dixtra

@dixtra (27)

Indonesia • Age 48

Joined myLot 17 years ago

All Activity

dixtra's Activity

Have you ever been in this kind of relationship ?

dixtra @dixtra (27) • Indonesia 13 Mar 07

I have a husband right now. And I really love him. Before we're now husband and wife, I used to be his friend. In our friendship, we could share anything, tell about anything even our secret. I have a small problem now....

have you ever been in this kind of relationship

4 responses •

1 person

'Follow Your Dreams'

SpitFire179 @SpitFire179 (2536) • Canada 12 Mar 07

There's so many different little nick nacks, decorations, pictures, etc, that always say this, but when a person tries to follow those dreams most of the time, something's always standing in your way. More people that i know than...

16 responses •

1 person

dixtra I have a same dream as you have. I dream to live near a beach, with the man that i really love, having a piano that I heard he playing it every morning. Never have to worry about anything.

12 Mar 07

What would you do if......

tator_tot8073 @tator_tot8073 (698) • United States 12 Mar 07

Let's say that you are currently with somebody that you love very much, but you aren't married. Theres a person from your past that you once had a relationship with, it ended, up you have remained friends. This person from...

relationships

46 responses •

5 people

dixtra Nope. I would not give up on my current relationship. The construction never change to a good building , if you stop the construction works in the middle. I must respect the relationship that I and my love's one build now. And consider that a person from...

12 Mar 07

How to forget Ex-Boyfriend???

vivivirtue @vivivirtue (20) • Indonesia 7 Mar 07

I just broke-up month ago with my boyfriend. i met him far outside island when am on goverment duty. We were very close and i feel so comfortable with him. But after all i found him went a flirt with somebody else. Like other...

forget

14 responses

dixtra I understand your feeling. It is not easy to forget a relationship with man. Especially if you had put the man inside your heart. But the simple way to forget him is to remember the BAD THING that he's done to you. First ; he's flirt other woman in front of...

7 Mar 07

I cant hold on to this relationship anymore.. :'(

purplehaze @purplehaze (661) • Philippines 6 Mar 07

My bf and i had been going out for more than a year now and though i love him, i admit that i am really having difficulty in keeping up with this relationship. Only our closest friends know about our relationship because he has a...

breakup

friendship

relationship

52 responses •

7 people

dixtra I happen to be in this kind of problems, actualy; twice. I'm in the middle of no future relationship. First, same as you, I have a relationship with other people "husband" and the second times ; I have a relationship with a man with different religion. With...

7 Mar 07

•

1 comment

•

1 person

Friends....Is it fair for me?

ihsanul_aniq @ihsanul_aniq (1118) • Malaysia 1 Mar 07

Today is the fourth day since my soul mate start working. Actually i'm happy for her cause getting good jobs. But what make feel so upset is, she have little time to spend with me and sometime not at all. Old days, we at least sms...

relationships

19 responses •

2 people

dixtra Perhaps you just don't get usual by this current situation. You feel like you're losing your soulmate. Because before this time, you spend your whole time just with her. You forget that in this beautifull world, you can get as much friend as you can. There are...

2 Mar 07

•

1 comment

•

1 person

If you could only choose one of these three things, which would you choose?

mssnow @mssnow (9484) • United States 20 Feb 07

You are at a crossroads and you are given three choices to choose for your road of life. It will be for the rest of your life. Which do you choose? (You may only choose one road and may not go back). Road A: Self...

112 responses •

24 people

dixtra I choose Power. Because if you have Power you have Self Confidence.. in power you can get wealth ... in wealth you get happines inside. That's road that i choose

21 Feb 07

being possessive in a relationship is GOOD or NOT?

joy1982 @joy1982 (226) • Philippines 21 Feb 07

sometimes im possessive because maybe i love the person. .what u think is it GOOD or NOT?

possessive

15 responses

dixtra I really can't explain the possesive thing. Sometimes people may think you are possesive but on the other hand, you've been doing that because you care the person so much. It can be bad when the caring thing become too care. and its completely disaster

21 Feb 07

•

1 person

What would you do if you found out that the guy you love has a girlfriend?

chechemdcm @chechemdcm (47) • Philippines 20 Feb 07

My officemate has a friend here in our office. They were very close until the girl fell in love with the guy. The girl shares her feelings with us, being the first time she felt that way, she's always asking questions about love...

relationships

43 responses •

5 people

dixtra if you ask me what would i do if i found out that the guy i love has a girlfriend ??? I WISH I COULD "DESTROY" HIM...but from my past experienced, i never did that in real. Sometimes people says " to love someone doesn't always have to own someone".. it's a...

21 Feb 07

Ignorance Is No Excuse

Brian @wolfie34 (26771) • United Kingdom 20 Feb 07

One of my pet hates is people spelling my name wrong, it's not difficult to see that it is the wrong spelling and if you read it, I mean READ it you will see it is totally wrong. It is very simple but so many people have got it...

51 responses •

13 people

dixtra That's Good Brian !... I also have same problem with you. People often have problems to write my name and also to call me. But (thank's God) I never return their mail like you do hahah... but sometimes it's making me wondering. How hard to spell my name...

21 Feb 07

When you became mom?

nehakalley4 @nehakalley4 (1918) • United States 20 Feb 07

I have been married around 10 months back and we are planning for kids atleast after 2 years of marriage. Do you think it is fine as I heared from someone yesterday that it is safe to get a baby with 2 years of marriage otherwise...

marriage

mommy

parenting

57 responses •

8 people

dixtra I also have been married for 3 months (i was married on November) on January i just realize that i was pregnant for 4 months.. and then just because of my own mistake (too tired and taking some exercise / sport) i've got miscarriage. It was sad situation. I am...

21 Feb 07

smoking

Makena1968 @Makena1968 (682) • United States 19 Feb 07

I was wondering, recently I had to end a relationship, and one reason I had to end it was because my partner smoked, alot..and I don't, at all. I just couldn't take the smell of the cigarette and cigar smoke, it made me smell bad,...

relationships

85 responses •

11 people

dixtra I completely agree with you. I don't have problem to be near with smoking person but I think ; smoking is a stupid life style. :-) sorry to say that. There's nothing usefull to smoke beside it is make your body getting so many desease, make you smell bad and...

20 Feb 07

Were you a tom-boy, or a "girlie girl" when you were growing up?

rosie_123 @rosie_123 (6113) 18 Feb 07

So - for the girs - when you were a child, were you a tom-boy - always playing with the boys, and climbing trees, and hating pretty "girlie" things, or were you the sort of girl that loved ribbons, and dolls, and pretty dreses?...

95 responses •

23 people

dixtra when i was i Kid, i used to be a tom boy girl, I don't like hanging around with girls and always like to wear boys stuff. like short, t'shirt. That's happen because my parents expecting a son when my mom getting pregnant :-). But when i grow up, it happen...

19 Feb 07

Defining ourselves by our relationships

thecaitycat @thecaitycat (267) • United States 15 Feb 07

This is something I see a lot of people doing - especially women. We define ourselves as someone's wife, or someone's girlfriend, or someone's mother and it seems like a lot of us lose our own identity in the process. I believe...

identity

individuality

relationships

17 responses •

5 people

dixtra I absolutely agree with your opinion. We should never lose our own identity because we are "with somebody". But if we get additional status beside our own identity it means it is our responsibility to keep the good impressive / honour of our status. Mean....We...

16 Feb 07

Any ides of how to save money on our wedding?

charitymvula @charitymvula (489) 13 Feb 07

If any of you have any idea on how to get married but not to over spend please share and any other tips you may have which lead to savings but a great day anyway! I feel people spend too much money on one day when they could put...

ideas

saving

wedding

32 responses •

7 people

dixtra I completely agree with you. You shouldn't spent so much money on one day. And then the other day is missarable. Me and my hubby married on November 2007, we have a same vision that.. the most important thing in married is make US happy, Our Parent and GOD....

14 Feb 07

•

1 comment

private diary!. keep it Private!.

Mylot member @patrice7 (1191) • United States 13 Feb 07

privatE and i mean private!. not to be viewed by anyone else but me!. that is my diary.. my diary is a very private thing to me and i would hate it if someone read it.. anyway i was so shocked when i learned that my hubby has read...

life

47 responses •

8 people

dixtra What happen to you is a funny story, I think :-), why ? because you keep on keeping secret to your closest person / your hubby ? Haven't you share anything to him - even the embarrassed moment in your life ? Your hubby supposed to be trustable person in your...

14 Feb 07

•

1 person

how would you know if the one you are with is the one you should be with?

dubaimt @dubaimt (273) • United Arab Emirates 13 Feb 07

i have been in this relationship for some time now, and i can say no relationship is perfect. we had our own bouts of ups and downs, and the really, really downs. but after all of these fights, we still end up together and still...

relationships

33 responses •

8 people

dixtra God create us as a different kind of "thing". In common relationship, we often expect to "always" have a good time to share. Admit it ? we like it when we can share the same hobbies, same likes and same feeling with another. But faced the truth , we can't be...

13 Feb 07

Hey men back off!

sunshinecup @sunshinecup (7871) 12 Feb 07

I have noticed men are starting to really push their luck with us women. What use to be ours, men are now competing over, appearances! Back in the good old days it was us women that spent time in the bathroom at the mirror...

35 responses •

5 people

dixtra Who is not right for a Man to pay attention to what they look ?? There's nothing wrong about that, me as a women doesnt't like to be near a "stinky" man. We also feel more comfortable to be seeing with a man with good looking, smeels good and neat. Admit that...

13 Feb 07