ambush101

@ambush101 (16)

Philippines • Age 43

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Role of eye contact in conversation.

sreejithsreenivas @sreejithsreenivas (10200) • India 23 Feb 07

Eye contact plays an important part in conversation.If the eye contact is not proper,it leads to lot of mis- understadings.We can inrterpret different meaning from this.

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ambush101 i cannot bring myself to trust a person who cannot look you in the eye during a conversation, no matter how casual. there's something in eye contact that expresses your interest in a conversation and more importantly, your sincerity in the things you are...

23 Feb 07

can you share something good happened to you today? the past week?

im_anna @im_anna (717) • Philippines 22 Feb 07

did your child do something that made you feel good? how about your husband/wife, sis/bro, friends? what happened on your way to work/home/grocery?

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ambush101 i was able to take a whole week leave from work and i was able to bond with my almost 4-month-old son. i felt recharged and emotionally happy as i was starting be burned out from work and guilt of leaving my baby everyday.

23 Feb 07

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Celebrity Look-Alike

ctv101103 @ctv101103 (859) • Philippines 21 Feb 07

Just for fun... who would you say (or others say) is your celebrity look-alike? i have heard (many times) that i look like sharon cuneta. LOL! how about you?

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ambush101 it has always been either giselle sanchez, gelli de belen, and recently more and more people are saying i have a heart evangelista angle. funny thing, i once was in an elevator with giselle sanchez and when my friend openly teased me about it, giselle...

23 Feb 07

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What is the latest movie you have watched in big screen?

jodyliwanag @jodyliwanag (151) • Philippines 19 Feb 07

I have not been watching movies in big screens lately because I am usually busy with work and tending with kids. We usually just watch home videos. The latest movie I have watched in big screen was Superman Returns. Any...

watching in big screen

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ambush101 my husband and i choose the movies in the big screen, the latest being, ghostrider. we choose the ones that have interesting graphic effects, whose full impact couldn't be enjoyed if watched at home.

23 Feb 07

What comes first work or family?

BuffMom @BuffMom (2206) • United States 17 Oct 06

If you had to choose which comes first would it be your job or

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ambush101 indeed it depends on your situation, but for me it would be family first, no contest there. yes, it may be hard to find a job that you really enjoy and the compensation and benefits are irresistable, but you have only one true family that is not easily or...

16 Feb 07

wedding ring, where do you put yours? left or right hand?

burieks @burieks (127) • Philippines 7 Feb 07

for married people out there, where do you put your wedding ring? on your left hand or right hand? i put mine on my right hand because that's what the priest told us during the seminar. i'm just confused because i see a lot of...

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ambush101 we wear them on our right hands because that's where the priest told us to put them on during our wedding. hubby never took of his ring, while i had to alternately transfer mine from the middle to the ring finger because my fingers got a bit bigger during my...

16 Feb 07

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18 months old and loves to dance, is it WRONG to force her to take lessons?

lullabell @lullabell (436) • United States 14 Feb 07

My daughter loves to dance. She will wiggle her hips while i change her diaper even!(if there's music on) I have a 14 yr old girl too. i wanted her to be my ballerina but she loathed dance classes. She liked to dance too but...

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ambush101 as with anything else, i don't think "forcing" anybody to do anything isn't healthy. instead of forcing your daughter to take dance lessons, why don't you bring her along and watch some dance classes first? expose her in things that would hopefully catch her...

15 Feb 07

Stay at home, or have a job?

ethanmama @ethanmama (1745) • Philippines 13 Feb 07

For women, would you rather fill the traditional role of being a housekeeper? Or would you work? For men, would you rather have a wife who stays at home? Or would you rather let her pursue a career?

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ambush101 i am a working mom, and although i would rather stay home, personally take care of my baby and witness all his "firsts", i chose to work to help my husband financially prepare for our baby's future. the cost of living here in manila is high, so a double-income...

14 Feb 07

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Where do you work?

myworkid1987 @myworkid1987 (755) • United States 14 Feb 07

Where do you work and do you like it? I work at a 2nd hand thrift store. Goodwill. I like it. Its like shopping all day while im working. The stuff is so cheap and its good stuff.

employment

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ambush101 i work in an online game publishing company. we get license for online games from other countries and distribute them locally. it's fun because for a gamer like me, this is heaven. it's playing, AND GETTING PAID FOR IT! of course there are actual work to be...

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wedding or marriage?

annaliezelsantos @annaliezelsantos (13) • Philippines 8 Feb 07

what do you think about people getting very excited about their wedding...and don't realize that wedding is just a day..marriage is lifetime commitment..you should prepare for a lifetime process of knowing the person you...

marriage

wedding

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ambush101 i guess it's okay to get excited about their wedding, especially for women who probably started planning about their "dream wedding" since the day they walked down the aisle as flower girls. it's one of the very few days in a non-celebrity woman's life that...

14 Feb 07

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Breastfeeding in Public

oscar30 @oscar30 (45) • United States 13 Feb 07

In the state I live in (Wisconsin) we are debating legislation to protect the rights of Mothers to breastfeed their babies in public. I cannot believe this is an issue, or that a woman was actually asked to leave a Delta flight...

breastfeeding

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ambush101 i'm breastfeeding my 3-month-old son since birth and whenever we are out of the house, i don't hesitate feeding my baby when he's hungry, regardless of some curious lookers and some raised eyebrows. good thing, there's no such law here in the...

14 Feb 07

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in time for valentines, let's reminisce marriage proposals...

yanple @yanple (164) • Philippines 7 Feb 07

would you mind sharing that time when you almost catch your breath when your partner asked you "will you marry me?" for some, it may be the sweetest surprise, but for me, it wasn't. lol. my partner proposed in a different way,...

marriage proposals

proposal

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ambush101 coming from a broken family, my then-boyfriend never believed in marriages. even when we were still friends, and the talk of marriage comes up, he admits that he swore to himself that he would never get married. about 2 months into the relationship, while...

12 Feb 07

When a mother leaves her child to work abroad...does that make her a bad mother?

selina0625 @selina0625 (1379) • Philippines 3 Feb 07

Three weeks from now I'll be leaving my seven month old child to my parents and my husband to go abroad for a job.All I wanted is a good future for my child. A life that is financially secured.I want him to study in a good school....

child

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ambush101 to answer your question, no, you're not being a bad mother when you have decided to leave him to work abroad. you have his best interests at heart for a reason for leaving. however, don't think that you "cannot give him that if I jsut stay home to be a...

12 Feb 07

How much TV would you allow your toddler to watch?

ldmagat @ldmagat (24) • Philippines 8 Feb 07

My 1.5yo daughter watches Dora, Barney, Baby Einstein and such. But I didn't expose her to TV. Since now she's a parrot (imitates words here and there), I wouldn't want her to catch vulgar actions or words. I would want to...

parenting

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ambush101 i agree that taking TV all together wouldn't be healthy, so is depending on TV to "educate" your child. our children will find out about those vulgar words, or other worse things, in one way or the other so i think it is better to focus our concern on helping...

12 Feb 07

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Sleeping Arrangement with Babies

teyang @teyang (136) • Philippines 8 Feb 07

What do you think is the Best Sleeping Arrangement for Babies (age 1 to 2) & why? Is it beside you,same room but separate bed, or in another room.

sleeping arrangement

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ambush101 i co-sleep with my baby so i can respond to his night-time needs right away. at 3 months, i believe this is the stage when my baby needs to feel secure of being loved. and security is one of the factors that makes a difference between a "difficult" child and a...

12 Feb 07

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N@W members: put your info here!!!

everafter @everafter (378) • Philippines 6 Feb 07

Maria Jade Gutierrez 12.27.06 Cody 11.18.04

weddings

weddingsatwork

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ambush101 am not sure what info to so add ko na lang sa name ko yung sig ko sa n@W :) Meng Morales meng ni keith 12.03.05 constantine keith "issen" 11.02.06

6 Feb 07