| | | | my activity | abhi_destar responded to a discussion called Why I am so concerned about others? in life.
2 months ago
 This is not concern that you're feeling. This is just plain old insecurity. Trust me, I've gone through this.
First of all, know for yourself that your time is yours alone and you decide how to spend it. You know your syllabus and the time it may take for you to complete it, so you have to plan your course of action. Our mind tries to switch over into escape mode whenever we are faced with a... |
| abhi_destar responded to a discussion called Do you easily give up in a relationship? in relationships.
2 months ago
 I find similar occurrences around any beautiful girl. Actually a beautiful girl always has a bunch of suitors thronging around her in the hope that some day she'll choose one of them as her partner. So she's never out of choices. The poor guys who simply can't think about anyone else but her are just like dresses in a shop to her. She tries out one for a few months, and then decides to throw hi... |
| abhi_destar responded to a discussion called Being Someone's 2nd Choice in love.
2 months ago
 Well, you are still lucky, though. Girls have never seen me as a prospective boyfriend. The most I have managed to be is like a brother to them!![em]angry[/em] Or else, I'm totally invisible to them. But at times, I feel as though this is better. At least I'm independent to do whatever I like, whenever I like. |
| abhi_destar responded to a discussion called Do you sing along.....??? in life.
2 months ago
 I do sing along, indeed, but I do that softly if other persons are with me. That way, the people who want to hear the actual voice of the singer are also not hampered. If the song also is a soft one, then I usually just lip-sync along with it. If I am listening to music on my iPod, then I usually just lip-sync along with it. I learn the full songs by heart if I like them, so singing along is ne... |
| abhi_destar responded to a discussion called have you proposed any one? in mylot.com.
2 months ago
 I have a different philosophy altogether. In my life, I've seen people who have fallen in love with each other, but after a while, it only becomes a habit, nothing else. It becomes boring to be always with the same person, and if you even suggest going out for a while with your other friends, your partner will be offended and if you're unlucky, may even suspect you of trying to woo another part... |
| abhi_destar responded to a discussion called Did you notice.? in questions & answers.
2 months ago
 They are nothing but adverts which pop up related to those keywords. At least, that is what they are in other sites. If the word "house" is underlined and you mouse over it, a pop up displays an ad about house for rent. I don't know why the ads aren't being displayed here and why the underlines themselves disappear when you mouse over them. I think this is just an introductory phase thing that ... |
| abhi_destar responded to a discussion called How do people still afford to go out every night? in people.
2 months ago
 I don't think people go out every night. It just happens that there are so many people that some of them or the other are going out. So the theatres and restaurants are never empty. If people really started going out every night, then after a short while, even if they had all the money in the world, they would simply get bored with it and stop by themselves. So I don't think this is the case. C... |
| abhi_destar responded to a discussion called Good MyLot Advice! in mylot.com.
1 month ago
That's something which I've always done for the meaningful responses I've got for my discussions, and there is always very few of them. I don't know how helpful it has been to me, but I know this: that I expect similar behaviour from other myLotters too for my responses, so I myself should do the same for them. Of late, my motivation for myLotting is steadily dwindling. When I start a discussio... |
 | abhi_destar commented in a discussion called Good MyLot Advice! in mylot.com.
1 month ago
I've never posted discussions in politics or religion, trust me. They are about the topics I hate the most and would never like to post in. I feel bored with those topics. I usually post topics in life, and perhaps computers and myLot. |
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