bette1981

@bette1981 (21)

United States • Age 42

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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My mom has lung cancer...

happymommy6 @happymommy6 (35) • United States 7 Jan 07

My mother was recently diagnosed with stage 3 lung cancer. I still haven't wrapped my head around it really. She used to smoke a long time ago but quit over 20 years ago! So why NOW does she have lung cancer? Its just so...

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bette1981 I am going through this exact same thing. I just came home for the holidays and found out my mom has stage 3 lung cancer. She too is going through the chemo. It's been really hard on myself and my family. We've done a lot of praying and this has helped. It's...

17 Jan 07

What’s the best way to deal with an unpleasant relative over the holidays?

bette1981 @bette1981 (21) • United States 7 Dec 06

What’s the best way to deal with an unpleasant relative over the holidays? My father can be a HUGE jerk with me at times… how should I respond? I live 2000 miles from home... and for a good reason. I’ve been living this far for a...

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bette1981 Yes, I can stay at other relatives' houses. Thanks! :)

8 Dec 06

What’s the best way to deal with an unpleasant relative over the holidays?

bette1981 @bette1981 (21) • United States 7 Dec 06

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bette1981 Excellent advice and assesment on him. He is VERY controlling... How did you figure that one? And yes, you're right, I can speak to him until I'm blue in the face... it won't help much at all. I will just ignore him if he starts popping off at the mouth....

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NASA says there's WATER FLOWING ON MARS!!!

birthlady @birthlady (5609) • United States 6 Dec 06

Scientists have long believed there's been water on Mars in the past, now there's new evidence that water is flowing on the red planet right now! What do you think? Read the whole story here!

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bette1981 GOOD!! I want to get off this planet already. I'm ready to move there... has NASA mentioned plans to begin building housing?? I'm ready to invest.

7 Dec 06

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What’s the best way to deal with an unpleasant relative over the holidays?

bette1981 @bette1981 (21) • United States 7 Dec 06

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Would it be inappropriate....??

bette1981 @bette1981 (21) • United States 4 Dec 06

I have to do a PowerPoint presentation for my college course and thought I’d try something different. Do you think it would be distracting or inappropriate to have beautiful nature photos as the background for my...

powerpoint presentation

presentation

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How would you respond to rude, race-related comments?

writerightmom @writerightmom (148) • United States 1 Dec 06

I am a black woman, and husband is white. We have 2 gorgeous boys together, one is 6 and the other is 4 months. I am getting so tired of people's rude comments when I go out with my boys alone. People ask if they're my foster...

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bette1981 Isn't it funny how our society assumes that if you, the one holding the baby, are black, and the baby is white... you must have kidnapped the baby. But if the baby is black, and you are white, no questions are asked. It's pathetic and sad how our socity places...

2 Dec 06

Threatening to leave me, if I don't have a child!!!

what_now @what_now (554) • Canada 2 Dec 06

Ok guys heres the deal me (21) and my gf (22) have been arguing about having a child for almost 3 months now. We've been together for almost 2 years. I feel I am still too young and a lil immature and definately not ready to be a...

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bette1981 You're not going to like my response but I think you should give your girlfriend the boot. She's emotionally blackmailing you into doing something for which you have not said no to but have only requested that she WAIT. If she truly cared about your needs and...

2 Dec 06

Do you think it's ok to SPANK kids? Why or Why Not?

MothersWorkAtHome @MothersWorkAtHome (966) • United States 1 Dec 06

I try to do everything possible like time out, taking away video games, not going to friends ect.. first. When I was growong up though we didn't have time out you got your butt spanked and that was that! No one said a word to...

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bette1981 I don't think parents spank their kids enough or they spank them too much to the point of abuse. It seems today like there is no happy medium on discipline. It's so sad. Yes, spank them in moderation and when their acts warrant such punishment.

2 Dec 06

IMPORTANT! do you think AUTISM is related to childhood vaccines?

kittykatzz @kittykatzz (1132) • United States 1 Dec 06

if you have a child.. please respond!.. but first let me give you my opinion... I am not a doctor.. however i AM a mother of an autistic child.. after YEARS of research this is my OPIONION and my best educated decision that i can...

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bette1981 My brother is autistic and my parents seem to be convinced that it is a result of vaccinations.

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IMPORTANT! do you think AUTISM is related to childhood vaccines?

kittykatzz @kittykatzz (1132) • United States 1 Dec 06

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bette1981 My brother is autistic and my parents seem convinced that it is a result of vaccinations.

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If you are very hungry and very sleepy, which would you give into first?

bette1981 @bette1981 (21) • United States 1 Dec 06

Would you give into the hunger or sleepiness?? In what order would you satisfy your desires?

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Writing an online dairy

rubypatson @rubypatson (1841) • India 3 Feb 09

i sometimes feel mylot is like writing an online dairy, where we share all our days happening, and also get to share our views on various topics, what do you feel about mylot

dairy

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bette1981 i sometimes feel mylot is like writing an online dairy, where we share all our days happening, and also get to share our views on various topics, what do you feel about mylot

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Do you yahoo or hotmail?

trishjc @trishjc (191) • Canada 26 Oct 06

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bette1981 Neither one... I hate yahoo and hotmail. I use gmail. It's the new thing.

30 Nov 06

Am I the only one who hate's Yahoo email?

bette1981 @bette1981 (21) • United States 30 Nov 06

I prefer gmail. Yahoo deleted two of my accounts for no reason at all. When I contacted them I could never speak with anyone other than a computer operated system.

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How come gmail.com works more quickly than any other mails? which software they

alladisada @alladisada (2305) • India 30 Nov 06

I am sure that they used some special kinds of software to build this gmail.com. Its great but what concerns me is, what software systems or language they used to build the gmail pages which load its pages at fast speed!! Thank...

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bette1981 Good question... I love Gmail... I hate yahoo. I just switched to gmail afer yahoo deleted two of my accounts for no reason at all.

30 Nov 06

Whom do you prefer, Shania Twain or Faith Hill

chiquitita @chiquitita (1226) • Indonesia 25 Nov 06

For those of you who are the big fans of country music, please choose on of this two divas that you prefer. Please mention your reasons!

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bette1981 Shania Twain. Faith Hill is fake and a diva. Though some may disagree. Especially after that incident with her recently on that awards show. I think Shania's music is better too.

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do you admire your mom?

ajnfriend63 @ajnfriend63 (292) • India 29 Nov 06

i admire.what about you?

mom

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bette1981 I do. She's a survivor. I miss my mommy. I haven't seen her in almost a year.

30 Nov 06

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What do you think about the White House putting up about 37 Christmas trees...

sbeauty @sbeauty (5865) • United States 30 Nov 06

... using taxpayer money? I hate that show HGTV does at Christmas time where it shows a multitude of people spending hundreds of hours decorating the White House, because I truly believe the money could be better spent on other...

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bette1981 So do I.

30 Nov 06

What does an anxiety attack feel like?

bette1981 @bette1981 (21) • United States 30 Nov 06

I'm curious as to what an anxiety attack feels like. Can anyone describe? I don't want a cookie cut explation... I'd like to hear personal exerience explanations. Thanks! =D

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