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barbiegirl13 @barbiegirl13 (1588) • United States 10 Jan 13

I need some advice on how to deal with a bully in my work place. I have worked at my place of employment for 2 1/2 years. Everything was great until July of 2012. A co worker of mine of whom I was very close to got pregnant. I...

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JamesKYTan I have a solution to your predicament. Confront her in front of all the office mates in the presence of your boss. Tell everything that happened between her and you to everybody. She got pregnant and you even lent her things which she did returned.

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barbiegirl13 @barbiegirl13 (1588) • United States 11 Jan 13

I have some very old discussions dating years back and no longer wish to have them on here, Is there a way to delete my own discussions?

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Jenny1015 I am sorry, barbiegirl, but Mylot doesn't allow us to delete our old discussions. And I think one purpose of this is that it was worth keeping and that other Mylot members would still be able to read them and learn something new and useful from it. Coz if it...

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barbiegirl13 @barbiegirl13 (1588) • United States 11 Jan 13

I have some very old discussions dating years back and no longer wish to have them on here, Is there a way to delete my own discussions?

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Always smiling You can request Admin to delete by clicking on the (!) button next to the topic and give reasons why you want it deleted.

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barbiegirl13 @barbiegirl13 (1588) • United States 11 Jan 13

I have some very old discussions dating years back and no longer wish to have them on here, Is there a way to delete my own discussions?

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Jenny1015 Thanks, allknowing! I really wasn't aware that i could have my previous discussion deleted using the (!) button, but i have used the same button when I have accidentally posted a response twice.

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barbiegirl13 @barbiegirl13 (1588) • United States 10 Jan 13

I have gained 2o lbs this last year. I can't lie and say that I have really been trying to lose weight. I need some incentive. I like being 120 and have ballooned up to 140. I am only 5'3" so I am teetering on the over weight...

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mariaperalta My little sister did the same thing. So last month, she started walking and drinking tons of water. When she was hungry she grabbed a piece of veggie like celery. Over a month she lost 15 lbs. Try it...

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barbiegirl13 @barbiegirl13 (1588) • United States 10 Jan 13

I need some advice on how to deal with a bully in my work place. I have worked at my place of employment for 2 1/2 years. Everything was great until July of 2012. A co worker of mine of whom I was very close to got pregnant. I...

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vidhyaprakash_2 Hi friend, sad to hear about your issue, i wonder why your co worker is in this sort and spread a lot of rumors about you? May be she is jealous with your activities and did this unwanted things. Anyway you solved your issue

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barbiegirl13 @barbiegirl13 (1588) • United States 10 Jan 13

I have gained 2o lbs this last year. I can't lie and say that I have really been trying to lose weight. I need some incentive. I like being 120 and have ballooned up to 140. I am only 5'3" so I am teetering on the over weight...

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Rainegurl I have also gained weight these past months. I need to lose weight because I do not want to buy a whole new wardrobe. Everything seems so tight these days. I do not have time to exercise so I am thinking of just eating less carbohydrates and more vegetables...

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barbiegirl13 @barbiegirl13 (1588) • United States 10 Jan 13

I need some advice on how to deal with a bully in my work place. I have worked at my place of employment for 2 1/2 years. Everything was great until July of 2012. A co worker of mine of whom I was very close to got pregnant. I...

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namiya This is a very difficult situation and i agree with most responses here that it would be best for you to find another job. Don't give her more satisfaction by seeing your physical and emotional agony due to her sly manipulations within the office intended to...

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barbiegirl13 @barbiegirl13 (1588) • United States 10 Jan 13

I need some advice on how to deal with a bully in my work place. I have worked at my place of employment for 2 1/2 years. Everything was great until July of 2012. A co worker of mine of whom I was very close to got pregnant. I...

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lsjapdoit Pray to God and ask Him to help you solve this problem. Start looking for a new job and don't quit the present one just yet. With such efforts usually as the time goes by you will find a good way out.

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barbiegirl13 @barbiegirl13 (1588) • United States 10 Jan 13

I need some advice on how to deal with a bully in my work place. I have worked at my place of employment for 2 1/2 years. Everything was great until July of 2012. A co worker of mine of whom I was very close to got pregnant. I...

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silverfox09 That is very bad , the situation you are in is not very nice . I cant believe she would blame the lost of her baby on you . The woman sound like she will make your life hell if you continue to stay at that work place . Its not safe to work somewhere where...

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barbiegirl13 @barbiegirl13 (1588) • United States 10 Jan 13

I am in great need to become healthier and want to eat right. I am looking for yummy all plant based recipes that do not cost a fortune.

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marguicha I have oregano, chives and parsley. All are perennials. I also plant coriander. I dry oregano every year and have not bought oregano for ages. This year I have enough basil to make pesto to last the whole year for me and for my daughters. I prefer to freeze...

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barbiegirl13 @barbiegirl13 (1588) • United States 10 Jan 13

I am in great need to become healthier and want to eat right. I am looking for yummy all plant based recipes that do not cost a fortune.

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marguicha I have a very small vegetable plot. I decided to take out some of the lawn and make a couple of raised beds. Although I won´t say that all has been success, I have been able to eat nice veggies for 2 years now.

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barbiegirl13 @barbiegirl13 (1588) • United States 10 Jan 13

I need some advice on how to deal with a bully in my work place. I have worked at my place of employment for 2 1/2 years. Everything was great until July of 2012. A co worker of mine of whom I was very close to got pregnant. I...

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desertdarlene I just saw the post where you said you can't get an attorney because you are in a small town and it would be difficult for someone to take the case. Is there another town close by that don't know the parties involved? It sounds like even looking for another...

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barbiegirl13 @barbiegirl13 (1588) • United States 10 Jan 13

I need some advice on how to deal with a bully in my work place. I have worked at my place of employment for 2 1/2 years. Everything was great until July of 2012. A co worker of mine of whom I was very close to got pregnant. I...

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jazel_juan |First do not any of these affect you because if you let it, then it will become it. So as much as possible do not let this affect you. second, tell your boss what you think of it, tell your immediate supervisor or manager if you can trust him. Then go to the...

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barbiegirl13 @barbiegirl13 (1588) • United States 10 Jan 13

I need some advice on how to deal with a bully in my work place. I have worked at my place of employment for 2 1/2 years. Everything was great until July of 2012. A co worker of mine of whom I was very close to got pregnant. I...

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xtedaxcvg You can raise this up with your ethics committee if you have one. I believe every company has an ethics committee. If your company doesn't have one then you may want to talk to your boss about resigning because nothing gets done on your current situation. If...

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barbiegirl13 @barbiegirl13 (1588) • United States 10 Jan 13

I need some advice on how to deal with a bully in my work place. I have worked at my place of employment for 2 1/2 years. Everything was great until July of 2012. A co worker of mine of whom I was very close to got pregnant. I...

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desertdarlene I don't know what country you are in, but I would check for laws protecting you because she is creating a hostile workplace for you. Plus, she has assaulted you. I would also seek some kind of legal counseling on this matter. Other than that, I would be...

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barbiegirl13 @barbiegirl13 (1588) • United States 10 Jan 13

I need some advice on how to deal with a bully in my work place. I have worked at my place of employment for 2 1/2 years. Everything was great until July of 2012. A co worker of mine of whom I was very close to got pregnant. I...

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Lana I can relate to your story but I did the wronged way I tender my resignation. That's a tough and hard experience everyday having a false impression and being bullied every now and then. You were right don't quit, ignore them it will pass as they see your not...

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barbiegirl13 @barbiegirl13 (1588) • United States 10 Jan 13

I need some advice on how to deal with a bully in my work place. I have worked at my place of employment for 2 1/2 years. Everything was great until July of 2012. A co worker of mine of whom I was very close to got pregnant. I...

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kingparker I think the first thing need to be done is to settle it done once for all. Otherwise, you might not feel comfortable at this place, and you might gone crazy pretty soon. If your workplace has a human resource department, go to talk to the manager there, or...

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barbiegirl13 @barbiegirl13 (1588) • United States 10 Jan 13

I need some advice on how to deal with a bully in my work place. I have worked at my place of employment for 2 1/2 years. Everything was great until July of 2012. A co worker of mine of whom I was very close to got pregnant. I...

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Always smiling We all go through this. I started my career as a principal secretary with a multi national. My boss was being demoted and someone else was taking his place. My boss wanted me to continue working for him although I was slated for the job to work for someone who...

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barbiegirl13 @barbiegirl13 (1588) • United States 10 Jan 13

I need some advice on how to deal with a bully in my work place. I have worked at my place of employment for 2 1/2 years. Everything was great until July of 2012. A co worker of mine of whom I was very close to got pregnant. I...

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angelwithkids Get everything in a journal. Dates/times/activities. Days you talked to your bosses and their responses. When that is done, go back to management and let them know that if they don't handle the situation that you are prepared to get an attorney. (If you choose...

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