Judyyoungg started a new discussion called As one gets older, does the number matter anymore? in sex.
4 weeks ago
As a high school student, I have observed that some people count the different amounts of people they have slept with and that others just eventually, lose count. When people get older, do they keep counting? When you first meet someone of interest (e.g. dating), does it matter to you how many DIFFERENT people they have been with?I feel like it should, maybe not quite so much the number of ...

Judyyoungg started a new discussion called Where shall I go when visiting Venice? in venice.
4 weeks ago
Restaurants? Shows? Is there something famous I should know about or witness if coming to this beautiful city? My boyfriend is obsessed with this place, and I'm thinking about visiting one day. Let me know myLotters!

Judyyoungg started a new discussion called When going to India, where should I visit/stay? in india.
4 weeks ago
I've always wanted to visit India, the exotic rich culture just attracts me like no other. However, I have always thought about the safety of the country. I dont want to eat something off and have diarrhea the entire trip, nor do I want my money stolen or become nagged by unwanted pedestrians. If anyone has been and can tell me a review of their trip, that'd be awesome and greatly appreciated!

Judyyoungg started a new discussion called How much exercise should one get to stay fit? in healthy lifestyle.
3 weeks ago
Just this past year, I quit playing volleyball, which was the one thing that kept me fit pretty much year round. Now that I haven't played much, I've been feeling the little flub around my once trimmed waist. I want to get back into shape and stuff, but have been wayyyyyyy too busy to even stop and do some crunches! How much exercise should I do a day? Better yet, how many times a week? Fitnes...

Judyyoungg started a new discussion called When you begin to have that empty feeling, what do you do? in life.
3 weeks ago
Just recently, about a month ago maybe, I had my license revoked. The situation is stupid really but the point of the matter is that I can't go around freely like I used to. As a high school student, I already know where I want to live and what I want to do. How many kids I would like to have, what names I would name them, my ideal partner, my average sized house decorated to the way I like it,...

Judyyoungg responded to a discussion called Will you allow your partner to get a tattoo? in been in love.
4 weeks ago
Some people, like myself, have a tattoo because it has meaning. If he chooses something with meaning like your name or his children's birthdates etc. etc., I think it's fine for him to get one if he really wants something on his body. I agree that obnoxious tattoos like tribal symbols or even thorns along one's arms are tacky. Yet I do believe that you can't ever completely own someone, that y...

Judyyoungg commented in a discussion called Will you allow your partner to get a tattoo? in been in love.
4 weeks ago
OH, and just an add on. It can also depend on his design, colors tend to be more disgusting, size and location totally matters. Neck designs, wrists, or behind the ear stuff are gross, not to mention painful. Arms on guys are also atypical, so is the "tramp stamp" (the lower back area, usually on women). Mine is perhaps the size of an average cellphone SCREEN, on my left shoulder blade, which ...

Judyyoungg commented in a discussion called What's the difference between arrogance and confidence? in me.
4 weeks ago
Thank you for your response, that is definitely another good way to look at the differences between arrogance and confidence.

Judyyoungg commented in a discussion called How much is enough? in been in love.
4 weeks ago
Hi hatley, What you have said to me made plenty of sense, and I have decided to wait upon my college response letters before talking to my boyfriend about anything else serious for the time being. We had made amends and are doing fine for now; he's finishing up his midterms as I am finishing up college applications and maintaining good grades. And true, I am at a very young age, which makes m...

Judyyoungg commented in a discussion called How much is enough? in been in love.
4 weeks ago
Thank you very much, I appreciate your positive feedback and have realized that little important things like remembering, can be good enough sometimes. Thank you again.