| | | my activity | Ysabel responded to a discussion called have you ever been in a relationship with a maniputator? in relationships.
3 weeks ago
 yes, and indeed the relationship is very stressful. only that i have loved the person so much that i embraced the character and at that has only made it more difficult. i totally accepted and embraced it to the point that i thought i am weak and as a weak person,i need someone to manipulate me. too bad. i have to overcome and completely understand that it is not me, i am strong, i am not the on... |
| Ysabel responded to a discussion called What are you thankful in your life? in questions & answers.
3 weeks ago
 a lot of things! i am thankful for the love of my life! i have a job and i have friends that i can count on. surely, there are things that pull me down at the moment. things that would keep me from looking at how bright life is. .. but i do not want to focus on that. i am thankful that i have the strength to face life despite of its difficulties. that i am alive and kicking. that despite of my ... |
 | Ysabel commented in a discussion called How do you collect money from a friend? in questions & answers.
3 weeks ago
hello ethanonthemoon... thanks for the response.. but just in case you didn't notice, this discussion was created nine (9) months ago...[em]lol[/em]anyway, it has already been settled, but it was not that easy then. at times, when money matters get in the way of friendship, one has to reconsider which is more valuable. and more often than not, its the relationship or the friendship matters... |
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| Ysabel commented in a discussion called have you ever been in a relationship with a maniputator? in relationships.
3 weeks ago
hello linamachina.. i like your point of view... sometimes though, a manipulator is really "insecure" deep inside, and this manipulating others could just be the defense mechanism to cope up with what he/ she thinks is that person's weakness. that person is oly covering-up (or at least trying to) cover up his/ her insecurites and so manifested in this character of manipulating. indeed, having a... |
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 | Ysabel received a best response in the discussion how do you handle undisciplined officemates? by ethanonthemoon.
1 week ago
wow, what a situation... if relatively new, then such an arrogant person! am i too judgmental? maybe because i have not encountered such person in my work areas. the newbies we got were all very courteous, respectful, and really knew that since they are newbie, that have to do the adjustments more than the older or the senior ones. in this case, you need to put a borderline on work and personal... |
| Ysabel received a best response in the discussion what do you think of willie revillame? by ethanonthemoon.
1 week ago
well, i am not a fan.. but let's face it. the network is gaining so much popularity on noontime slot and though a lot of people are pissed-off with his daily dramas and totally off the track making-fun of staff and malicious looks on sexy girls, and favoring lolos and lolas to win on the games, the majority of the Filipinos especially the masses are entertained by all of these! one can just con... |
| Ysabel received a best response in the discussion the presidentiables: who do you think will win? by ethanonthemoon.
1 week ago
hello Ethan! .. nice nick!... i think it is just too early to say at this point in time... there's so much more bound to happen!.. the campaign period has not even officially started yet. and hey, the filing of candidacy has not yet ended. the orange may not even run, and the newbie claiming to out an end to the trapos.. has already turned to a trapo as early as now! look at his ads on tv!... h... |
| Ysabel received a best response in the discussion are you a trusworthy person? i think, i am. by ethanonthemoon.
1 week ago
To be trustworhty is a value in you a person. It does not come only in your professional life, but it should be in the total you, and reflects in all areas of your life: financial, personal, working relationships, personal relationships. Trust is not given, it is earned. You earn it by being[b]transparent[/b],[b]being honest[/b], n[b]ot hiding things[/b], not keeping a secret,[i][/i][i][/i][... |
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| | discussions i've started | | I already told my friend that I already need the money but she keeps on promising to return it to me but until now, it's still a promise!
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| I was at home with my family! We prepared food and cooked and listen to loud songs to perk up the celebration. While waiting for the Year 2009 to come, around 11:30 pm, we went out to watch fireworks... | |
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| I sent a text message to the office earlier today and advised that I'm on sick leave.
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| Or would you rather require that this newbie has a certain number of posts first, like a 100 posts perhaps, before you accept a friend request?
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| I don't want to work anymore. I feel so lazy! I just want to stay home, relax, eat, sleep, do the things i want to do, like dvd marathon, go online, call my friends and stay on phone for hours,... | |
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| my best responses | | Undisciplined as in they are just new and they don't obey seniors, like me.
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| I mean, do your personally know the guy? How is he as a friend? How is he as a person? Is he really like the persona he shows in that noontime show of his, Wowowee? What do you think of him? Is he... | |
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| Among those candidates running for the highest seat in Philippine government, who do you think will make it? Who are you rooting for? Who is your best bet?It can be the wars of the colors. Orange... | |
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| Hi mylotters!I have recently been chosen to be a petty cash loan custodian by our cooperative chairman. A nice position in our cooperative, considering the officers gave me a lump sum of money to... | |
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| They seem to be distinct from boyfriend/girlfriend/partner, and still quite distinct from best friends or close friends... And they also said that they're not friends that happen to be special (which... | |
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