Why are men so darn confusing????

I've been going out with this guy for about a month now. Two dates ago at the beginning he told me he wanted to be able to go to the singles dances and to have the option to date other women. I told...

My divorce is final

We went this morning and everything is final. We were commended for coming to an agreement. Ya, it took us 4 years to get to an agreement! I'm glad it is finally over with though! Now, on with the...

Ex's.....

Are you friends with your ex? Why or whynot? I've been married 4 times. Two of my ex-husbands I can not stand and want nothing to do with them. They were extremely abusive. Now, as for the other...

What if your kids won't talk to you?

I have 3 boys that have really been through hell in their life. Long story short they live with their dad by choice, sort of. When they were 5, 3 and 1 their father took off with them and it took me...

How long after a first date...

Once you have a first date how long do you wait until you call the other person. Should the guy be the first to call or is it ok for the woman? Is the morning after too soon? Would it make you seem...