@Nightshade13 on myLot

dorisday1971 @dorisday1971 (5657) • Philippines 21 Feb 13

If you start feeling being unhappy and not satisfied with your work, I believe that it is high time to ask yourself whether to quit or to continue working. It can be tough to decide for you have to consider many factors. If you...

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Nightshade13 Hi dorisday1971, for me, being happy with your job is a big factor to consider in deciding whether to stay in the company or not, however, another factor to consider is your "responsibility" with your family/yourself because we need money to survive in this...

21 Feb 13

nita04 @nita04 (268) • Philippines 14 Feb 13

I am totally amazed that people would turn to you and share their problems, and you are there just listening and in the end of their story, they will tell you, thank you for listening, I just needed somebody to talk to. What a...

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Nightshade13 Hi nita04, Usually, most of my friends would call me or meet me just to talk about something good that happened to them and most of the times to talk about their problems that they currently have, even though i don't usually get a lot of "thank you" from...

15 Feb 13

Tushavi @Tushavi (2077) • Karachi, Pakistan 5 Jan 13

hi to all well, we are Business peoples & I'm the one also, Now a Days I'm confused what to do??? My father have small business but needs very hard work to rise & shine this business in other hand I also have some job offer???...

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Nightshade13 Hi Tushavi, The good thing about going into business is that you are the boss of your own company, you don't need to obey someone else's rules and "time" is in your hands to control. however, venturing into business is a risk that if you're going to take it...

9 Jan 13

Nightshade13 @Nightshade13 (74) • Philippines 20 Oct 12

Dear Mylotters, I just had a quesion that's going around my mind lately... How can you trust a person who's beeen lying to you and sometimes keeping you from the truth for whatever reasons it may be, and when you find that out...

relationships

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Nightshade13 i guess you're right LovingMyBabies... i am hoping and praying that i will eventually get to move on with my life without him in my side, the memories of us being bestfriend will now just be written in my past and yes i agree with you that it really hurts but...

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Nightshade13 @Nightshade13 (74) • Philippines 20 Oct 12

Dear Mylotters, I just had a quesion that's going around my mind lately... How can you trust a person who's beeen lying to you and sometimes keeping you from the truth for whatever reasons it may be, and when you find that out...

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Nightshade13 that is very unfortunate, i am sorry to hear that. i hope everything will be fine soon, prayer and communication can help both of you to solve what you're currently going through.

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STOUTjodee @STOUTjodee (3572) • United States 31 Oct 12

Some people have a lot of education and are very smart "book" wise, but when they have a simple problem, they have no idea how to solve it because they never learned it in some book. Now there are people who don't have a college...

difference in education

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Nightshade13 I don't consider myself to be a very "book smart". For me, balance is the key, because if you only excel to being a book smart and only have those theories that you read from the book as your weapon, then you will have a hard time dealing with the outside...

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ofzhernandez @ofzhernandez (278) • Philippines 22 Oct 12

I am a person with shallow tears. I easily cry. Coz I am too sensitive. So every time I want to cry and I don't want everyone would see the tears falling into my eyes I usually bit my lips to stop the emotions that causing me to...

crying in the rain

hide your tear

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Nightshade13 Hi ofzhernandez, i am an emotional type of person as well, however, i managed to hide my tears to everyone. what i do is when i'm about to cry, i immediately think of something positive or funny, i changed the subject to switch from the negative feelings...

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aubrey @averygirl72 (37716) • Philippines 22 Oct 12

Right now, I seem to see that one of my greatest issue now is forgiveness. I am very careful not to offend others but I still unintentionally can offend others every now and then. My problem is that there are people who I guess...

challenge of forgiveness

forgiveness

forgiving

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Nightshade13 Hello averygirl72, i too had an issue about forgiveness, i'm having the same question if i really have to forgive someone who's done something irrevocable to my life. forgiveness, for me, depends on the weight of the sin that they have caused you, simple...

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Nightshade13 @Nightshade13 (74) • Philippines 27 Sep 12

Hi Mylotters! Good day! "When was the last time i Cried?" this is the question that comes to my mind when I'm all alone in my room just sitting and having my coffee in the morning, i just realize that i haven't cried for a...

cried

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Nightshade13 i had a feeling that you're relating yourself to my story... like i said, i met one person who fits to my description and i go for what i saw and what i feel. Don't let this comment give you the decision to stop crying, there are benefits to that and i...

22 Oct 12

Nightshade13 @Nightshade13 (74) • Philippines 27 Sep 12

Hi Mylotters! Good day! "When was the last time i Cried?" this is the question that comes to my mind when I'm all alone in my room just sitting and having my coffee in the morning, i just realize that i haven't cried for a...

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Nightshade13 hi nancyfancy, it's a good thing that you have roommates that might share the same feelings as yours and might understand what you are going through, i suggest you to find someone whom you really trust that is willing to be an outlet to those emotions,...

22 Oct 12

Nightshade13 @Nightshade13 (74) • Philippines 27 Sep 12

Hi Mylotters! Good day! "When was the last time i Cried?" this is the question that comes to my mind when I'm all alone in my room just sitting and having my coffee in the morning, i just realize that i haven't cried for a...

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Nightshade13 Hi ztuberi, i'm not encouraging you to cry, but, sometimes crying is good to let those stress and hurtful feelings that you just experienced be reduced even if on a tiny basis and it is really a good feeling after you cried. Also, i don't believed that this...

22 Oct 12

Nightshade13 @Nightshade13 (74) • Philippines 27 Sep 12

Hi Mylotters! Good day! "When was the last time i Cried?" this is the question that comes to my mind when I'm all alone in my room just sitting and having my coffee in the morning, i just realize that i haven't cried for a...

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Nightshade13 Hello Paper_Doll yes, i look at them like a hollywood star and that's the movie that they're making. Although, i always give the benfits of a doubt to the person, however, i can't really explain it thoroughly, i just felt it. i mean, you will feel if the...

22 Oct 12

Nightshade13 @Nightshade13 (74) • Philippines 27 Sep 12

Hi Mylotters! Good day! "When was the last time i Cried?" this is the question that comes to my mind when I'm all alone in my room just sitting and having my coffee in the morning, i just realize that i haven't cried for a...

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Nightshade13 Hello there, crying is not actually bad in fact i believed it can take away the stress of a person, it can lighten up the negative feelings that's inside of him. i also did not say that ALL cries are not real, off course people cry for a reason, however,...

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Nightshade13 @Nightshade13 (74) • Philippines 20 Oct 12

Dear Mylotters, I just had a quesion that's going around my mind lately... How can you trust a person who's beeen lying to you and sometimes keeping you from the truth for whatever reasons it may be, and when you find that out...

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Nightshade13 yeah, dissapointments is the effect of that and it is really hard to dealt with. if they lie to you, you will end up being dissapointed in them, especially if you respected the individual. I would rather had that person slap me in the face and tell me all the...

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Nightshade13 @Nightshade13 (74) • Philippines 20 Oct 12

Dear Mylotters, I just had a quesion that's going around my mind lately... How can you trust a person who's beeen lying to you and sometimes keeping you from the truth for whatever reasons it may be, and when you find that out...

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Nightshade13 Like what you said you know me... i always give the benefits of a doubt, always, however, like i mentioned what if this has become an extensive behaviour? what's become of that person? i mean, in terms of its character and attitude? i am also concerned about...

22 Oct 12

chubbychubchub @chubbychubchub (90) • Philippines 21 Oct 12

I hate it when people only remember me whenever they need something from me. and worst they act very demanding giving me deadlines even though they're not paying me. they will never stop nagging me whenever i don't priorities...

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Nightshade13 Hi chubbychubchub, i guess the mere fact that some of your so called "Friends" remember you only when they needed you is enough for you to realize that those are not your true friends. As far as i believed that true friends are there for you even in your...

21 Oct 12

leateagee @leateagee (3667) • China 20 Oct 12

Being greedy to what we love and make us comfortable and happy. Who cares? It's my life. "It is my life, but the problem is I am indulge with bad practices that affects my career, relationships, health and the whole...

control

control yourself

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Nightshade13 Hello Leateagee, true, vices are all over, but it is a matter of choice wether to give in or not, i mean it's up to you if you're going to control yourself for all those vices or not, you are the only person that can say "no" to them. if you say that its...

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Nightshade13 @Nightshade13 (74) • Philippines 20 Oct 12

Dear Mylotters, I just had a quesion that's going around my mind lately... How can you trust a person who's beeen lying to you and sometimes keeping you from the truth for whatever reasons it may be, and when you find that out...

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Nightshade13 Hi Dominique25, just like you, everytime i think about those things, i always ended up being upset or ruined my day. Although there are logical reason's why a person lies to another, but it's just sad, especially if you cared so much for that person and...

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Nightshade13 @Nightshade13 (74) • Philippines 20 Oct 12

Dear Mylotters, I just had a quesion that's going around my mind lately... How can you trust a person who's beeen lying to you and sometimes keeping you from the truth for whatever reasons it may be, and when you find that out...

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Nightshade13 and that is what i am going through right now, i am weighing things up. and i could tell that a year of friendship is not easy to end, i'm still giving the thought that the person might change his/her attitude...

20 Oct 12

Nightshade13 @Nightshade13 (74) • Philippines 20 Oct 12

Dear Mylotters, I just had a quesion that's going around my mind lately... How can you trust a person who's beeen lying to you and sometimes keeping you from the truth for whatever reasons it may be, and when you find that out...

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Nightshade13 Hello GemmaR, yeah, i'm still thinking and having a hard time deciding whether or not i should let go of that friendship i had treasured so much. i could forgive the person, but it is not in my nature to forget things. i guess you have a point that i...

20 Oct 12

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