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butterfly6305 @butterfly6305 (47) • United States 28 Aug 09

I was just brainstorming today, and haven't got a clue how to start this, or even the legalities. But, I'm going through a repossession, and I owe $12500, but they said today that if I could sell the car for $6800, then they would...

car help

car repo

getting out of repossession

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butterfly6305 Yeah, it's the legalities I would worry about. I don't want to do anything illegal, just had an idea.

28 Aug 09

butterfly6305 @butterfly6305 (47) • United States 28 Aug 09

I was just brainstorming today, and haven't got a clue how to start this, or even the legalities. But, I'm going through a repossession, and I owe $12500, but they said today that if I could sell the car for $6800, then they would...

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butterfly6305 Thanks for your response. I agree, I'll be trying to sell the car regardless. It was just an idea. And you're right, I would be hardpressed to convince people that it's not a scam. I'll have to check out that website, it sounds fun.

28 Aug 09

butterfly6305 @butterfly6305 (47) • United States 28 Aug 09

I was just brainstorming today, and haven't got a clue how to start this, or even the legalities. But, I'm going through a repossession, and I owe $12500, but they said today that if I could sell the car for $6800, then they would...

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butterfly6305 Absolutely, I think people should take responsibility for their debt. I'll owe mine if it gets repoed. But if there is a way that we can help each other out, then why not. $25 usually won't break the bank, and there would be a chance for them to get out of...

28 Aug 09

butterfly6305 @butterfly6305 (47) • United States 14 Mar 09

I found this really nice website that just started. It's really interesting. It's Bible/God based and deals with one woman's struggles to start maintaining her house. With two little one's at home, she struggles with having time...

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butterfly6305 I know what you mean about the kitchen, my gets cluttered so easily. Glad to know you like the site. And thanks for responding. libby

14 Mar 09

butterfly6305 @butterfly6305 (47) • United States 14 Mar 09

I found this really nice website that just started. It's really interesting. It's Bible/God based and deals with one woman's struggles to start maintaining her house. With two little one's at home, she struggles with having time...

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butterfly6305 We are just starting out after moving, and we found out I'm going to have our first baby. I don't know yet if I'll be able to stay at home for good, but I'm trying to figure that out. I do think this site should be good even if I have to stay at work. I'm glad...

14 Mar 09

butterfly6305 @butterfly6305 (47) • United States 25 Feb 09

My husband is a wonderful man, but I have always wanted to stay at home when I have children. We found out I'm pregnant, and now he wants me to work. The thing is, I can't get him to understand that it's less expensive for me to...

stay at home mom

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butterfly6305 Hi, Thanks for the comments. My husband would be okay watching the baby while I'm at work, so it would all work out great if I could find a night job. I would be very interested to know what other writing jobs you do. I tried to write you a message, but you...

27 Feb 09

butterfly6305 @butterfly6305 (47) • United States 25 Feb 09

Do any of you read her books? And if so, what is your favorite, and also your favorite character. Personally I love the Velvet series, and my favorite is Velvet Song, I love singing. I also wanted to name my baby Raine Montgomery....

jude deveraux

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butterfly6305 Hi, If you are going to start with the Velvet series, start with Velvet Promise, then Highland Velvet, Velvet Song, then Velvet Angel. It follows four brothers, from the oldest on, and they bring back characters that are in the first books. Wonderful...

26 Feb 09

butterfly6305 @butterfly6305 (47) • United States 25 Feb 09

Do any of you read her books? And if so, what is your favorite, and also your favorite character. Personally I love the Velvet series, and my favorite is Velvet Song, I love singing. I also wanted to name my baby Raine Montgomery....

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butterfly6305 If you like time travel, my favorite is Remembrance. That one is hard to explain, but if you are looking for a really good time travel, pick that one. The Raine Montgomery I'm talking about is in Velvet Song. Again, another one you would have to read. I have...

26 Feb 09

butterfly6305 @butterfly6305 (47) • United States 25 Feb 09

My husband is a wonderful man, but I have always wanted to stay at home when I have children. We found out I'm pregnant, and now he wants me to work. The thing is, I can't get him to understand that it's less expensive for me to...

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butterfly6305 It's not so much that he's being forceful, I just think he doesn't understand the concept. He is from Cameroon, West Africa, and they do things a lot differently there to say the least. We are doing okay with our finances. I wish we could have gotten...

26 Feb 09

butterfly6305 @butterfly6305 (47) • United States 25 Feb 09

My husband is a wonderful man, but I have always wanted to stay at home when I have children. We found out I'm pregnant, and now he wants me to work. The thing is, I can't get him to understand that it's less expensive for me to...

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butterfly6305 Thanks again, and you're right, it will all have to be laid out for him to see clearly.

26 Feb 09

butterfly6305 @butterfly6305 (47) • United States 25 Feb 09

My husband is a wonderful man, but I have always wanted to stay at home when I have children. We found out I'm pregnant, and now he wants me to work. The thing is, I can't get him to understand that it's less expensive for me to...

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butterfly6305 Thank you all so much, it's great advice. Unfortunately I have to approach him slowly about this. He also doesn't understand the concept of not putting them in daycare for at least two months, at least here. So there is no chose until then anyway. He would...

25 Feb 09

butterfly6305 @butterfly6305 (47) • United States 25 Feb 09

My husband is a wonderful man, but I have always wanted to stay at home when I have children. We found out I'm pregnant, and now he wants me to work. The thing is, I can't get him to understand that it's less expensive for me to...

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butterfly6305 Yeah, I'll be breastfeeding too. And I kinda think you're right, I'm not sure he has much chose. This is nothing new for him, I told him all of this before we got married. We just weren't expecting to have a baby this soon. But he is from Cameroon, and part of...

25 Feb 09

butterfly6305 @butterfly6305 (47) • United States 25 Feb 09

My husband is a wonderful man, but I have always wanted to stay at home when I have children. We found out I'm pregnant, and now he wants me to work. The thing is, I can't get him to understand that it's less expensive for me to...

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butterfly6305 Actually, right now, there is no chose but for him to pretty much pay for everything now, anyway. The only job I have is to sell some books online. It doesn't make very much, but it does help with rent, and until this last month, my car payment. But I can't...

25 Feb 09

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butterfly6305 @butterfly6305 (47) • United States 25 Feb 09

My husband is a wonderful man, but I have always wanted to stay at home when I have children. We found out I'm pregnant, and now he wants me to work. The thing is, I can't get him to understand that it's less expensive for me to...

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butterfly6305 I think it would be really different if we had what you do. I have family in two other states, who would gladly help, but we don't live close enough. I wouldn't mind going to work if the baby was with family, but I just don't want to entrust my children to...

25 Feb 09

saundyl @saundyl (9783) • Canada 31 Jan 09

I have some books I want to get rid of but they're too new/nice/expensive to just donate to the library or hospital. I'd like to give it a try selling them on Amazon. Have you ever sold anything on amazon? Does it work...

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butterfly6305 That's actually my only form of income right now. However, it's not a lot. I only have about 500 books on there right now. But, it is a good way to just get rid of a few books you don't want anymore. People like me, though, count on people like you, to donate...

25 Feb 09

mariedenae @mariedenae (335) • United States 24 Feb 09

I get so many people saying " Men aren't supposed to cry" or telling their sons that "Boy's don't cry" or telling that they are a sissy or soft for shedding a few tears. My husband cries when he has the emotion to cry and I don't...

questions and answers

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butterfly6305 I thought all of this was really interesting, and as soon as I saw it thought of my brother. But then I have a polar opposite in my house now. My husband is from Cameroon, West Africa, and he never cries. However, I have seen him cry once, and it broke my...

25 Feb 09

butterfly6305 @butterfly6305 (47) • United States 24 Feb 09

I don't know how to describe it. I have done it before, but can't remember how to get back to it. It's little things that companies need real people to do instead of computers. Like looking at a CD cover, and making sure the title...

amazon

money

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butterfly6305 Thanks, I probably never would have figured that out. It's not like it makes a lot of money, but when I find something on there to do, it's kind of fun.

24 Feb 09

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