Tia Heilig

@charismaladyn (43)

Goose Creek, South Carolina • Age 35

Joined myLot 16 years ago

E taedium, partum. (Out of boredom, creation.)

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SuperBetter.com

Tia Heilig @charismaladyn (43) • Goose Creek, South Carolina 23 Jul 13

I've recently began working on an account on SuperBetter.com. It's meant to be a site for self improvement, and I love the structure. You are able to set up quests for yourself and communicate with others about your personal...

superbetter

self improvement

sailor moon 2013

chiosaanamaria @chiosaanamaria (24) • Romania 30 Apr 13

I heard it;s some kind of remake. The storyline remains basically the same. So anyone know what's new? I am curious about the Starlights.The releasing date is........april?

sailor moon

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Tia Heilig The new series will supposedly be based off of the original manga storyline which, as CaptAlbertWhisker said, is much more violent. New reports say that it will be premiering in winter of this year!

23 Jul 13

When will God answer my prayers?

shona264 @shona264 (167) • India 25 Nov 09

I think I've been pretty patient.Whenever I ask God for something,He doesn't give it to me,even when I know I truly have faith,when I'm sure He's gonna give it to me,He ends up giving me something else.Please tell me something...

god

prayers

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Tia Heilig I remembered wanting something really badly once, and when I prayed for it, I knew it was kind of impossible for it to happen. So, more than a prayer, it was a talk with God, telling him how it was and how I thought it should be, and wishing really hard that...

29 Nov 09

Understand any girl mind

prashant0706194 @prashant0706194 (31) 25 Nov 09

Hi guys, How can we understand any girl mind? Thoughts will be really appreciated.

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Tia Heilig If you've ever watched any of the romantic-styled Disney movies, you can easily learn what most women want or dream of (although some would never admit it!). All that mushy romantic stuff and goings-on about sensitivity does push a button in the female brain....

29 Nov 09

Are In-ear headphones harmful?

sskelvin @sskelvin (133) • India 29 Apr 09

Nowadays many in-ear headphones are available,and Im also planning to buy one but I'm afraid it might damage the eardrum coz its placed very near to it.Does it cause any hearing loss?

harmful

headphone

in ear

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Tia Heilig The only thing that really causes hearing loss with the headphones is having the volume way too loud. These 'ear buds' are designed to sit at the end of the ear canal. I don't use them much anymore because they give me ear infections. Besides, the outer part...

30 Apr 09

left or right?...

twinklee @twinklee (894) • India 9 Mar 09

which hand you predominantly use doing most of your daily dose of activities?.....for me its my right hand.....

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Tia Heilig I'm a right-hand person. I've tried doing a lot of stuff with my left just for fun, with some neat results. I even tried bowling with my left hand, which was really fun!

11 Mar 09

how does it feel????????

parthu28 @parthu28 (498) • India 9 Mar 09

how does it feel if the only person youi ever truly loved and wanted to be with turns you down saying that person doesnt love you n want just to be friends with you........and later you end up knowing that he or she loves you...

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Tia Heilig I've been through something similar to this recently and in the past with the same guy. He told me once that he is a commitment-phobic, and it hurt me so much for him to leave both times. I can acknowledge that love is a transient thing at times, but if you...

11 Mar 09

Is it fair to force your children into religion?

HearrttAttaccck @HearrttAttaccck (47) • United States 17 Feb 09

Religion seems to be a very touchy subject. I met a friend and he is atheist. At the time, I was beginning to fade from being religious and he really opened my eyes up. I'm no longer religious. I can not accept something that...

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Tia Heilig Forcing someone to do anything isn't very nice to begin with. But I do think it's important to give a child a set of beliefs to branch out from. Whether they're Christian, Buddhist, Hindu, etc., at least they have a set of rules which can guide their faith in...

20 Feb 09

the right age to lose virginity

twistdbrainz @twistdbrainz (426) • India 14 Feb 09

Hey there.....i wanted to know your views on what according to you should be the best age for a girl or a boy to lose his or her virginity???? Is 16 years too young for this????coz i did it when i was 16.....what do u think was...

age

sex

virginity

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Tia Heilig A lot of people would say to wait until you're married, but what if you never get married? I tried my best to wait until I was sure I was ready for it physically and emotionally, and until I felt I was with the right person. I had just turned 17 when that...

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Is it ok to send?

ersmommy1 @ersmommy1 (12588) • United States 11 Feb 09

flowers to a man? Valentines Day is around the corner. I have sent flowers to my hubby before. But some people may think it should only be the other way around, that the man be the only flower sender. What do you think?

flowers

men

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Tia Heilig Every man has a feminine side. You'd be surprised just how many men would love to receive half of the things they give to the women they love. Here's something for you to think about: On Valentine's Day in Japan, it's the women who give chocolate to the...

13 Feb 09

I'm at a loss, falling in love.

joejoe716 @joejoe716 (45) • China 4 Feb 09

We have fallen in love for almost four months and we love each other so much. I put her in the first place and I have given up many things for her but I feel there's something wrong with me. Some of my friends said, it's bad for...

help

loss

love

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Tia Heilig You haven't said anything about how she feels. If she's with you, she's obviously happy. And you don't say anything about what she gives to you either, and how you feel about it, so you must be happy too. Just stick with it, and the love between you will grow...

5 Feb 09

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Problems with computers

vonvonex @vonvonex (283) • Philippines 2 Feb 09

My computer sucks man! How about your? I just can't get ride of some freaking viruses swarming in the internet! It is now slowing the performance of my computer. CAn anyone help me out here? I'm getting pissed of the viruses and...

computer

problems

viruses

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Tia Heilig The best antivirus program I know of is avast! antivirus. It's available at http://www.avast.com for free download.

4 Feb 09

Long distance love, can you handle it?

codiecoco @codiecoco (65) • United States 2 Feb 09

I know many people dont believe in long distance relationships and I used to be one of them. But, since me and my boyfriend have been together we have had much distance in our relationship. He works on the road so he is gone...

long distance

love

relationships

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Tia Heilig I don't think a long distance relationship is feasible for me. I mean, talking with the person you love is easy enough over the phone, and they've got webcams if you want to see them. The problem is touch. Sure, they've got technology for this too (go to...

4 Feb 09

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What's the best way of showing that your sorry?

donsky14 @donsky14 (5947) • Philippines 28 Jan 09

Hey guys, What's the best way of saying/showing that your sorry to your lover? I feel so guilty right now, I did something to hurt my boyfriend earlier...and I wasn't able to say sorry to him. I really want him...

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Tia Heilig Saying 'sorry' is good, but it means a lot more if you acknowledge what you did wrong. If it was something you said that hurt him, you should first tell him that you realize what you said; next, that you realize how hurtful it was to him; after that, tell him...

2 Feb 09

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Is titanic the best movie ever?

nirose @nirose (384) • India 15 Jan 09

Man i have watched it many times and it still feels great to watch the movie. I just love the movie. if you like the movie which is the best part of the movie? For me the one scene where the musicians don't leave the ship and...

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Tia Heilig I don't have any one favorite part in the movie, but I thought it was amazing all the same. I think the forbidden love theme in the movie really speaks to a lot of people, though.

16 Jan 09

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What instant messaging software do you use?

markmoney @markmoney (2868) • Philippines 15 Jan 09

Me, I often use Yahoo Messenger. Actually, I keep connected because when I sign out in computer, it will automatically sign in to my cellphone. Even I'm not using a computer, I can still receive and send instant messages using my...

cellphone

messages

yahoo messenger

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Tia Heilig Yahoo! is my very favorite too. I'm starting to become a fan of MSN and Windows live, and I also use AOL Instant Messenger a lot as well. Not all my friends use the same messengers, and since I've traveled so many different places, it helps to have several...

16 Jan 09

What do you think??

Mocha09 @Mocha09 (71) • United States 4 Jan 09

Do you think two people should stay together just for their children? I know someone who is in a very unhappy relationship and is afraid to leave because he feels his daughter is still young and it would hurt her if he isn't...

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Tia Heilig This is where communication between loved ones is so often overlooked. Has the couple discussed their differences? Have they considered marriage counseling? If divorce is inevitable, is the child old enough to be told all of the implications - the most...

5 Jan 09

Did you like listening to stories when you were a child?

maximax8 @maximax8 (31053) • United Kingdom 4 Jan 09

I loved it when my mum read me stories when I was a child. Sometimes I liked to hear the same story again the next day. I liked stories about dolls and I listened very carefully. When I was a bit older I enjoyed listening to...

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Tia Heilig I remember my mom reading poems and singing to me before I went to sleep - but I loved it so much that, eventually, I learned to read for myself, and the roles got reversed! Now I read things out loud to my mom if she's tired and we're up for it - our favorite...

5 Jan 09

I need some ideas!

jennifer611 @jennifer611 (2514) • United States 3 Jan 09

I have 4 kids and I need some ideas on how to make my dollars stretch when it comes to groceries. do you have any ideas for low cost meals? ideas on how to make your dollars and food stretch for a whole month would be great.

groceries

low cost shopping

meals

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Tia Heilig If you live close to a Wal*Mart, here's some neat info: Wal*Mart has an advertisement that says they'll match their competitors' prices. Take advantage of this by hunting through local grocery ads while you're shopping there, and if the other store sells it...

5 Jan 09