devinitly

@devinitly (93)

United States • Age 52

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am i crazy, or in love, or should i give it up?

devinitly @devinitly (93) • United States 10 May 07

here is the scoop....i married the first real boyfirend i had at 17.. i loved him and still do... we were married for four years with two kids and then divorced, mainly because he cheated and wanted to experience other things.......

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devinitly you know, i understand that completely and deep down feel it will not be good for me to be with him. i tend to pick the easy way out that alwaysends up giving me the worst ending. i plan on moving in with him as just roomates, as i need the financial help...

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am i crazy, or in love, or should i give it up?

devinitly @devinitly (93) • United States 10 May 07

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Do you check your grocery shopping receipts!

mummymo @mummymo (23706) 14 Mar 07

I usually laugh because my partner ALWAYS scrutinises the receipt before we leave the shop - a bit extreme I used to think but now I am coming round to his way of thinking. More than half the time we have been overcharged,...

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devinitly most of the time i do check my receipt. i too have been overcharged on almost every occasion where i have bought a large amt of groceries. i once argued with a clerk over the price of my bread. too me, its the principal of the matter. i think there are stores...

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Kids Home Alone

SageMother @SageMother (2277) • United States 14 Mar 07

I have a couple of friends who have to leave their kids alone while they go to work. People think this is a horrible situation but the kids are all over the age of 10 and it's not as if the parents are out partying while the kids...

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kids alone

working parents

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devinitly yes, i think its o.k to leave them home depending on their maturity. only a parent really knows how mature their child is. i leave my home and they are 17 and 15. i have a 10 yr old too but i would only leave her home alone for very short times and call her a...

14 Mar 07

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are u a coffee person?

simplycza @simplycza (1480) • Philippines 14 Mar 07

i am not a coffee person but i always went to coffee shops for drinks - the cold ones, frost, ice blended, and so on. how about you? what is your usual order in a coffee plac?

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devinitly i love coffee. i love the smell especially...i really enjoy the cold ones too and like to sit in small coffee shops and read anything.. its just the atmosphere and all. nothing beats the smell of fresh brewed coffee.

14 Mar 07

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Get the tissues out !! ...Children are so innocent!!

weemam @weemam (13372) 12 Mar 07

(wasn't written by me, just sharing) this was sent to me today by a dear friend ,I just had to share it xx Some of you may know that our 14 year old dog, Abbey, died last month. The day after she died, my 4 year old daughter...

so touching

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devinitly that is a tear jerker. i loed it and will share it with friends and family. god bless that unknown stranger

13 Mar 07

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Sometimes We Just Need To Cry

jeweledbluerose @jeweledbluerose (3061) • United States 12 Mar 07

Ever have one of those moments, where you just want to crawl into some deep dark hole and do nothing but cry until you can't cry anymore? Or your day has been so crudey that it makes you want to cry? I feel that way today....

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devinitly i too understand how you feel. i am a very upbeat, out going person and i am usually positive and there are people that are rude and make fun of how happy i am....that hurts and i know it is their problems, but it bothers me and only i keep it in....but i have...

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I never thought I would be in such a moral delema within myself...

Jannabis @Jannabis (29) • United States 24 Feb 07

A friend has asked me to take her to planned parenthood to terminate her pregnancy. I always felt that this was a choice of the mother,but now I am not so sure,as I am being directly confronted with my beliefs. She met a man and...

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devinitly i would definitly tell her everything you just wrote. as her friend, you need to tell her your feelings and how you feel it is wrong to involve you. don't take her down there if thats your feelings. it will only make you feel as a willing participate. if she...

3 Mar 07

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Can terrible words ever be forgotten?

Darkest_Lily @Darkest_Lily (16) 2 Mar 07

I found out today that my father said he has wasted 25 years of his life on my mum, me and my sister. My parents were arguing about their divorce settlement and my sister was in the room too. He actually said the words "I've...

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devinitly boy thats really awful...there is no excuse for him to say thar. really only you know for sure how he really feels. i think that no matter what, you will never forget his words...even if he apologizes, you will know if he really feels that way in the end. If...

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devoice and child support and spouseal support

hermine12 @hermine12 (1) • United States 28 Feb 07

my husband is filing for devoice and he do not wont to pay what i ask him for 600.00 a month for support of the children he expect me to sign papers and send the back to his lawyer and we do the support issue i do not feel...

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devinitly i just got divorced and we have 4 kids together ---my oldest lives with him my second kid lives with me and we have joint of the other two. i tried to get a lawyer and they all wanted to charge me 1500.00 to file- i had no job, no money and when i kicked him...

28 Feb 07

Continue the Story -- Let's see whether we can let this thread run forever!

yoongkheong @yoongkheong (139) • Singapore 28 Feb 07

The rule of this game would be to continue the story from when the other party has stopped. No need to be too long, but should be as interesting as possible. I'll start off with... Once upon a time,...

continue the story

story

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devinitly herbit felt awful because he wasn't like his other friends. he was orange and everyone called him carrot top. he felt that he was so different that he would never fit in with all the other rabbits when easter came around. you see during easter, all the bunnies...

28 Feb 07

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Do you wash your hands after peeing?

heatspine @heatspine (1141) • Philippines 27 Feb 07

Well, we certainly notice that not everyone washes their hands in the public toilet after peeing. The question is do you? Or do you sometimes feel lazy to do it?

hygiene

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devinitly you know, i always wash my hands after using the bathroom....i have heard people use the bathroom and run out w/o washing....it's just disgusting! for all of you who don't wash after using the bathroom.. you are nasty.... it is just plain lazy to not wash and...

27 Feb 07

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Life Is Wonderful

kryacek @kryacek (72) • Singapore 27 Feb 07

I started thinking this way after watching "The Secret" Amazing thing is, life starts to reflect what the mind is thinking about... "Thoughts are Things" Do you...

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devinitly i thought the "secret" was just a book....i tried to look for it but never found it yet....where to you see it? I'm very interested in this

27 Feb 07

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Is someone an Alcoholic if he drinks every day but does not get drunk?

brteyes @brteyes (5) • United States 27 Feb 07

I would really like to hear people's opinion on whether a person who drinks every evening and starts in the morning when they get up on the weekends is an alcoholic or his he not. Why do I bring this discussion to the table?...

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devinitly i think if a person feels they need to have an alcoholic drink....repeatedly then maybe they have a problem... if it affects them in their behavior...yes...its not the same having tea in the morning or coffee....some people say they need their coffee in the...

27 Feb 07

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will it ever stop??

cisco1 @cisco1 (539) • United States 27 Feb 07

dang nab it! will it ever stop. Im so sick and tired of hearing about anna nicole smith and britney already! No matter where you at its there! It flooded in the papers, magazines, and is on every news channel! let her rest in...

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devinitly yes, i'm very sick of hearing about her too, i mean there are probably hundreds of people who have gone through the same thing...i.e lost a loved one who left behind a child ect... and possibly had some things happen in their lives too that are just not...

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How old was your child... or you

KrisNY @KrisNY (7590) • United States 23 Feb 07

How old was your child or children or even you if you have none before they stopped believing in Santa Claus? The Easter Bunny? Tooth Fairy?? My daughter is 10... She has been on the fence for a year now. She is pretty...

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devinitly my kids were about 10 when they realized the "truth". my daughter is now 10 and last christmas was the first one where she reralized there was no santa.... my older teenagers kept the secret for her sake....but usually the kids at school are the ones the tell...

23 Feb 07

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Just found out that I am pregnant

rosaflorence @rosaflorence (1924) • United States 22 Feb 07

I just found out that I am pregnant again. I am excited and scared. I don't really know what to think. My husband is happy but we are both waiting to tell our parents. His mom was furious the last time that I was pregnant and said...

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devinitly i've never understood the negative emotions people show when theres a situation not concerning them.... this is your life not theirs... i would take that as they seem not to care for you... and only concerned with their son.... i wouldn't even tell them.......

23 Feb 07

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I just got some bad news

Cheryl Larkin @sunnypub (2128) • United States 16 Feb 07

Hey mylotters. I just got some bad news today so I have a waring for you. If you are sick don't let anything stop you from going to the doctors because it might be too late if you put it off. I grew up with this girl. Her...

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devinitly i'm so sorry .... thats really sad and its something that was preventable... i know i have put things off and didn't think it was that important... i'm sure to tell everyone to take care... thankyou for that message and know how many people you are helping by...

23 Feb 07

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