debssay

@debssay (7)

Australia • Age 59

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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How do you forgive those who have hurt you?

amar_sandy1987 @amar_sandy1987 (1876) • India 24 Aug 09

Forgiveness means you have forgotten the hurt in your heart; otherwise, the hurt will concentrate in your heart and hurt you more. When you want to forgive, you will find trouble putting it out of mind. the more you persuade...

trust love

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debssay I don't think when you forgive somebody in your heart that you have forgotten the hurt that you felt. I think forgiveness frees your heart up to feel something else for the person that wronged us. Empathy, understanding, peace are all feelings that come to...

25 Aug 09

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Are you a SAHM or WM?

polo_princess @polo_princess (803) 24 Aug 09

How do things work in your household? Are you a stay at home mum or a working mum? Why did you come to the decision that you have? I am currently on maternity leave but i will be returning to work part time in January of next...

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debssay I'm a SAHM. I have tried the working mum scene, and it was great at the time when we needed the money, but now that my husband's business is established we can afford for me to stay at home and look after our 3 children. I love being at home with my youngest,...

25 Aug 09

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Are television commercials effective?

eileenleyva @eileenleyva (27562) • Philippines 23 Aug 09

I watch television daily. With the remote control, I quickly click to change channels the moment the network program pauses for commercials. I recently realized that I have not seen commercials in a long time? Could tv ads really...

television

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debssay I thinks tv ads are effective for a couple of reasons. Firstly they can be educational in that they let you know about a new product and its benefits. Secondly they can be entertaining. I am a bit of a channel flicker when it comes to ads, but sometimes I stop...

25 Aug 09

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Going Green

BellasmamaTiff @BellasmamaTiff (2544) • United States 23 Aug 09

Im attempting to change to a greener lifestyle. I have started using the reusable cloth shopping bags, and we have switched to a few organics and a lot of locally grown foods. I am going to buy Green Works cleaning supplies, and...

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debssay I made a pledge this last weekend to begin transforming our household into being totally self-sufficient. We started up a fruit & vegetable garden, I am going to bake our own bread, make our own pasta, and soaps and washing liquids. I like the idea of making...

24 Aug 09

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advise to a first time mom

pretteen @pretteen (66) • Philippines 23 Aug 09

i just gave birth last January and she's my first child. as a young and first time mom i know little of raising and taking care of a child. As a mom, of course i want to give the best and be the best guide to my daughter but i...

first time mom

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debssay Congratulations on becoming a mum - one of the best jobs in the world. You may be feeling young and unsure, but as other mylotters have responded, as time goes on and your bond with your baby becomes even stronger you will find your maternal instincts will...

24 Aug 09

Do you have a rice cooker or do you just boil it?

nancyrowina @nancyrowina (3850) 21 Aug 09

Me and my partner like to eat a lot of dishes like chilli and curry that you'd normally serve with rice. At the moment I still just boil it in a pan, it is hard to get dried rice right I rinse it and try to use the right amount of...

cooking rice

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rice cooker

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debssay I love our rice cooker we received as a gift at Christmas time. It cooks the rice in about 20-30 minutes, leaves space on our stove for other pots and pans, and best of all keeps the rice warm until you are ready to serve it. You must be careful with putting...

24 Aug 09

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