brean_rhea

@brean_rhea (176)

Philippines • Age 36

Joined myLot 14 years ago

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do you think long-distance relationship really works?

purplehaze @purplehaze (661) • Philippines 20 Mar 11

i have a boyfriend who i really love and i cant bear to be away from him for a long time. i have given up a lot of opportunities of working abroad because i am afraid that he might find another girl when i am away. I have heard a...

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brean_rhea Hi, you know what it is just up to both of you to make your long distance relationship works, its just a matter of gaining a million bunch of trust. There are even couples who sees every day but still their marriage does not work.

21 Mar 11

You can't get anything you've wanted...

xien2xien @xien2xien (1382) • Philippines 20 Mar 11

That's life and that's how it supposed to be. not everything you've ever wanted and needed can be yours all at the same time... all you have to do is maximize your resources and be contented. life is unfair in so many ways but one...

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brean_rhea One big check for you there...we really can not have everything in this life, because everything is planned by the most powerful above. What we have to do is just to be contented of what we have and just get focused to our endeavors.

21 Mar 11

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moving on..

gelskidoo @gelskidoo (4) • Philippines 4 Jan 11

Hi mylotters..its been a while since the last time im using my lot.. Honestly I missed making new discussions and making friends here. Right now, im suffering from losing someone that I really love. Can you give me advice on how...

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brean_rhea Moving on is not really easy, but you have to accept the fact that every human is not perfect and every one is entitled to commit mistake. You just have to look on the other side of the situation. It's just a matter of acceptance and you can moved on.

4 Jan 11

Someone needs care..

rage35 @rage35 (344) • Philippines 3 Jan 11

I am a Nurse in profession and being a Nurse is a very difficult job to do. You take all the responsibilities of your patient. So many ups and downs when providing care to your patients. I've came into a point that I need to quit...

nurssing care

patient care

providing care

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brean_rhea I am glad you realized the value of your profession... I am greatly honored that there is someone like you who gratefully do care even to those people you hardly even know... Yes, your profession is not that easy, but for sure you will be rewarded with all...

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my marriage did not bring happiness.

indahfth @indahfth (11161) • Indonesia 1 Dec 10

A few months ago, I felt very happy, because my domestic life became better, after experiencing many problems. But now back to cold, I became sad, and do not know what to do. I feel, my marriage did not bring happiness.

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brean_rhea Definitely, marriage can not really bring happiness to every person's lives. It just that many people think it can. Maybe you just got it wrong when you had decided to get married. Still, the happiness of your marriage depend on the person you had chosen to be...

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2010 is more than two months away from being over, have you fulfilled your plans

peterpancomplex @peterpancomplex (438) • Philippines 26 Oct 10

Don't we all have that short plan that lasted atleast a year? Were you able to stick to them? As for me, i still have some things i want to accomplish, to cross them out of my list. 2010:i want to: Learn how to cook:...

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brean_rhea for me i do have a lot of plans for this year and now, this yer is about to end, but it seems that my life is not leading the way i planned it to be, but so far, even though my plans was not met i am still contented of what i'd got. well maybe i need to...

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Single Forever

Toni @toniganzon (72285) • Philippines 21 Oct 10

I am surprised by the increasing number of people who want to stay single forever. I know that being single has so many advantages, including the freedom to have as many relationship as you want, but I just couldn't imagine myself...

single life

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brean_rhea For me, i dont care if i wont be married but i am longing for a kid. If there's one who is destined to be my partner in life, i wouldnt mind, as long as i have my kid in my own i will be contented already.

21 Oct 10

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A Fact of Mylot You Need to Know

ivanmarginal @ivanmarginal (675) • Indonesia 21 Oct 10

Though I'm new here I've searched anything about mylot. Then I found a website talking about it. It says that there was many ptp sites exist and all promise a huge amount of money. Then one by one they went bankrupt. And you know,...

fact

mylot

ptp

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brean_rhea Wow, thank you for sharing to us the good information you got. happy mylotting....

21 Oct 10

what is a squatter area?????? It's like hell.

tess_quinain @tess_quinain (1149) • Philippines 19 Oct 10

What is a squatter area? it's a place where people settle on unoccupied land without legal claim. And it's like hell for me. Don't get me wrong. I never hated the people who live there but i just hate the place. I don't...

house

people

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brean_rhea Yes, a typical squatter area is look like that on reality, and it really seems to be like hell, but the people living there are those very unlucky one's do not have the opportunity to own a place like you live in. I just hope that governments should allocate...

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Is it better to buy a house or rent one?

asxenon @asxenon (1440) • Malaysia 19 Oct 10

Previously, people would prefer to have their own house. But nowadays, house price are increasing like crazy. With a normal wage, one wouldn't be able to own a house. Even a husband and wife's total income is sometimes not enough...

buy or rent

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brean_rhea Today, most of the people preferred to rent a house than to buy a house. Actually, renting a house is not practical because you only pay with your stay, unlike when you buy a house for your own, you can have it for a lifetime and there is no pressure for you...

20 Oct 10

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Starting a new book when you haven't finished the other one

juryse @juryse (752) • Philippines 19 Oct 10

Does this happen to you? Do you read books simultaneously? One after the other? It's happening to me right now. I recently started Eat Pary Love by Elizabeth Gilbert but then I saw this book Jodi Picoult "Handle with Care" so even...

books

eat pray love

reading

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brean_rhea For me, i did not do that because if i read a book, i will make it sure that i will finish it before i will read another one.

20 Oct 10

Choice in a love triangle

Sanitary @Sanitary (3968) • Singapore 20 Oct 10

It's been 2 years since he left me and I have moved on. I had to accept it though it's not easy. However, god is on my side, allowing me to meet him. He continuously wipe away my tears, telling me not to cry and he will always be...

choice

love triangle

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brean_rhea Just think of the right thoughts, why did your past leave you? For what reason he is coming back now? For me the important thing is do not let your heart rule over your mind because it will broke everything. Heart will decide whatever it can make it happy...

20 Oct 10

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family or office :)

hanhvq @hanhvq (38) • Thailand 20 Oct 10

Everybody must go to office for work and earn money for family. But a lot of people want to merge two into one. Yes, work at home. How do you think about that?

family

office

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brean_rhea well it is so nice and convenient to work at home. The pressure is not that high, and you can work freely.

20 Oct 10

Is it necessary to be virgin till marriage

Karunvig @Karunvig (714) • India 16 Oct 10

Hey guys.. i was having words with one of my female friend and in talks what i come ot knw is, what her opinion was that for girls its very much necessary to be necessary and if they are not, then their hubby will leave them and...

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brean_rhea For a liberated world we have today, it is not necessary anymore, but being a virgin till marriage is such a great thing you can gift to the one you had chosen to be with you forever.

17 Oct 10

When you missed your parents......

cinjhoxmyltc @cinjhoxmyltc (334) • Philippines 16 Oct 10

I really missed my parents. Even if I had a sad experiences to my parents I still missed them and I longed to embrace and hold their faces. Sometimes I cry before I sleep thinking of them. Sometimes I dream of them. I wish that...

parent

relationship

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brean_rhea When i missed my parents, i will really spare some time to visit them even how far they are living away from them. Or, i will just make a call and ask them if they are just fine and say my i love you's to them. I suggest you do the same, because parents are...

17 Oct 10

It is good to be alone than with wrong ones......wat you say..?

sourabh2219 @sourabh2219 (35) 13 Oct 10

Hi, I am living alone now after a long time. I got a wrong relationship in my past. My friend warned me to close to that gal. but i was blind that time. Now when she ditch me, i was feeling mental that time. But after sometimes my...

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brean_rhea Yes, i would rather choose to be alone than to be with someone that in the end they just brought dilemma to you. Nowadays, you really can not trust people easily.

17 Oct 10

Am I right to feel like this?

OneLove2010 @OneLove2010 (20) • United States 16 Oct 10

About a month and a half ago my husband got a great job offer and we moved all the way across the state. We are now 5 hours away from family and friends instead of 5 minutes. I am a little hurt though because my dad (who I have...

dads

hurt

lies

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brean_rhea well if the feeling is not already there then why stick on such relationship, anyway you have your daughter with you, so you dont have to worry. Just let him out in your life.

17 Oct 10

Do you pull the plug or not?

lelin1123 @lelin1123 (15595) • Puerto Rico 16 Oct 10

What if your mom had a heart attack and two strokes. She is not responsive one morning and you call 911. She is hooked up to a machine to breath for her. Her body is swelling up and she is not able to release the CO2 from her...

dying

pulling the plug

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brean_rhea wow, that's a very hard you will be into, but for me i would rather pull the plug out than seeing my loved one suffering a lot. I would rather choose to let her rest early than undergone all those painful processes...

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Unhappy Wife...

fourjems08 @fourjems08 (550) • Philippines 14 Oct 10

When I was younger I used to to descriminate people who cheat to their partners behind their back. I don't understand how they could do such thing to someone they love. I never imagine myself I would be in a situation I hated...

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brean_rhea if i would be in your situation maybe i can think of cheating too, but you should talk to your husband too. because it is not good example for your kids that you are unhappy with your husband and that is why you are flirting with others.In the eyes of many you...

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Everything going wrong?

kendrathil @kendrathil (308) • India 14 Oct 10

Have you ever faced a situation where everything had gone wrong? I had come across such situations. In some cases, I had tried to run away from it and in some other cases, I had faced the situation. I know that I was a coward when...

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brean_rhea well, if i would be facing a situation that everything going wrong, i will definitely face it with a lot of courage, because running away can make the situation worst.

14 Oct 10