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chechemdcm @chechemdcm (47) • Philippines 26 Feb 07

Have you experience working in an office where conflicts among management and employees is a regular scenario? Well, I am. It is really hard because even if you are not involved sometimes you are being affected by the consequences...

office conflicts

chechemdcm @chechemdcm (47) • Philippines 26 Feb 07

When you had fight with your partner, who does say sorry? or have you ever bother to say you're sorry? since we got married, every time my hubby and I have this "little fight" no one wants to say sorry. We just let the time pass...

saying sorry

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weemam @weemam (13372) 25 Feb 07

As most of you know my Mum and Dad both have Alzheimer's and my youngest son was born with Cerebral Palsy , It had been a bad morning for them and I needed to relax a bit and the PC was down so I locked out a Camcorder tape from...

cerebral palsy

did me good

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chechemdcm Yes, Crying really helps us to relieve all the pains inside of us. It can lessen the burden and it can make you feel good afterwards. Always bear in your mind that God will never give us problems that we cannot handle. Now, you will realize that all those...

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Sasselle @Sasselle (698) • Australia 25 Feb 07

I went to a lovely wedding yesterday and I guess it made me think about this. So I have two questions ... Do you find it rude if you are asked to give money as a gift? and Have you ever felt ripped off if you have given money...

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chechemdcm I believed the couple is just being practical....Nowadays, it is better to give them money as a gift so they can buy what they really need and what they really want. This is also to avoid redundancy on the kind of gifts usually received on wedding day. When my...

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appu14 @appu14 (45) • India 26 Feb 07

Do you really thing that one can fall in love with someone at first sight..and if yes how long that relationship can last??????

love

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chechemdcm For me, it isnt true. I dont believe in love at first sight. You may get attracted to someone the first time you see him/her, but falling in love, is far different from attraction. Its a process.... that why "falling" in love. It's not an "instant".

26 Feb 07

unpretty14 @unpretty14 (63) • Philippines 25 Feb 07

Have you ever been inlove? Horrible isn't it? It makes you vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens your heart and it means someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses. You build up this...

love

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chechemdcm it is very sad that you have that feeling about love. You must remember that we all live by God's Love. Love completes you. If you are being hurt by someone. you just have to let go. Loving is sometimes letting go, instead of holding on.

26 Feb 07

mystic_0318 @mystic_0318 (937) • United States 25 Feb 07

My husband and I have been married 12yrs and it's been a bad 12yrs. He has beat me, degrade me, he is a acholic/drug addict. He has been in jail most of our marriage from the drinking and drugs and assult. We are seperated now and...

controling

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chechemdcm How can he control you when he is in jail? He can do nothing. He cannot possibly harm you. Your bad experiences with your husband are good reasons for you to move on with your life. Do not help him as he has to learn his lessons for all his wrong doings.

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lyricsmama @lyricsmama (48) • United States 21 Feb 07

Is it right or wrong? Did you get your babies ears pierced? If not is there a certain age they have to be before you will get it done??? For us, it wasn't the right thing to do. Its cosmetic, it has no good benefit healthwise...

babies

ears

piercings

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chechemdcm i had my baby's ears pierced when she was 1 month old. I guess there's nothing wrong with it. Just make sure the you could rely and trust the doctor who would do it to assure the safety of your baby.

22 Feb 07

WeenitsMom @WeenitsMom (492) • United States 21 Feb 07

I'm fat. I admit it. I don't like it, but right now, there isn't really much I can do about it. NOw, that said, I have a thought. I use to work with the Develpomentally Disabled, residentially. One of the tasks I neede to perform...

embarrassed

obesity

shopping

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chechemdcm Well, thats really rude! Who is she to decide what r you going to buy and what you're going to eat. You should have said something. You didnt need her help and opinion cause she doesnt related to you in any way. She isnt your friend, she didnt even know your...

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Anakata2007 @Anakata2007 (1785) • Canada 16 Feb 07

I'm starting to wonder if everyone else is perfect except me. My husband tells me that I "yell at him all the time", so I started writing down on a calender when I get angry. I NEVER yell, and he finally admitted that...he just...

anger

husband

moody

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chechemdcm Nobody's perfect. YOu are not the only one who experience that. Count me in. My husband would always tell me y am i always mad at him, when actually i am not. They are just affected when they see us sad or mad. It's normal to feel anger or to be mad at...

22 Feb 07

chechemdcm @chechemdcm (47) • Philippines 21 Feb 07

What do you do when you have nothing to at work, or simply not wanting to do your paperworks? It's really hard to pretend that you're busy when its really isn't.After finishing my monthly report, i get to play scrabble, get to...

work

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chechemdcm i guess we're on the same shoes ' lol....

22 Feb 07

mommydiaries @mommydiaries (191) • Philippines 21 Feb 07

I gave birth to my eldest in December 2005 via emergency c-section due to a cord coil. I am due to give birth again this May 2007. My OB GYNE says there is a chance I can deliver normally if my uterus is strong. The thought scares...

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chechemdcm If its ok, i would choose a normal delivery. There is this kind of anesthesia, given by the anesthesiologist continuously, while you're on labor, so you wouldn't feel the pain. but you also have to ask your OB-GYNE as to the safety of using it.

21 Feb 07

chechemdcm @chechemdcm (47) • Philippines 21 Feb 07

What do you do when you have nothing to at work, or simply not wanting to do your paperworks? It's really hard to pretend that you're busy when its really isn't.After finishing my monthly report, i get to play scrabble, get to...

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bethel_101 @bethel_101 (432) • Philippines 21 Feb 07

i've never been married all my life, and i'm just curious. did you marry your betterhalf because of convenience or because of love? some people say you should marry someone who is financially and emotionally stable. so do you look...

relationships

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chechemdcm Never go into marriage when you're not inlove. "Love" should be the first reason for you to marry someone. Of course, you should also consider the fact the that someone you're going to marry can provide for you and your future kids and that he/she is mature...

21 Feb 07

Seawaves @Seawaves (106) • United States 21 Feb 07

i existed in several situation when other children in my family or my freinds were acting really bad and saying bad stuff and beating other in front of my child and when we get to go home my baby start copying what she was seeing...

parenting

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chechemdcm Nothing is wrong with you but you cannot also blame the whole word for whatever your daughter is learning from other kids. There is just some parents who don't know how to discipline their kids. Talk to your daughter and and patiently and carefully explain to...

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Anakata2007 @Anakata2007 (1785) • Canada 21 Feb 07

I have been off work for 4 months. I had a stillborn baby daughter in November. Tomorrow is my first day back at work. I'm very nervous as well as very angry at the people I work with. I'm angry because everyone I know sent us a...

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chechemdcm Be professional. Dont have to smile and you dont have to frown. Just do your work. Time heals wounds. At least now you know, who is your true friends.

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chechemdcm @chechemdcm (47) • Philippines 20 Feb 07

My officemate has a friend here in our office. They were very close until the girl fell in love with the guy. The girl shares her feelings with us, being the first time she felt that way, she's always asking questions about love...

relationships

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chechemdcm Its a little bit confusing coz the guy never said "iloveyou" nor "ilikeyou" but he is asking the girl for a date? what could than mean? We i guess, she just have to get over it. right?

21 Feb 07

chechemdcm @chechemdcm (47) • Philippines 20 Feb 07

My officemate has a friend here in our office. They were very close until the girl fell in love with the guy. The girl shares her feelings with us, being the first time she felt that way, she's always asking questions about love...

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chechemdcm Well, the guy never utter the word "Iloveyou" nor "I like you" but they have this "closeness" which somehow associated to boyfriend-girlfriend thing. The girl honestly admit to the guy that she's falling for him. But the guy never said a thing about his...

21 Feb 07

chechemdcm @chechemdcm (47) • Philippines 20 Feb 07

My officemate has a friend here in our office. They were very close until the girl fell in love with the guy. The girl shares her feelings with us, being the first time she felt that way, she's always asking questions about love...

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