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ashikkalam @ashikkalam (187) • India 22 Sep 07

What do you do when you are sad?Do you cry or do you force yourself to fight back tears or do you reach out to your friends?

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ashikkalam Trying not to feel sad is one good thing.Yeah ultimately its your attitude that matters.IF you are bent on not to be sad whatever may happen you may succeed.

22 Sep 07

vega83 @vega83 (6342) • Bahrain 21 Sep 07

No offense to any smokers out there... I'm a non-smoker myself. Of course I don't believe in judging before trying, so I have tried smoking and frankly it didn't do it for me. I don't understand why people smoke, but then again...

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ashikkalam Smoking is one habit i really hate in people.What good does it do to you?IT eats up not only your lungs but also other people's.I mean why do you have to pay the price for some one else's stupidity and the sad part is many non smokers end up with lung cancer...

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ashikkalam @ashikkalam (187) • India 22 Sep 07

What do you do when you are sad?Do you cry or do you force yourself to fight back tears or do you reach out to your friends?

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ashikkalam Crying is a real good way to let out your feelings and tension.But it will do you good to reach out to your friends,infact friends are there to help you.And most friends would love to be of any help and they wont think it as a trouble,if you go to them for...

22 Sep 07

ashikkalam @ashikkalam (187) • India 22 Sep 07

What do you do when you are sad?Do you cry or do you force yourself to fight back tears or do you reach out to your friends?

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ashikkalam Yeah its always better to cry when you are alone,crying in public is not something everyone will like.It seems you have got your pillars in your friends,they can make sunshine out of any gloomy day. And parents can be of real help to ease your mood,and an...

22 Sep 07

vega83 @vega83 (6342) • Bahrain 16 Sep 07

Do you pretend to understand it and laugh anyway, when everyone else laughs and then forget about it? Do you pretend and laugh and then later take your friend aside to ask them what it really meant? Or do you NOT laugh and...

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ashikkalam Yeah exactly,the greatest fear when one talks to others is that of being judged.But under the hood of usernames you tend to feel a lot more free than you would be when you confront a real person.And you don't feel insecure so you tend to open up to them.I...

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vega83 @vega83 (6342) • Bahrain 16 Sep 07

Do you pretend to understand it and laugh anyway, when everyone else laughs and then forget about it? Do you pretend and laugh and then later take your friend aside to ask them what it really meant? Or do you NOT laugh and...

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ashikkalam I also have a few good online friends and I can tell them stuff about myself that I wont say to some people in meet often.Maybe its the anonymity over the net maybe its the person who make you more comfortable to open up..you just wont know.

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vega83 @vega83 (6342) • Bahrain 16 Sep 07

Do you pretend to understand it and laugh anyway, when everyone else laughs and then forget about it? Do you pretend and laugh and then later take your friend aside to ask them what it really meant? Or do you NOT laugh and...

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ashikkalam Hehe sure..he is a nice chap otherwise.But can't resist the idea of having a good laugh.

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ashikkalam @ashikkalam (187) • India 22 Sep 07

What do you do when you are sad?Do you cry or do you force yourself to fight back tears or do you reach out to your friends?

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ashikkalam The problem when you try to hold up your emotions is that you tend to take it out on others,making them and yourself more miserable.Its really bad for you and others,I have known it when i tried to act stoic and ended up blowing my temper. The best thing is...

22 Sep 07

vega83 @vega83 (6342) • Bahrain 16 Sep 07

Do you pretend to understand it and laugh anyway, when everyone else laughs and then forget about it? Do you pretend and laugh and then later take your friend aside to ask them what it really meant? Or do you NOT laugh and...

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ashikkalam Yeah guess so..and one of these days when we get back together we are going to give him the shock of his life and have more fun.

22 Sep 07

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vega83 @vega83 (6342) • Bahrain 16 Sep 07

Do you pretend to understand it and laugh anyway, when everyone else laughs and then forget about it? Do you pretend and laugh and then later take your friend aside to ask them what it really meant? Or do you NOT laugh and...

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ashikkalam Yeah in school there was nothing like getting familiar,you just knew someone the moment you met him or her. Hmm..while you are online you are shielded by something that is not there when you meet someone in person.Its absolutely okay to feel tongue tied...

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vega83 @vega83 (6342) • Bahrain 16 Sep 07

Do you pretend to understand it and laugh anyway, when everyone else laughs and then forget about it? Do you pretend and laugh and then later take your friend aside to ask them what it really meant? Or do you NOT laugh and...

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ashikkalam Yeah with most of the new friends you tend to think what they would think about you when you say something,and that was something you never needed to care about when you were with your school gang. And when we all get together the atmosphere is just as crazy...

22 Sep 07

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vega83 @vega83 (6342) • Bahrain 16 Sep 07

Do you pretend to understand it and laugh anyway, when everyone else laughs and then forget about it? Do you pretend and laugh and then later take your friend aside to ask them what it really meant? Or do you NOT laugh and...

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ashikkalam yeah he did get laughs but he just didn't understand what they were for!!

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ashikkalam @ashikkalam (187) • India 22 Sep 07

What do you do when you are sad?Do you cry or do you force yourself to fight back tears or do you reach out to your friends?

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ashikkalam Well aren't the notion that men shouldn't cry a just too old fashioned.I think no one should be ashamed to cry.Its your body's natural way to release all the tensions and sorrow that you had been holding up for sometime. It's more manly not to cry but it will...

22 Sep 07

vega83 @vega83 (6342) • Bahrain 16 Sep 07

Do you pretend to understand it and laugh anyway, when everyone else laughs and then forget about it? Do you pretend and laugh and then later take your friend aside to ask them what it really meant? Or do you NOT laugh and...

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ashikkalam Yeah school life is one phase of your life that can never be replaced.You could communicate with your lot with just a look or a glance.A naughty look to your friend when you see a haughty man struggling to walk his dog was all it took to send the whole gang...

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vega83 @vega83 (6342) • Bahrain 16 Sep 07

Do you pretend to understand it and laugh anyway, when everyone else laughs and then forget about it? Do you pretend and laugh and then later take your friend aside to ask them what it really meant? Or do you NOT laugh and...

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ashikkalam yup he was just too dumb to find out that we were having more laughs at him and that no one really enjoyed his role as a comedian.But he really did well as a joker. He kept coming back with more and never did improve after all these years.

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ashikkalam @ashikkalam (187) • India 22 Sep 07

What do you do when you are sad?Do you cry or do you force yourself to fight back tears or do you reach out to your friends?

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ashikkalam Friends are those who stand by you at the hardest of times and make you feel like the luckiest person alive.And having friends with whom you can share your sorrows is a blessing.A listening ear is all you need to get you feet back on the ground after you...

22 Sep 07

vega83 @vega83 (6342) • Bahrain 16 Sep 07

Do you pretend to understand it and laugh anyway, when everyone else laughs and then forget about it? Do you pretend and laugh and then later take your friend aside to ask them what it really meant? Or do you NOT laugh and...

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ashikkalam Yeah i had one friend who used to come to school everyday learning all the jokes and anecdotes from the Readers Digest and say them like they were his own.The ones who had read it knew,and even the others had a bad time as he could,despite how good the joke...

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vega83 @vega83 (6342) • Bahrain 16 Sep 07

Do you pretend to understand it and laugh anyway, when everyone else laughs and then forget about it? Do you pretend and laugh and then later take your friend aside to ask them what it really meant? Or do you NOT laugh and...

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ashikkalam School was when you were going around looking for the next thing to laugh at.It never mattered whether you laughed at your friends or teachers or even the principal .The important thing was laughing.And we used to go around doing really dumb things just for...

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HomeFlower @HomeFlower (987) • Canada 21 Sep 07

Over the course of my lifetime, I have had some very wonderful friends that were such a big part of my life. We shared outings, conversations, dinners, childcare, shopping and consoling each other through the rough...

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ashikkalam Friends are one possession you should try never to lose because some of them can never be replaced.You have the best times of your life with your friends,they are there when you need them.They are a shoulder on which you can lean when you feel weak,a shoulder...

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