brianneleary19

@brianneleary19 (76)

United States • Age 32

Joined myLot 13 years ago

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Does age gap really does'nt matter?

dani0384 @dani0384 (6) • Philippines 1 Oct 11

A friend of mine is in a relationship with a boy 4 years younger that her. he doesn't seem to care..but my girl friend is bothered.

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brianneleary19 Why would your girlfriend care? It's not like it's her business. I dated a guy that was 2 years younger than me. That's usually not a big deal most of the time, but he was very immature and I felt like I was his mother, his therapist, and his girlfriend all...

5 Oct 11

what would be too much for you

alina @swissheart (6482) • Romania 1 Oct 11

when you're in love you accept and forgieve many things your partner does because you really wish for that relationship to work. but what would be too much for you? what is it that you couldn't get over

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brianneleary19 One thing I would definitely not be able to forgive is cheating, in any form. I would not be able to forgive my boyfriend if he were secretly talking to other girls behind my back in a romantic sense, got close with an ex, cheated on me emotionally or...

4 Oct 11

Futility of an Online Relationship

Ram Bansal @rambansal (574) • India 4 Oct 11

With my experience of an online relationship, I reach the conclusion that such a purely virtual relationship has no worth in itself. Every loving relationship needs reinforcements of physical touches for sustenance and growth. The...

love

online relationship

touches

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brianneleary19 In the past, when I was very young (maybe 13-15) I "dated" people online. At the time I took those relationships seriously, but considering my age, it's not like I really knew what I was getting myself into. I suppose at the time I was just happy to label...

4 Oct 11

How do you cope up with break ups?

karagala @karagala (447) • Philippines 21 Jun 11

As for me, I jog on my treadmill and try to make myself preoccupied with it, then I get tired later on and sleep unable to spend time on thinking about the break up. I would pamper myself and get a haircut and make myself more...

break up relationship

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brianneleary19 I just try to distract myself by hanging out with friends or playing video games. After my first love broke up with me I cut my hair off really short since I was feeling depressed...so I guess you could consider that changing my look or whatever as well....

21 Jun 11

My daughters boyfriend is very jealous and I'm not liking it!

JenInTN @JenInTN (27514) • United States 18 Jun 11

My daughter has been seeing this boy for a little over a year. She will be 18 in September and to be honest he is her first real boyfriend. I was always funny about letting her date so you could say she was a little late at doing...

daughter

jealous boyfriend

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brianneleary19 That is ridiculous. He shouldn't be forbidding her to hang out with her friends regardless of their gender. Unless she has given him a reason not to trust her, he has no right to be limiting her like that. Your daughter shouldn't have to deal with crap like...

21 Jun 11

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What do you feel about falling in love with a Friend

stylewaves @stylewaves (1060) • India 3 May 11

I heard so many stories that people will fall in love with a Girl or boy who is considered to be his/her best friend , before that , will it be like spoiling a good friendship or else friendship is the base for love ?

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brianneleary19 I've been there and done that. It was all fine, but we eventually broke up mostly because of my insecurity issues and he couldn't handle my depression. We worked better as friends than lovers, I suppose. I don't talk to him anymore though, as it's too painful...

3 May 11

these feeling just for you who have I left gone far

gorila @gorila (186) • Indonesia 30 Apr 11

have you ever felt a sense of longing to your ex-girlfriend, that you leave. and there is no communication for several years, until now?

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brianneleary19 I think there are some people that you really never lose feelings for. I think this is true for me when it comes to my first love/ex boyfriend. I don't have feelings for him in the sense that I'm still in love with him, I just still care about him despite...

3 May 11

"My lot is a scam lost my earning. my lot not fair". me "Oh My G"

Patsie Hatley @Hatley (163781) • Garden Grove, California 3 May 11

Lately I have read and heard that mylot is just another scam.Me" okay why". well I was gone five months and had nine dollars. they stole it as when I came back it was gone. I am listening nonplussed as it states when you sign up...

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brianneleary19 There are other sites like this too, not just myLot. If you don't sign in for a certain amount of time they reset your earnings back to 0. I think NeoBux or whatever it's called erases your earnings if you don't sign in for a month...that happened to me. I...

3 May 11

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Been hurt before?

SugarMarie @SugarMarie (35) 12 Apr 11

Yes, this is really one of the saddest days of my life when someone broke my heart. Despite of all the things that I have done to him, the LOVE and all the effort, he just put all those things into waste. He just took me for...

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brianneleary19 It was REALLY hard for me when my ex ended things with me. I cared for him so much and I couldn't believe that he ended things with me out of nowhere. The week before everything seemed fine, so it was really random that he wanted to break things off. I...

12 Apr 11

when will end a heart broken???

asliah @asliah (11137) • Philippines 12 Apr 11

do you know how to end this feeling heart broken??? do you think heart broken could end when you become a single or when you found another lover again??? some people choose to be a single to avoid this feeling heart broken and...

heart

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brianneleary19 There's really no way to just "end" the feeling of being heartbroken. It usually takes a considerable amount of time. When my first love ended things with me, it took me months to even consider moving onto someone else. Even when I went through a "rebound"...

12 Apr 11

Does anyone know of any sites that are similar to Chacha?

candybat @candybat (56) • United States 4 Apr 11

I'd like to find a site that pays a little more than Chacha and that is open to U.S.A residents.

chacha

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brianneleary19 I've heard KGB is pretty similar, though harder to get 'hired'. I believe you have to take a qualifying test/quiz before they will let you start 'working' there. You can take the test as many times as you want though until you pass.

4 Apr 11

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Do you remember your high school sweetheart?

kwylima @kwylima (451) • United States 28 Mar 11

I was thinking about that so badly! Everybody has your high school sweetheart, I didn't have good time wit my high school sweetheart... tell about yours.. do you feel good when you remember the good moments? it so good when you...

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brianneleary19 Well, I guess I technically have two of them... My first love was my first "sweetheart". We dated from 10th grade to the summer before I went into 12th grade. It just got sour that summer for reasons that would take forever to explain.... Later in 12th grade...

28 Mar 11

which reasons would make you dump him?

alina @swissheart (6482) • Romania 27 Mar 11

I know that relationships are all about compromise but we all have some things that we can't put up with...so which are the reasons that would make you end the relationship?

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brianneleary19 I would leave if he was cheating on me or abusing me in any way. I would also leave if I felt like he no longer respected me or loved me....there would be no point in trying to stay with him if the feeling just isn't there anymore. I would also possibly...

28 Mar 11

Making him jealous is a Good thing? I don't think so!

sarahruthbeth22 @sarahruthbeth22 (43143) • United States 28 Mar 11

I just leafed through an article that said a little jealousy in a relationship is healthy. And if there is too much or No jealousy, the relationship is in bad way. It said that a non jealous guy either is taking his partner for...

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brianneleary19 I never purposely try to make my boyfriend jealous. It's not a fun time when you're arguing about another girl/guy. We are both pretty insecure and have low self esteem so I think we both know better than to provoke each other like that. We get jealous without...

28 Mar 11

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Internet and friendship

Humberto91 @Humberto91 (35) • Virgin Islands (U.S.) 28 Feb 11

Do you think that is possible make a real friendship by internet?

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friendship

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brianneleary19 Yes, it is possible. People over the internet are still people. Just because you meet them over the internet doesn't make them any less valid than a person you may know in "real life". I find it's easier to open up to people over the internet anyway. And if...

28 Feb 11

Best friends can be best lovers?

damned_dle @damned_dle (3942) • Philippines 28 Feb 11

Do you think best friends can be best lovers? What are the pros and cons? I can think of so many reasons, but I wanna hear it from you guys.

bestfriends and lovers

friends inlove

inlove with my bestfriend

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brianneleary19 It could happen, I don't see why not. The only reason why I would never date one of my best friends again is (well, besides that I'm already in a relationship) because I already have dated my best guy friend before, and it just didn't work out. We went out...

28 Feb 11

Friends ditching me

chicko @chicko (86) • India 28 Feb 11

Hello everyone, please help with this one urgently. I have had a couple of friends (all different groups, not the same group), ditching me... Its so bugging when we have planned up something, and I keep looking forward to it and...

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brianneleary19 If they constantly do that to you, I wouldn't even bother with them at all anymore. I wouldn't even take the time to do the same thing to them to see how it makes them feel. I mean, it happens that people have to cancel last minute, but if this happens nearly...

28 Feb 11

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