anobel1984

@anobel1984 (75)

United States • Age 39

Joined myLot 14 years ago

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Finally a plan

3SnuggleBunnies @3SnuggleBunnies (16374) • United States 30 Nov 11

As some of you know my eldest DD1 is Dyslexic and possibly ADD (been tested but not conclusive w/o being told to truly know put her on the meds, I want to know before we talk meds). Well recently they believe my middle is probably...

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anobel1984 My 10 year old was diagnosed with ADHD when he was 6. We chose not to medicate for a long time. We took him to counseling and worked with him at home. I also have attention issues so I taught him several of my own coping skills to help him deal. When he was 7...

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in which it is better to listen to the mind or heart?

Nezavisima Deskata @nezavisima (7408) • Bulgaria 30 Nov 11

Hello friends wonder what is good to hear that your heart or mind. a heart that knows you love him but my mind says no it is not for you. I do not know what to listen to what my place will listen to your heart or mind!

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anobel1984 In my experience there is always a reason that your mind tells you something is not quite right. It is entirely possible to love someone that is not good for you. You can also know someone is perfect for you but the feeling of love is just not there. You...

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Choosing with the one who loves you or the one you love?

gegett2002 @gegett2002 (22) • Philippines 8 Nov 10

Our admin told me to stay with the one who loves me (more than i love him) 'coz i will soon learn to love him back. I love this guy but I still need more time to know if how deep his love is....

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anobel1984 I have read all of the previous responses to this discussion and I have to disagree. Some people say you try to love the person who loves you more, others say you should hold out for the one you love. I look at these two options as exactly the same. If I am...

8 Nov 10

Family or Friends?

HULYO @julyteen (13252) • Davao, Philippines 31 Oct 10

There is a distinction between the two. I can't choose either of this two because both of them we need as a human being. Imagine your life without family or without friends. It's so sad if you isolate to the people around you. The...

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anobel1984 I could never choose. I may not get along with most of my family, but there are a few people I could never walk away from. However, I am very close with my friends and I consider them to be family. The friends that really matter to me are like family so I...

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have you ever put your child in time out in a store?

kristinad @kristinad (185) • United States 2 Aug 10

i feel like if my child is not behaving and acting out i am going to put him in timeout and it doesn't matter where we are. i have put my son in timeout in the food store, friendly's, and in restaurant it doesn't matter to and...

have you ever put your child in time out in a stor

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anobel1984 I have put my children in time outs many times, it doesn't matter where we are. At the store they get stuck in the cart and I have gotten a lot of looks. The worst is the temper tantrum because there are people around. I ignore the people and if my child...

2 Aug 10

Talking to a brick wall

AutumnGold @AutumnGold (1056) 2 Aug 10

Since I've been coming on here I've developed a little habit, I quite often talk to myself. Yes I sit here typing away and all the time I'm just talking to a brick wall, as we say here. Does it bother you when you give a good...

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talking to myself

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anobel1984 I am a new member and I have seen what you are talking about. I can't explain the lack of responses from other users, I can only speak for myself. When I post a discussion I want feedback. I am putting my thoughts out there to gain the insights of others. I...

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The Pickle Jar

dorannmwin @dorannmwin (36392) • United States 2 Aug 10

and things about discipline. This weekend on Friday night Kathryn spent the night with one of her friends and Paul spent the night with the in-laws. It gave Tom and I a much needed day of having no children. Quite the treat if...

breaking things

ignorant

pickles

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anobel1984 In my house we have a working system of dealing with accidents. "There are no such things as accidents." Kids are learning to say it was an accident as an excuse for something that they know they shouldn't have done. Instead we say, "I didn't mean to."...

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Do you find people who snores when sleeping annoying?

juliusports @juliusports (274) • Philippines 2 Aug 10

Snoring annoys you. What if your partner snores in sleep what should you do?

snoring

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anobel1984 A friend of mine came up with a wonderful solution that has saved her relationship. Breath Rite Strips. They are a simple flexi strip that has adhesive. It's like a little band-aid for your nose. He puts them on and his snoring is reduced to a little loud...

2 Aug 10

Saying Goodbye is not an easy thing

juliusports @juliusports (274) • Philippines 2 Aug 10

It's the hardest thing that ever happened to me. Saying goodbye!!!

goodbyes

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anobel1984 Saying goodbye is difficult. But if you are doing it for the right reasons than there are no regrets.

2 Aug 10

would you still go to hotels?

aguas_aj @aguas_aj (498) • Philippines 2 Aug 10

If you're already married and has own house with own room or has privacy to do it with your husband or wife, will you still want to visit a motel or hotel even once a while to do it with your partner? Personally, yes, it adds...

excitement

hotel

motel

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anobel1984 I am not married, but I have been in a long-term and committed relationship. We found it to be refreshing and romantic to visit a hotel once in a while. If we wanted to spice things up we would get a cheap motel room and drive separately to give the feel of a...

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You hate the subject plus you hate the teacher! Do U think you will still pass?

aaronfyzeon @aaronfyzeon (1920) • Philippines 2 Aug 10

You hated the subject because it is very hard. Lets add this up that this subject starts after Lunch Break. But the worst thing you can add up not liking the subject is your teacher that you really don't like at all! The teacher...

hated teachers

most hated subjects

subject i hated most

teachers i hated most

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anobel1984 I can't give any high school examples because if I didn't like the teacher I skipped the class. I have grown up a lot since then and now I am doing really well in college. I have had some classes that I hated with teachers I couldn't stand to look at...let...

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What will be the best anitivirus That can be DOWNloaded FREE?

rugene @rugene (57) • Philippines 2 Aug 10

I really needed an ANtivirus to make me feel secure in my files at my desktop. I have here an AVG 8.5 ANd Norton.Can You SUggest Better Than This ANtiviruses? That Can be DOwnloaded Free from any charges?

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anobel1984 Right now I use AVG on my computers and I haven't had any trouble. It is free to download directly from their site. My brother uses AVAST and he doesn't have any complaints either. I would recommend one of these two. I have never had a computer virus using AVG...

2 Aug 10

to leave or to love?

silentnoise @silentnoise (9) • Philippines 1 Aug 10

what if the one you really loved nearly cheated on you? would you leave him/ her ? or would you still love him/ her ?

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anobel1984 My question is this..."Did they cheat or did they almost cheat?" These are two very different things. No man or woman can honestly say that they have never thought about being with someone else. It is human nature to mentally explore our options. It is...

2 Aug 10

Will you still trust your love one who have cheated you?

czanwell_30 @czanwell_30 (717) • Philippines 2 Aug 10

Trust is like a mirror, once broken into thousands of pieces, there is no way that you can make it whole again. What if you experience this kind of pain and hurt because the one who did you wrong is someone close to your heart?...

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anobel1984 I have been cheated on in the past. He told me that it would never happen again, but I just couldn't forget. Afterward I found myself questioning everywhere he went. I would ask myself who he is with and what he is doing. The constant doubt and worry consumed...

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Lending out your school supplies.

megamatt @megamatt (14292) • United States 2 Aug 10

It seems like some people were never prepared for class. Therefore they were always asking for pencils, pens, paper, whatever. Once and a while is fine, we all forget, even us meticiously prepared people. However, it got to the...

loaning

school supplies

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anobel1984 I have learned 2 important things when it comes to loaning out school supplies. I am a giving person so these lessons had to be learned the hard way. First: Never loan out an item of value or necessity. My graphing calculator has been gone for 6 years and I...

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hmmm...does it bother you?

macdingolinger @macdingolinger (10386) • United States 2 Aug 10

How does it make you feel when you add a friend here on mylot and then you get a message in your inbox asking you to join up on their site? I guess I'm kinda funny or a lot more social. Or perhaps I am just not a trusting type of...

adding new friends

requests

sites

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anobel1984 I can't say that I have had a problem with that here on MyLot. I am still new and I just got my first MyLot friend today. However, I do experience things like that on other social networking sites like Facebook and MySpace. I just ignore these things. On...

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Do you have a stockpile of books that you still need to read?

megamatt @megamatt (14292) • United States 2 Aug 10

I have quite a few books that I have not started to read yet. I received several books for my birthday and while I have read a couple of them, I have not gotten to all of them. Do you find that you get a few books that have put...

backlog

books

reading

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anobel1984 I am an avid reader so I always have at least 2-3 books that are waiting in line. My books don't usually collect dust since I tend to go through them rather quickly. Right now however, I do have 6 books that are sitting on the shelf patiently waiting. Have...

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can you be my friend?

rugene @rugene (57) • Philippines 2 Aug 10

Hoping to have more friends Here,IM new Here and I wanted to Take advantage this discussion to gain more friends.Anyway I wanted to invite You But Im afraid maby You will think Who AM i? are we close? Unless me inviting You to...

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anobel1984 I am new here as well and currently I do not have any friends on the site. It's kind of sad since I have over 300 friends on facebook and I lost count of the people on MySpace. I would love to have a few MyLot friends so I hope that my response to this thread...

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Ex-GF/BF are you still affected?

monaquezada @monaquezada (85) • Philippines 2 Aug 10

I've seen my ex-boyfriend in one of the social networking sites and he already has a baby... It's a cute baby boy... I don't know... all the while I thought that I wouldn't be affected anymore but then theres still something that...

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anobel1984 I know how you feel. My last relationship ended in June of 2008 so it has been over 2 years since we split up. I have only dated a few times since then and nothing serious. I remember hearing he had a new girlfriend a year after we split up and being...

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are past relationships an issue in the present relationships?

tigeraunt @tigeraunt (6326) • Philippines 1 Aug 10

dear mylotters, after reading a lot of discussions now about relationships, a question just came to my mind why men (and women too) ask about it, why they like to know of past relationships, if any, about the person who is now...

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anobel1984 Personally, I can't stand it when the person I am with asks a bunch of questions about the people I was with before. I think they ask because they wonder if there are still feelings between me and my ex's. I still talk to most of the guys I have dated so I...

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