately have to think about where you are going to live, how to get out of a joint lease/mortgage/car payment, how to keep your kids, and how...