drmt57

@drmt57 (295)

United States • Age 74

Joined myLot 17 years ago

The eyes of my heart can see pass my circumstances

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How to live when you got nothing

wongchoiyee @wongchoiyee (7413) • Malaysia 26 Jan 11

When you all read this, I have thought what is the purpose of living in this lonely planet? I have no jobs, no love and no friends outside of my home. I have father who supports me but he is 53 and I am scared I won't be able to...

wendy

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drmt57 Life and death is in the power of the tongue stop speaking those negative thoughts over your life there are lots of people who have no job and I am one of them but I do have love and friends and you can to but first you have to show yourself friendly.get up...

27 Jan 11

Do you always spend money on everyone else and none on you?

jugsjugs @jugsjugs (12967) 28 Nov 09

I do i spend all the money that i have on the house as well as on the children.I never tend to treat myself.If i get any extra money i spend that on everyone else even if i want something i always put them first.

everyone else

money

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drmt57 I have been spending all my money on everyone except me but that is going to change if I ever get any more. I spent all I had now they are spending theirs on themselves and I am without. My eyes are open

28 Nov 09

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Do You Have a Debt?

mchavez11 @mchavez11 (1406) • Philippines 28 Nov 09

Most people told me that almost everyone has debt one way or the other. Some say that the world revolves around debts. Like for instance even bigger countries like America find themselves borrowing money from China. How about you?...

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drmt57 I think the not so wealthy have debts. I think the only people who do not have debt are the rich. I think the poor has the most debt and not so much because they want to but it is just a way of survival

28 Nov 09

Do you think Michael Vick should have been given a second chance?

rhodesmoore @rhodesmoore (10) • United States 24 Nov 09

I was discussing this with my brother. I am a very sporty person, I love basketball, football and any other sport. I am the type of person to support pro athletes even when they have done something very stupid and thoughtless,...

michael vick and dog fighting

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drmt57 Yes I think he should have been given a second chance. there are people that do much worse than he and nothing is done about it.

28 Nov 09

Should Boys Learn Cooking?

sahilpadhiyar20 @sahilpadhiyar20 (532) • India 28 Nov 09

Well Time is changing everywhere It was believed earlier Only Girls should do Cooking Stuff but nowadays the mentality changes everytime,I saw some people who are generally Husbands and preparing Cooking Stuff and their wifes are...

boys

cooking

girls

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drmt57 I think it is necessary for boys to learn to cook alone with every other house chore even if they get married and the wife does it you never know when she might get sick and then what. He might have to prepare meals for her and the children if any. I think now...

28 Nov 09

Are you still friends with an EX-INLAW?

rosepedal64 @rosepedal64 (4188) • United States 23 Nov 09

Hi mylotters. I know this may be a strange question for some you but I do have a reason for asking. I have a two sons that have ex wives in their lives. My oldest son has a daughter from his first marriage and a daughter from a...

friends

grandkids

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drmt57 hello. I have been divorced for 17 years and I have a close relationship with my ex mother-in-law and other family members. your relationship between one individual should not have anything to do with the relationship with the other individual. you have the...

23 Nov 09

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Am I being Unreasonable in Refusing My Ex's Family into My House?

jennybianca @jennybianca (12912) • Australia 22 Nov 09

Today, my ex hubby of four weeks turned up to collect some of his smaller belongings. He brought two police officers with him. This was to protect him from false allegations from me(see my discussion re. domestic violence). He...

domestic

family

violence

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drmt57 I do not think you are unreasonable. H should have taken everything when he came with the cops. If he felt he had to bring the cops that time let him bring them the second time.

23 Nov 09

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i am young and inexperienced??

moondoll31 @moondoll31 (48) • India 23 Nov 09

gotch ya,ok i am talking about my mother-in-law here.seriously how does anyone handle their mother in law.there's just no compatibility between me an my in-law.its sad to see her fight with me for even the smallest of small things...

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drmt57 Hello, are you living in her house with her? If you are maybe you need to tell your husband to move you into your own place I think that would be your first step to take I am sorry to hear that you and your mother-in-law does not see eye to eye. I have heard...

23 Nov 09

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Should I call the Police?... what should I do?

koalatbs @koalatbs (2229) • United States 9 Sep 08

HELP! I was outside early this morning taking my son to the bus stop. On the way back home walking our dog I found something in the grass (see attached photo) right outside our apartment building. It has me angry, scared and...

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drmt57 Well I think you should report it to the authority (police) And in the future if you find something like that just call the police donot touch it.

10 Sep 08

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Is money the most important thing in work?

mychattime @mychattime (1013) 1 Sep 08

I was gona go to uni this year and study property development and management, however since then my Nan has had to go to a care home for a short break, years ago I worked in care, but got to the point where I wanted more. I have...

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drmt57 I don't think money is the most important thing in work. I think doing what you enjoy is the most important thing because if you don't like what you are doing you will be miserable and you will not do your best, you will just do enough to keep from getting...

1 Sep 08

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dreams with people who've passed away

SaintAnne @SaintAnne (5453) • United States 31 Aug 08

I am not that superstitious and I'm not one to believe in ghosts. But I've had three dreams in the course of my life that I had people who've already passed away talk to me. When I was in high school, just as I arrived at the...

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drmt57 All dreams that you can remember have meanings. I am not an expert on dreams but I also have dreams. I dreamed amout my mother when she was still alive, I dreamed that she was sitting in my living room on my sofa and I was preaching to her well the day my...

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Do you really think its possible to earn money online?

jde005 @jde005 (64) • United States 1 Sep 08

I must admit, Im a college student in a town with a three colleges. I'm always trying to find a way to earn some extra cash. I been searching for months. Its hard to get jobs in this town with little experience, your up against...

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drmt57 Well I am sure some people make money online and some don't I am one of the don;t I have tried several things on internet and have not been successful they draw you in and leave you hanging. If you don't have any money you loose because you have pay to...

1 Sep 08

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What do you think about OBAMA?

sharie16 @sharie16 (2212) • Philippines 30 Aug 08

Will he win? or lose? I'm not a U.S. citizen, but i bet Obama will win...I've watched his speech and he want a total change, i think he is really and will be a good leader... How bout you,...

obama

people

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drmt57 I think he has a good chance of winning this election.He has worked hard to get to the position he is in and I think he will continue to work hard to get this country on the right track. I believe he will be honest and fair I think his decision will be based...

30 Aug 08

Would you report an abusive parent?

claire03 @claire03 (1443) • United States 10 Oct 07

If you have a neighbor who is abusive to his/her kids, would you report them or just say something to them? Would you be concern as a neighbor if they hurt and hit their kids? do you think abusive parents should be put to jail? If...

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drmt57 Now days yoy have to be very careful about what you see and the action you take especially when it come dowm to children, because sometimes what you think you see is not always what it appear to be. the children now days know that they can call 911 if they are...

12 Oct 07

Do you pick up pennies? I do but only heads up!

wotfpatty @wotfpatty (2065) • United States 19 Sep 07

When you are out and see a penny (or the equivalent in your country) on the ground or floor, do you pick it up? I will pick one up if it is heads up otherwise I leave it there. I have NO idea where this silly superstition came...

superstitions about money

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drmt57 Yes i pick up pennies, it is funny you say you only pick them up heads up, so do i if it's on tail when i see it i just turn it over to heads and pick it up. don't ask me why because i don't know. maybe it could be that when we flip coins we say heads win...

19 Sep 07

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cancer

wild_flow_r @wild_flow_r (304) • Philippines 13 Sep 07

is there a cure for cancer?

cancer

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drmt57 Yes there is a cure for cancer(JESUS)there is no disease,no problem that he cannot handle.there are people who has been told that they had this dreadful disease but are now free from any signs or symptom of it.If you get rid of the cause you destroy the...

19 Sep 07

HOW many times is TOO many to let GROWN children MOVE back HOME?

texasclassygal @texasclassygal (5305) • United States 10 Jul 07

So as many of my friends know, I have two grown children, one in particular, my daughter, I do a lot for her, like babysitting my granddaughter three or more times a week while she goes to work, given her food on many occasions...

children

moving home

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drmt57 well some would set a limit but there are others like myself that does not care if they stay forever. I have two grown children well three now because my youngest just graduated from high school and is leaving for college in August. They have their own place...

10 Jul 07

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