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deb8er @deb8er (49) 11 Aug 08

I have been a victim of gang violence. The incident happened nearly 18 months ago now and I have only just begun to be able to write about it. I have found some solace in people and things on the internet. I have a wonderful...

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deb8er Thank you for your reply. I can see by your username that you have a good outlook on life.

13 Aug 08

deem1977 @deem1977 (242) • United States 9 Aug 08

When you have a family sim whose lifetime want is to marry off 6 children, do you try to fill this want? Right now I have a nuber of family sims who have that as their lifetime want. I usually try to fill their lifetime wants even...

sims 2

video games

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deb8er I usually change their aspiration so that it is a working lifetime want. They are so much easier to complete.

12 Aug 08

fearie @fearie (153) • Philippines 12 Aug 08

So I just got home from work. Im really tired because of the rush hour. Would you imagine a shift from 8-5. That means i have to be up 5 in the morning just to catch up with the rush hour. Sometimes im even thinking of quitting my...

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deb8er Oh you poor thing - put your feet up and have a cup of tea!

12 Aug 08

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deb8er @deb8er (49) 8 Aug 08

I have done something really silly and now I regret it but don't know what to do about it. About 18 months ago I was attacked by a gang of teenage boys and left with lots of scars on my face and, until recently, in a wheelchair. I...

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deb8er Thank you, I have had so many people tell me to post a picture but I really am not ready for that yet. I appreciate your answer though. I am going to make a website where maybe I will put some pictures in time.

12 Aug 08

deb8er @deb8er (49) 8 Aug 08

I have done something really silly and now I regret it but don't know what to do about it. About 18 months ago I was attacked by a gang of teenage boys and left with lots of scars on my face and, until recently, in a wheelchair. I...

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deb8er Thank you. I am touched and humbled by your reply.

12 Aug 08

deb8er @deb8er (49) 8 Aug 08

I have done something really silly and now I regret it but don't know what to do about it. About 18 months ago I was attacked by a gang of teenage boys and left with lots of scars on my face and, until recently, in a wheelchair. I...

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deb8er My brothers are of the same opinion as you and they take me out whenever they can even if, like yesterday, one of them took their car to the garage and insisted I comee with him and we walked back together.

12 Aug 08

deb8er @deb8er (49) 8 Aug 08

I have done something really silly and now I regret it but don't know what to do about it. About 18 months ago I was attacked by a gang of teenage boys and left with lots of scars on my face and, until recently, in a wheelchair. I...

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deb8er You are right, of course, and I have come clean and, although it hasn't been mentioned at all the other person is carrying on as if I hadn't told them. That was hard to take at first, but I realise now that they have read it and decided it didn't make any...

12 Aug 08

deb8er @deb8er (49) 8 Aug 08

I have done something really silly and now I regret it but don't know what to do about it. About 18 months ago I was attacked by a gang of teenage boys and left with lots of scars on my face and, until recently, in a wheelchair. I...

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deb8er Thank you for pointing out that I am not at fault. As to feeling ugly, I remember when I was 13 I thought I was SO ugly because I had braces in my teeth! I would do anything to go back to that now. You are right though about being thankful to be alive and I...

12 Aug 08

deb8er @deb8er (49) 8 Aug 08

I have done something really silly and now I regret it but don't know what to do about it. About 18 months ago I was attacked by a gang of teenage boys and left with lots of scars on my face and, until recently, in a wheelchair. I...

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deb8er You are right about accepting that I am worthy of respect and friendship and most of the time I can agree, in fact all of the time I agree in my heart, but sometimes it is so hard to do. Thank you for your comment.

12 Aug 08

alpha7 @alpha7 (1910) • France 10 Aug 08

In drawing conclusion to your reseach,how do you deal with a result whose contents and figures had been manipulated,do you start all over again or you just use some kind of statistical methods to correct the findings...

statistical methods

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deb8er If it is manipulated then it can't be a true reflection of what is happening, therefore, you should start again. What is the point of doing research if you are not doing it properly?

11 Aug 08

lisa0351 @lisa0351 (303) • United States 11 Aug 08

Last night we went to see a concert and the lead singer was gorgeous. My husband kept joking with our friends that she was hot, and kept looking at her, etc. He kept making comments on how gorgeous she was. I found myself getting...

envy

jealousy

love

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deb8er You should be flattered! He is with you and knows what hot looks like! And you are IT! That should make you very proud to know that he is happy to be with you. All men look at pretty girls, they are wired that way. Believe me, I know as I have four brothers.

11 Aug 08

deb8er @deb8er (49) 11 Aug 08

I have been a victim of gang violence. The incident happened nearly 18 months ago now and I have only just begun to be able to write about it. I have found some solace in people and things on the internet. I have a wonderful...

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deb8er Yes, it is just as you say. Thank you for your reply and understanding.

11 Aug 08

deb8er @deb8er (49) 11 Aug 08

I have been a victim of gang violence. The incident happened nearly 18 months ago now and I have only just begun to be able to write about it. I have found some solace in people and things on the internet. I have a wonderful...

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keepklose @keepklose (127) • United States 9 Aug 08

its a job

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deb8er I think that if that is how the girl wants to earn her money, then let her. I also think it is a good idea to enforce the law as far as medical checks are concerned. If the girl feels trapped and wants out, then there should be some means for her to do that...

9 Aug 08

deb8er @deb8er (49) 8 Aug 08

I keep reading about how people find it easy to make freinds here but I have not had the same experience. I was attacked 18 months ago and have had to have a lot of surgery done on my face. Before that I was quite shy and since...

advice

freinds

help

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deb8er Thank you for your reply and I know you have some good advice. I am going to go out later with two of my brothers. They are taking me to the cinema. They have been making an effort to include me in their outings (they are all older than me, apart from my twin...

9 Aug 08

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alpha7 @alpha7 (1910) • France 28 Jul 08

AS a father,what do you do to help a child that is use to crying,any little thing you do against his wish,he crys,can Children like this be help in any way?

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deb8er Did you solve this problem? I hope so as I know my parents were at their wits end when my little brother was whinging all the time. They did try patiently telling him that he should stop and calmly tell them what it was he wanted to say as they could not...

9 Aug 08

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deb8er @deb8er (49) 8 Aug 08

I have done something really silly and now I regret it but don't know what to do about it. About 18 months ago I was attacked by a gang of teenage boys and left with lots of scars on my face and, until recently, in a wheelchair. I...

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deb8er I have told the truth now, but the person in question has been on line at the same time as me four times and each time did not take the opportunity to acknowledge me, nor have they replied to my message. I now feel worse than I did and have half started to...

9 Aug 08

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