clamrnguy

@clamrnguy (38)

Age 50

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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I am disappointed in him.

Andrealoves7and8 @rogue13xmen13 (14403) • United States 20 Sep 08

Now, everyone, you know me, I rarely ever mention my personal life on my here, but my boyfriend failed a year a college, he does not have a job, and he has no license. He tells me that he is working hard to get a job, but I do not...

breaking my heart

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clamrnguy I disagree! Do not give him more attention. Give him less. Tell him you are moving on until he gets motivated or gets his life moving. I know this from personal experience. It may hurt, but he will not simply say o.k. good ridence. He will get up off his...

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should needy families be required to take drug tests to receive aid?

raydene @raydene (9871) • United States 19 Aug 08

What do you think? I think it's not a bad idea as long as they will offer rehab. I do worry that children will suffer for the parents bad habits. I go back and forth about it. It's complicated! xoxoxoxoxoxo

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clamrnguy yes,yes,yes. not complicated for me. i'm not buying noone else's drugs if i have a choice.

20 Aug 08

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Was the Death Penalty justified in this case? I don't think so.

lloydanthony111 @lloydanthony111 (4698) • United States 18 Aug 08

I just read this article and can't believe how callous this whole situation sounds. Here is the story. BRAIDWOOD, Ill. - Illinois State Police say four buffalo have been killed after escaping from a farm and blocking morning...

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clamrnguy i agree. they probably couldn't allow traffic to continue backing up for too long though.

20 Aug 08

I'm Watching Barack Obama Speak to the Veterans of Foreign Wars.

lloydanthony111 @lloydanthony111 (4698) • United States 19 Aug 08

Barack Obama makes so much sense that I find it difficult to understand why anyone would question his ability to lead our nations. He has receive numerous applauses from this group. They know he's making sense. Why should...

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clamrnguy I believe he is the modern antichrist. sorry, just an opinion, but the antichrist will be very crafty, "make sense", and have many followers. i hope i dont get murdered for saying this.

20 Aug 08

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Was the Death Penalty justified in this case? I don't think so.

lloydanthony111 @lloydanthony111 (4698) • United States 18 Aug 08

I just read this article and can't believe how callous this whole situation sounds. Here is the story. BRAIDWOOD, Ill. - Illinois State Police say four buffalo have been killed after escaping from a farm and blocking morning...

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clamrnguy i think it was justified, only if there was no other means of removing the animals, but if they had been people,due to new stipulations in the law these days, and there was no other way they would have shot them too. this i definately have a problem with, but...

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what is the best free gift i can give my wife for our anniversary?

clamrnguy @clamrnguy (38) 18 Aug 08

my wife and i recently went through some bad times in our relationship and nearly split. without going into great detail, getting us fixed has put us in a serious tight financially. this week we have $000 to spend and our...

grow old with wife

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clamrnguy thank you, you have helped the way i think about the aniversary gift and have given me the greatest ideas. i will do something very similar to this. things are not quite as bad as pb&j, just very tight, too tight to spend on anything but nessesities. i intend...

18 Aug 08

what is the best free gift i can give my wife for our anniversary?

clamrnguy @clamrnguy (38) 18 Aug 08

my wife and i recently went through some bad times in our relationship and nearly split. without going into great detail, getting us fixed has put us in a serious tight financially. this week we have $000 to spend and our...

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Bottled Up

lisa0351 @lisa0351 (303) • United States 12 Aug 08

My husband bottles up his feelings and emotions until one day he just breaks down. We've been working on it, but he is getting nowhere. I can tell when something is bothering him, sometimes he tells me, other times he doesn't....

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clamrnguy I am exactly how you described your husband. i have always been this way and did not even realize i was until recently, when i almost lost my wife of 7 yrs. it really opened my eyes to a lot of things, but nothing compared to what i discovered when i started...

18 Aug 08

To be happy

as2006 @as2006 (5040) • Israel 16 Aug 08

We can be happy if we choose to! Can you agree with that?

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clamrnguy love yor comment,and it is so true. if we live to give we will be happy. even when someone tries to take our happiness, we will hold our head up high and know that we have done well. so true. thank you. i think we sometimes get trapped into a pattern of...

17 Aug 08

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I heard my two year old cursing while playing...

aseretdd @aseretdd (13730) • Philippines 15 Aug 08

Well yes... she started cursing when her toys would accidentally fall on the floor... and i was shock and apppalled... i do not curse so she could only have learned that form her grandparents... since she spends the whole day at...

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clamrnguy i think you should talk with the in-laws, but she will here these things all her life(and see things). i believe you can and should punish her, but not at first. continue correcting her until you are sure she knows the rules and then warn her that there will...

17 Aug 08

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Surprising Dad...

slepart @slepart (207) • Philippines 15 Aug 08

My dad and I have never been close but this year, I want to do something special for his birthday. I want to let him know I care but I don't think I can do something too demonstrative or affectionate.. That just might end...

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clamrnguy Slepart, you might be surprised to find that your dad has been longing to be closer to you. no matter what kind of personality type he is, he probably is thinking a lot of the same ways you are. he probably feels even more so than you, that he has let you...

16 Aug 08

where is the honesty in marriage vows?

clamrnguy @clamrnguy (38) 30 Jul 08

most all of us that have been married, have given our spouse our vow to love, honor, and cherrish them through sickness, health, wealth, poverty, etc. so, with 50% of all marriages ending in divorce someone is not telling the...

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clamrnguy you are right it has always taken 2 and will always taken 2 to make a relationship stand strong to old age. i read a book recently that talked about balance in relationships. not just between lovers but friends, family, coworkers, etc. the book said in any...

7 Aug 08