debbie9

@debbie9 (11)

United States • Age 59

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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Who Should be More Helpful, a Son or a Daughter?

mjmlagat @mjmlagat (3170) • Philippines 29 Sep 08

Does gender matter when it comes to sharing household chores in your family? In our culture, we tend to rely on the helping hands of female siblings in the family rather than the males because we always have the notion that works...

household

kids at home

sibling

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debbie9 There are just as many household chores that boys can do as girls. I did have my daughter help more in the kitchen than my son. I also would have him help more outside than I would expect her to. However, I would have them both help with laundry and vacuuming,...

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Was McCain Serious?

Lee_Rites @Lee_Rites (845) • United States 28 Sep 08

McCain showed up for the debate. Would anyone have voted for him if he didn't? Was he actually serious when he said he was going to put his campaign on hold? I have heard many people say that he has to do the job he is being...

politics

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debbie9 Well said kenzie!!!! McCain has the track record, the respect, and the desire to make this country better. US citizens need to read statistics and facts instead of listening to the stupid media. For example, there were more military personnel killed during...

29 Sep 08

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Paid for writing vs. Paid for clicking

calajane @calajane (1003) • Poland 29 Sep 08

Hello mylotters Here's a question for you all. What do you preffer? Getting paid for your writing or getting paid for your clicking? I know that I get much more satisfaction from being paid for my writing....

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debbie9 I am rather knew at all this... I like data entry, so I guess I would be on the side of paid for actually doing something rather than clicking...

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What's Your Top Two Favorite Free Programs?

miraclefreebies @miraclefreebies (3043) • United States 29 Sep 08

I've been with Google Adsense for several years now and just 3 months ago, I started raking in at least $1,500 a month. I used to make 5 or 10 dollars a month with adsense, but I wouldn't let it go until I got something out of it....

dollars

favorite free programs

google adsense

make money

money

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debbie9 I just joined mylot today... am looking for free online sites to make money, but not get rich schemes. I am interested in data entry... don't mind actually working, just want to do it from home, lol.

29 Sep 08

what do you think about people who go to a nice restaurant looking like they....

checapricorn @checapricorn (16061) • United States 28 Sep 08

[i]just dropped their kids off at a ball game? Whenever hubby and I will eat out especially dinner and in a nice restaurant, we both love to enjoy, explore and just have fun and that includes the way we dress(to the...

dressed to the nines

nice restaurant

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debbie9 I agree with so many of the points already made on here! First and foremost, what do you care about what other people are wearing? If you are truly enjoying your time together, it shouldn't affect you. And of course, everyone has a different opinion of what...

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Do you miis your college and school days

lovenluck @lovenluck (1068) • India 28 Sep 08

I graduated 3 years back and sitting back and thinking about it i really feel sad and miss those days. The days we were together with friends shouting and howling at the corridors. The dinners we had together, the small little...

college

days

school

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debbie9 Oh yes, I miss my school days and college experiences! It has been a lot more than 3 years, lol... So hang on...!

29 Sep 08

Do I have reason for concern?

kbourgerie @kbourgerie (8780) • United States 29 Sep 08

Recently I had a friend ask if she could stay with me temporarily. It would seem that she was having to drive from out of town to work and the cost of her gas was outweighing the payment she was receiving. Her roommate at the time...

friends

homeless

uncomfortable

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debbie9 Did you both agree on what "temporarily" meant? If not, I would definitely have that discussion. Along with a discussion of what steps she can take to get back on her feet. I would let her know that your friendship is important, but only second to your son....

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Finally reached 1000 posts..........

vidhyavini @vidhyavini (6111) • India 28 Sep 08

Hello everyone. I just got tired in reaching 1000 posts. Lol. I reached 750 posts with great speed. I did that in a month time. But the remaining 250 posts took me another month time. I am actually so tired....

1000 posts

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debbie9 Congrats! I am just starting, lol.

29 Sep 08

Have you or your spouse gotten "fixed"?

katsmeow1213 @katsmeow1213 (28717) • United States 29 Sep 08

I tried to get my tubes tied after my twins were born. I planned it with my doctors to get the tubal the very next morning after the delivery. So all that night I could have nothing to eat or drink, except a small sip of water...

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debbie9 bless your heart! i had my tubes tied and had no problems. best of luck to you.

29 Sep 08

Why do people keep going back to thier abuser?

sweetdesign @sweetdesign (5142) • United States 28 Sep 08

My nephew just called crying cause his mom has gotten into another physical fight with her boyfriend. My nephew is 17 years old and he has always been real sensitive and this hurts him alot. This isn't the first time the boyfriend...

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debbie9 I agree with danishcanadian. It is so important to realize that a woman in a battered situation, whether it be physical or mental, has no self-esteem what-so-ever. I also agree with tryxiness in that there is a cycle of violence or abuse. However, as time goes...

29 Sep 08

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