ancazur

@ancazur (22)

United States • Age 41

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Can you write in Cursive writing?

manzician @manzician (4727) • India 23 Nov 06

I can't.

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ancazur I CAN, but that doesn't mean you can read it. I learned it at a really early age, so I don't think it's improved at all since I was 5 years old :P

21 May 07

Purpose Driven Life, is it really effective?

zerlake @zerlake (12) • Philippines 21 May 07

Purpose Driven Life has been tagged as bestseller worldwide, but based on result, did it make some positive changes in one's life? Can you testify of its effectiveness? Or is it just one of the books who fades as the years pass.

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ancazur It's a passing fad. The only book you need for a "purpose-driven life" is the Bible, and don't let any best-seller tell you otherwise.

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Can Long Distance Relationships really work?

charlina @charlina (158) • Philippines 2 Feb 07

For me distance is not the end of the world in a relationship. Although sometimes you may feel like you are losing faith in your relationshop at times.. but hold fast and trust your heart! I truly believe that love &...

relationship

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ancazur My fiancee & I are long distance, and will be for a couple more years. It's so hard, but it's worth it. I feel LDRs can work if there's a definitely ending point to the distance. If two people are together with no idea when they'll be together... THAT'S...

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When did you first fall in love?

simpleatif @simpleatif (2508) • China 2 Feb 07

When did you first fall in love?

relationships

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ancazur True love, 20. Puppy love, 13. Hey, I still count it.

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Can you smell the aroma of your OWN FART?

PoeTalker @PoeTalker (715) • United States 25 Jan 07

Can you? I can't smell my own farts... my boyfriend can but I can't. I know a few people who can't smell theirs either. Anyone else have this experience?

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ancazur I've never heard of that! I can smell mine.. when they're stinky, at least. haha

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Why are the people in the BIG city so cold/mean?

fiveisallofus @fiveisallofus (273) • United States 2 Feb 07

Im from a little town of about 7000 people and before that I lived in a town of about 60,000 people. When Ever you go somewhere someone alwys says "Hi" or "How ya doin?" If you are driving down the street people wave hi or throw a...

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ancazur this is more in response to julie's reply... I've often walked right into tourists because they're gawking at a bulding, or something. City folk are seemingly rude because everyone else interrupts the flow... if I'm running late for class, I dont want to...

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Is it ok to borrow money from your boyfriend?

faylinn_chaeli @faylinn_chaeli (1619) • Philippines 31 Jan 07

Recently we opened a joint account with our own money in it. I told him 3 days ago that I want to have a small business, and then he said ok, I will lend you some money. And I said ok, thank you. I mean, for some, isn't it...

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ancazur My boyfriend & I have borrowed money a few times.. we don't depend on it, but we'll give the other some cash if we know they're in a pinch. I see nothing wrong with it.

31 Jan 07

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pro life

danceteacher @danceteacher (69) • United States 31 Jan 07

I am 100% pro life ! I was just wondering how people can just go out one day and have an abortion done, some women use it as birthcontrol. Why do they not feel for that tiny life ? I would never bash anyone who had it done, I am...

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ancazur I completely agree with you. It breaks my heart when I hear women having an abortion, even moreso if it's not their first. I know it's not an easy decision for them, but I would never be able to kill a fetus. I once saw a bumper sticker that read, "Smile!...

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Relationships : Is money important?

rachelcaron @rachelcaron (1679) • United States 30 Jan 07

Would you date/marry someone who didn't have any money? Would you date/marry someone who you thought was just ok, but had a lot of money? I know a lot of people are all about the money and how much someone has. I think that is...

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ancazur My fiancee & I both know that I'll be making more money than he will. It was kind of weird to think about that at first, because we both believe the man should be the bread winner, but it never put a strain on the relationship. Money has nothing to do with...

31 Jan 07

CHILD BAPTISM

mlmpeople @mlmpeople (777) • India 18 Dec 06

What do you say about child baptism ?

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ancazur Are we talking about children, or infants? I don't agree with baptising infants because they don't understand what's going on. Baptism is a personal agreement between you and God. Children, on the other hand, I have no issue with. As long as they understand...

31 Jan 07

Marriage or Live-in ?

interface @interface (85) • Philippines 23 Dec 06

What do you think guys?? some says its good to have live-in coz you have time to know more your partner...but marriage is also a sacred thing...and partners should be brought into holy matrimony..

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ancazur I don't like live-ins at all. You should know your partner enough before you get married to know whether you'd drive each other crazy or not. Marriage IS sacred, and people should abstain from any activity that is reserved for married life - that includes...

31 Jan 07

Wedding Vows - Till Death Do we Part or Till Divorce Do we Part?

lovely0583 @lovely0583 (57) • United States 31 Jan 07

Because of the Divorce rate that's been going on right now, I and my friends joke about the vows of marriage that is supposedly sacred the "Till Death Do We Part". I once believe in that vows but after my divorce, I know what we...

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ancazur There has always been the divorce option, but the way people look at it now is vastly different. I personally don't believe people should get divorced - it defeats the purpose of marriage. Marriage IS "'til death do us part," and if there's any question to...

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What Book Are You Reading At The Moment?

Stiletto @Stiletto (4579) 31 Jan 07

Who wrote it? What's it about? Would you recommend it to others? I'm currently reading "The Bookseller Of Kabul" by Asne Seierstad. She spent 4 months living with the family of a man called Sultan Khan. He defied the Afghan...

books

novels

reading

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ancazur I'm currently reading Fyodor Dostoevsky's "Crime & Punishment." If you have the patience for classics, go for it. I'm enjoying it; you really get into the character's mind as it goes through his trials and issues with life. Not "easy reading" by any means, but...

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is kissing your lover important in an affair?

berry9 @berry9 (590) • India 31 Jan 07

To be honest iv never kissed or been kissed.Im to say that im a 100% unadultrated virgin.Most of my friends tell me that they have always kissed their partner before when they fell in love and every now and then.When I say,iv...

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ancazur It's not necessary. My sister is getting married, and she's never kissed her fiancee. It's probably better that way in some respects - physical stuff is great, but it can complicate things as well. Don't let anyone make you think you're doing things wrong....

31 Jan 07

Real or fake nails?

CatEyes @CatEyes (2448) • United States 29 Jan 07

Which do yoy have and which do you prefer? I know my husband loves me with fake ones becuase they are longer, but I prefer my real ones. Mine grow ok and are a decent length and I don't have to go to the salon all of the time when...

real or fake nails

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ancazur I really can't stand fake nails. They weaken your real nails and LOOK fake most of the time. I just grow and polish my real nails and they look fine.

30 Jan 07

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Do you believe in the power of prayer?

hockeygal4ever @hockeygal4ever (10021) • United States 30 Jan 07

I can without a doubt answer yes. I've been privy to its powers and while sometimes I've doubted God listened, I later realized just because I ask doesn't mean he provides. God is not "Santa Claus"... someone to go to and...

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ancazur Absolutely. Even if prayers aren't answered right away, which they usually aren't, I know that He has something planned and my prayers have been heard.

30 Jan 07

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Saying THANK YOU...how important?

hottie0728 @hottie0728 (1732) • United States 29 Jan 07

Sometimes in our busy lives, we often forget how to appreciate what we have. We often forget how to say thank you on receiving grace, service given by someone or any small favors. How important is saying Thank you? I know I...

appreciate

thank you

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ancazur So many people don't have manners nowadays so it's a treat when I hear a geniune "thanks." I say thank you whenever I feel necessary, because I want people to know that I appreciate what they're doing. too many small gestures go unnoticed.

30 Jan 07

Do you trust your doctor?

Freespirit @Freespirit (593) 30 Jan 07

When your Doctor prescribes drugs for your condition whatever it is, do you accept his judgment without question, or do you think he might be influenced by the Drug companies?Drug companies are always giving freebies like paid...

doctors

drugs

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ancazur I think there's a balance. Yes, doctors are paid to promote certain drugs, but they're not going to give it to you if you don't need it. On the other hand, there are many natural alternatives to drugs that they're not allowed to tell you about. If I have an...

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