drsparkle314

@drsparkle314 (529)

New Zealand • Age 35

Joined myLot 16 years ago

Love can become really painful but despite all the pain... you just couldn't give up... because the pain is what's keeping you alive... -Dr. Sparkle314

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Plz guide me what to do in my life

Muhammad Shafique @simplealvi (148) • Pakistan 20 Aug 14

I"m very worried about my life these days. i'm almost 32 years old but still struggling to find what to do and what profession to choose. I'm working as a computer operator in a telecom company, before that i was marketing manager...

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drsparkle314 #1 You need to believe in yourself. If you want to do better you have to believe that you can because without self-esteem you will always only see yourself fail because even before you try you are already expecting to fail. #2 Find you passion. You have to...

21 Aug 14

In reality which is better?

Doodle83 @Doodle83 (1) • St. John, New Brunswick 19 Aug 14

This person is truly in love with this other person...these people dated years ago but went separate ways out of fear of distance. Both were immature and handled the situation poorly. Mistakes were made, bad things said that could...

relationship

lost

advice

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drsparkle314 I believe in taking risks and taking chances so that no matter what the end result is, you would not have any regrets. It is better do everything you can while you can so that when things do not end up the way you want them to, it will be easier to move...

21 Aug 14

Please wish me a HAPPY BIRTHDAY!

tentwo67 @tentwo67 (3382) • United States 2 Oct 08

I can't help myself, I've always felt like my birthday should be a national holiday. And, as evidenced by my user name, today is the day! Would love to hear from as many myLotters as possible today. Hope everyone is having a...

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drsparkle314 happy birthday... my birthday was yesterday... october 1... well my birthday wish didn't come true but i hope yours will...

2 Oct 08

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May I Introduce You To________.

Chevee @Chevee (5905) • United States 19 Sep 08

This happened a long time ago, I am not into dating or a relationship now. My sister was playing match maker to a friend. She introduced her brother in law to a friend of hers, the friend and I were the same age. The brother in...

match maker

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drsparkle314 well yeah... and this was the hardest part... I matched make my own ex girlfriend to another friend... well it's like this... I loved her I really did... but our relationship was too complicated... and this guy likes her and I know she did too... so instead of...

20 Sep 08

loving with no kissing?

xh4mou @xh4mou (3) • Indonesia 20 Sep 08

recently, my friend (a religious one) asked me a question... 'i love her so much...but, i don't even want to touch her, until we get married...' 'but she wants it...' 'what should i do?' any help ladies and...

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drsparkle314 hmm... I used to be like that... I avoided kissing my first gf... the most I did was hug her or hold her hand... and it is actually possible because I truly loved and respected her... and that's how I used to show it... and the same goes for my second gf.....

20 Sep 08

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what is one thing you have got to have in life?

annjilena @annjilena (5618) • United States 1 Sep 08

most people want a career.marriage,house children. what do you want?

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drsparkle314 Simple... I want a lifelong companion... someone who would really stick with me through thick and thin... someone who will grow old with me... someone who will love me despite all my flaws and someone I will love despite her flaws... someone I will wake up...

1 Sep 08

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Which of these two choices would make you the happiest?

powerbrokenape @powerbrokenape (399) • United States 1 Sep 08

Being rich or being famous, considering that the famous choice wouldn't make you rich as well, you would just be an idol to a lot of people and everyone would know about you. :D If you chose the rich choice, then you could buy...

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drsparkle314 I'd rather be famous for a good cause... Why? Because I've always dreamed of touching lives... If I could touch people's lives and inspire them to become better people then would be enough payment for all the things I will do... I want to be remembered when I...

1 Sep 08

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Do you care much about who you are seen with?

powerbrokenape @powerbrokenape (399) • United States 1 Sep 08

When a person is hanging out with you in public and they are trying to fit into your ways of talking and acting, will you feel annoyed being seen with the person if they look strange? I mean, if the person is able to pull of being...

collar

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drsparkle314 not really... it's like I don't really care about what other people would say because for me i hang out with someone for some good reason.. perhaps he or she may be weird in a way or two but if I'm hanging out with that person the there must be something about...

1 Sep 08

What is your most heart-breaking love story?

sugarhigh0206 @sugarhigh0206 (175) • Philippines 31 Aug 08

Weeping because of past. What is you unforgettable and most heart-breaking love story in your life? Does it affect you as a whole and your personal insight and views in life?

love story

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drsparkle314 I've been with this girl for about two years... we were not officially together but we have this special connection... we were sort of a packaged deal... she's everything to me... my best friend... my sister... my mother... basically everything... people are...

1 Sep 08

Do you kiss on your first date?

rhyannefranz @rhyannefranz (770) • Philippines 28 Aug 08

It only happened to me on my current boyfriend, and I ain't regretting it. It happened in the movie house, we were talking and he leaned towards me. And there was an attraction that was pulling me towards him. And then I...

date

kiss

relationship

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drsparkle314 well let's be open minded, in our world today this seem to be a common situation... I'm not saying it is right or wrong... I guess it depends on the situation... well in your case you said you already like this guy even prior to your first date and that you...

28 Aug 08

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Do you miss him/her?

NrgDfenZ @NrgDfenZ (1810) • Belgium 5 Aug 08

Hi all I have a strange question xD If you are in a relationship at the moment, do you still think about your ex-girlfriend or ex-boyfriend ? I mean I sometimes do, I was just wondering if you too do that :) Thanx

miss

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drsparkle314 well yeah.. I'm friends with my exes and we do keep in touch... and my most recent ex was ok with that.. anyway she knew that I was all hers so there's no problem...

17 Aug 08

you only have 5 more minutes to live..

zer0charly @zer0charly (5614) • Philippines 27 Mar 07

God is giving you just 5 more minutes to live,if you are with your special someone/special people,what will you say to them..? 5 minutes was not enough to thank all the people for loving me&for being there for me through thick...

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drsparkle314 if I was with just that one person who's most significant to me aside from my family I'd probably say... "Baby I know I said that I WILL NEVER LEAVE... I mean it I'll do that... we may not be physically together anymore but I'll live right there in your...

28 Jul 08

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How long did you keep text messages from your special someone?

jinxky @jinxky (2248) • Philippines 10 Jul 08

I'm just wondering if you keep the text messages from your bf/gf? If so, how long did you keep it?

keep

special someone

text messages

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drsparkle314 I keep it for years... in fact sometimes even if I have already broken up with that person I still keep all her messages... why? because it reminds me of who I was when I was with them and it helps me improve myself...

10 Jul 08

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wish or a nightmare

PsotkaDee @PsotkaDee (30) 9 Jul 08

What would you do if you were omnipotent for one day?

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drsparkle314 good question... well if I was selfish I'd probably just listen to what others say about me... but if I'm not I'd probably try to save all the people I can save from harm in any way... but like a saying from the movie spiderman... it is not that easy...

9 Jul 08

what is your zodiac sign? Ü

yurishibuya13 @yurishibuya13 (185) • Philippines 6 Jul 08

i'm a scorpio.

zodiac sign

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drsparkle314 My zodiac sign is Libra... balance... weighing scale... LOL

6 Jul 08

what is your nick name.

sangeetgupta20 @sangeetgupta20 (71) • India 6 Jul 08

hello every one ,what is your nick name .you like your nick name or not? I like nick name, my real name is sangeet but i dont like my this name and my nick name is nd(andy)i like my nick name very much .and my friends are also...

name

nick

real

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drsparkle314 I have loads of nicknames... but most of my friends call me ash... it has different meanings... it can be literal yet sometimes symbolic...

6 Jul 08

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A broken promise...

dhangski @dhangski (3194) • Philippines 2 Jul 08

When I was taking up my Caregiver Training course a few years ago. I happened to meet an old woman in a hospice. I was taking my on-the-job training then. I stayed there for 2 whole weeks. And I got close to one of the patients...

broken

promise

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drsparkle314 we have a saying that if there's a will there's a way... I know you didn't mean to break your promise but the way I see it... your promise to that old woman was not one of your priorities... it wasn't exactly an empty promise but you should've given more...

6 Jul 08

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what is the difference between mariage and wedding????

MaeTsuen @MaeTsuen (257) • Philippines 6 Jul 08

well one instance i never forgot a "B i t c h" which happens to be my BF ex-girlfriend told me as to why am i referring my BF as my HUSBAND, where in fact we are not yet married. I laugh and i told her well we don't need to have a...

diamonds

marriage and wedding what

wedding gown

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drsparkle314 For me wedding is just that "ceremony" wherein you exchange your vows in front of the people who matters most to both of you... it is the ceremony of the start of a new life together... but marriage is the "life together" itself... it is the journey you take...

6 Jul 08

comment on this quote

baebieDARNA30 @baebieDARNA30 (788) • Philippines 5 Jul 08

"if love can only be infused through intravenous infusion, it will be the fluid of choice for majority of cardiac diseases." sounds easy to read, but hard to understand.. comment on this please.. :)

infusion

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drsparkle314 I believe this came from a text message... For nursing students and other medically inclined professions this is quite easy to understand... it is hard to heal heartaches and for ages people have been trying to find the cure for heart breaks both...

6 Jul 08

Courtship Styles. How did you court your wife, girlfriend (or boyfriend)?

acevivx @acevivx (1566) • Philippines 6 Jul 08

In the past decades, courtship was usually done through very romantic ways, like sending flowers or chocolates, love letters or courtship notes, looking with lovestruck eyes at the one yyou love, sendimng love poems or other very...

courtship

love letters

love poems

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drsparkle314 I'm the traditional kind of guy and I could say I've done almost all of the things you've enumerated... I did serenade her... I got really close to all her family members... I mean I persuaded them to be comfortable with me from her grandparents down to her...

6 Jul 08

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