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derek_a (5027)
age: 62
location: cardiff
country: united kingdom
my website: Ayre Hypnotherapy
 

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derek_a responded to a discussion called Why is it so hard to forgive a friend than an enemy? in friend.
3 days ago
Forgiveness is not something that can just be done with an act of will. It is a way of life. First a person has to really experience that he/she is willing for forgiveness, and then just let it happen. As a Zen practitioner, I used to have problems working out how to forgive people, then one day, I realized, that all I needed to do was be willing, and then it just happened. I was aware that...


derek_a responded to a discussion called Which type and which band laptop is suitable for me using at home? in computer.
3 days ago
I do not know how much it would be in your country, but my laptop is a Sony Vaio. It is the second one I have owned. This one has a duel processor and 4GB of RAM and I am very pleased with it. It's price here in the UK was just under £400 (GB pounds)..[em]happy[/em] - Derek


derek_a responded to a discussion called Do You Thank Those That Hurt You OR Something Else? in questions & answers.
10 hours ago
No, I do not harbour grudges against those that I believe have hurt me. Apart from a physical attack, I have realized a long time ago that nobody can actually hurt me. It is my ego-mind that would seize on comment and judge them to be hurtful. People that say things, and how I interpret their words is up to me. But words have never really hurt anyone, only judgement. And judgement is created in...


derek_a responded to a discussion called feels like giving up... in me.
10 hours ago
Yes, there have been several times during my life when I just felt I wanted to give up. On a relationship and on a situation where I felt that continuing was just leading nowhere at all. Sometimes it is the appropriate thing to do, and sometimes it is just the ego-mind trying to get me to quit. The secret is knowing the difference and doing the right thing for my life at the time.[em]happy...


derek_a responded to a discussion called Will you tell your spouse about your close mylot friend? in mylot.com.
10 hours ago
I have a lot of friends on myLot and other social sites that I belong to. I rarely talk on the telphone and have only done so perhaps once or twice in the past 12 years or so. On both occasions, my wife has known about this, and she is welcome to to know about my Internet friends, as we do not hide anything at all from each other. If a friend told me something in confidence though, my wife ...


derek_a responded to a discussion called Which do you prefer, reading in books or watching in tv? in reading.
10 hours ago
I love reading books, but it is quite time consuming. But there are times when I read and don't worry about other things I do. Travelling on a train or bus is a good time to read and in the early hours of the morning when we are away from home. I like to watch the the movie version of the books I have read too. Some stories are exactly how I imagined when I read the book, yet some of them a...


derek_a responded to a discussion called My son has already a girlfriend and he is just 12 years old. in people.
10 hours ago
I wouldn't worry too much. When I was 12 years old, I had a girlfriend and had some strong feeling for her. Unfortunately, she was not staying in my country and we had a painful parting. This was back in the 1960s and I dare not tall my parents in those days. I went through many weeks of emotional pain and never told anyone why I was feeling that way. If it was my son, I would explain t...


derek_a responded to a discussion called Mylot .,,,,,,help in mylot.com.
9 hours ago
You will need to cut and paste the URL of the banner. If you want to install the banner for a business opportunity, you are allowed to do this only on your profile. I would need to go to your program and get the code from the site you belong to, highlight it and copy it, by pressing ctrl and C on your keybords, then paste the code into your myLot...[em]happy[/em] - Derek


derek_a responded to a discussion called Is It Happy to be Single? in people.
10 hours ago
I have also known many married people who have longed to be single again, but I think that after a while of a single life, they too would want to be back with a partner. I was in a school reunion a few weeks ago and one my old school friends who I hadn't seen for around 30 years old told me that he was a "gentleman of the road", and that he didn't have a permanent house and travelled around...


derek_a responded to a discussion called Will You Detect the Secret of Your Friends? in relationships.
9 hours ago
If I was to discover a friend's secret it would be because he/she had told me that secret, and I would never reveal it to anyone else. If it was something that could hurt another friend I would tell my friend (with the secret) not to tell me, because I would feel obliged to warn the other friend who was in line to be hurt. It is not up to me to judge these situations however, but it is not ...

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Do you back up your computer?

I had a fatal crash on my computer about 10 years ago and I hadn't backed anything up at all. I lost all my writing, all my photographs, my address book and it was beyond recovery. I vowed then to...

Started by derek_a (5027) in computers • 29 responses • Last response by derek_a (5027) • 1 week ago
Tags: backup, computer, back up, backing up data, backup computer
What do you do about noise at night?

About 3 o'clock in the morning, there was a lot of shouting going on outside somewhere. I could hear this even through our double-glazing windows, so what it was like for those without double glazing...

Started by derek_a (5027) in life • 13 responses • Last response by derek_a (5027) • 1 week ago
Tags: mature content, noises, 7, loud noise night, noise
Is Blogging a Waste of Time?

I read an article on line this morning that was saying that blogging was a waste of time, because where once there weren't a great many blogs, now there are millions of them all competing with each...

Started by derek_a (5027) in internet • 25 responses • Last response by derek_a (5027) • 1 week ago
Tags: blogging, blog, blogs, advantages in blogging, blog:express yourself in the internet
Power of Trees..

I was out just after sunrise walking down the River Taff near my home in Cardiff South Wales, when I saw this majestic tree, standing tall in the low December sun. It is not that I hadn't seen it...

Started by derek_a (5027) in nature • 9 responses • Last response by derek_a (5027) • 1 week ago
Tags: spiritual, tree, cardiff, down by a river, majestic tree
Problems with Alcohol

I am reading more and more these days that young people are building up problems for themselves in later life by drinking heavily. When I was in my early twenties, without noticing I became a very...

Started by derek_a (5027) in health • 8 responses • Last response by barbara7321 (45) • 1 week ago
Tags: alcohol, drinking, beer, excess, fun
Security on the Internet.. What are you thoughts?

What do we have to do to keep our details safe on the Internet? I read the other day that we should never divulge things like the town of our birth, our true birthday or our real names and lots more....

Started by derek_a (5027) in internet • 14 responses • Last response by haiershen (861) • 4 weeks ago
Tags: internet, security, bank account, credit card, hackers
Another User's Idea About Photos.

I responded to another myLot user's post about commenting on photos and thought it was a great idea. What he said was that anybody who looked at and rated his photos, he would return the favour and...

Started by derek_a (5027) in photography • 8 responses • Last response by Aliceinwebland (4853) • 1 month ago
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Thanks for accepting my FR. I hope you will find my discussions interesting. Please don't take it personally if I don't respond to every comment but I assure you I will read them all. If I don't respond it's probably because I agree with what you say and can add nothing to it. But I will rate each comment I find positive. Thanks again. MTAM

 

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