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SViswan (3270)
gender: female
age: 32

location: bangalore
country: india
 

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became member 2 years ago
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profile last updated 2 years ago

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SViswan commented in a discussion called Congratulations or Sympathy? in people.
2 hours ago
Maybe I should have....but I'm not very close to this person and she looked so happy...she called me over to tell the news...that it didn't even cross my mind that she would be unhappy about it.


SViswan commented in a discussion called Would you tell your friend? in people.
2 hours ago
Even though they do not get along well...the mother does not behave that way with the kids...in fact it is the grandmother who tends to shout (I can hear her up here) and that's where they learnt it from. Anyways, the mother has quit her job (after I talked to her) and taken up another job where she is home before the kids are...so she makes sure the kids are well behaved.


SViswan commented in a discussion called Would you tell your friend? in people.
2 hours ago
I have told my friend and she has handled the situation well.


SViswan commented in a discussion called Would you tell your friend? in people.
2 hours ago
I talked to everyone involved in this situation...separately. My friend has taken up another job where she is home before the kids are...and she says it is her responsibility to see that the kids behave.


SViswan commented in a discussion called Would you tell your friend? in people.
2 hours ago
I did tell her and she took a wise decision.


SViswan commented in a discussion called Would you tell your friend? in people.
2 hours ago
I spoke to all of them...separately. The mother has changed jobs (due to this) and is now back home before the kids are. So, the kids are not in the care of the grandma and the mother is aware of everything that happens and can correct the bad behaviour as soon as it happens.


SViswan commented in a discussion called Would you tell your friend? in people.
2 hours ago
I actually spoke to the boy first and he was sorry for what he did. But I did tell him I will speak to his mother...which I did. And she changed jobs to be home when the kids are so that she could be the one disciplining them (which obviously the grandmother wasn't doing)


SViswan commented in a discussion called Would you tell your friend? in people.
2 hours ago
I did and the mother has taken a wise decision.


SViswan commented in a discussion called Would you tell your friend? in people.
1 hour ago
Though the boy is polite to me, I asked my son if it has happened before and he replied in the affirmitive. I then spoke to the boy and the grandmother and last to the mother.


SViswan commented in a discussion called Would you tell your friend? in people.
1 hour ago
I talked to the mother. Even though she doesn't get along with the MIL, she is always respectful. It is the MIL who shouts and throws a fit everytime.

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Tantrums

Recently, I read two different theories of handling a child (especially a toddler) when they are throwing a tantrum. One theory said that the toddler throws a tantrum when they are frustrated. And...

Started by SViswan (3270) in parenting • 57 responses • Last response by newzealtralian (1867) • 23 minutes ago
Tags: tantrums, tantrum, parenting, comfort, ignore
Would you tell your friend?

My neighbour goes to work and her mother-in-law is home with the kids because the kids are having school vacations. My son goes over to their house some days to play and some days the kids come over...

Started by SViswan (3270) in people • 85 responses • Last response by SViswan (3270) • 1 hour ago
Tags: friends, kids, friend, rude, child
Congratulations or Sympathy?

I don't know what to make of this situation. There's this couple with a 3 year old child who moved into our apartment complex around a year back. In the course of our conversations, they have made...

Started by SViswan (3270) in people • 108 responses • Last response by SViswan (3270) • 2 hours ago
Tags: mature content, pregnancy, sympathy, congratulations, unwanted pregnancy
Spouse's best friend

Would you mind if your spouse's best friend was someone of the opposite gender? I know some of you consider your spouses as your best friends....but besides you, does your spouse have a best friend?...

Started by SViswan (3270) in relationships • 40 responses • Last response by SViswan (3270) • 2 hours ago
Tags: best friend, mature content, relationships, friend, jealousy
As a child you were...

We usually talk about our kids....but what kind of a child were you? Naughty? obedient? Silent? Playful? I can think up of many more. I feel I was a brat...lol...very very different from what I am...

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