ferdilee26

@ferdilee26 (12)

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how to mend a broken heart..

maebelle @maebelle (190) • Philippines 23 Sep 10

i had a boyfriend for almost 4 years... he was my college sweetheart.. i really thought that we will be together forever to the extent that i said to one of my close friend that i already saw my future with him.. but things never...

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ferdilee26 I'm sorry to hear about your situation. The only advise I can give is for you to forget him. Throw away all his pictures and everything that would remind you of him. At least you have discovered this betrayal before you could even marry him. Now you know that...

24 Sep 10

Is the Internet/Texting killing the English Language?

Crazy_Poster @Crazy_Poster (751) • India 20 Sep 10

I am also Part of this...I am proficient in oral communication but very poor in writing or grammar..!Do you think texting or internet chating will kill the English language?The way members on this site talk or write when they are...

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ferdilee26 English language per se will not die. Regarding this topic, I could say that texting and chatting have greatly decreased people's efficiency in writing correct English grammar and spelling. People should still learn when to use the informal and the formal use...

21 Sep 10

If you are to live or visit a new place, do you adopt their language or culture?

torchablazed @torchablazed (3218) • Philippines 21 Sep 10

Although there are those who can understand a the culture and language in the new place they live in, many are not able to adopt or have spoken their native tongue. I know its not easy but eventually some would learn and use them....

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ferdilee26 I would certainly adopt the culture and try to study the language of the place where I'm planning to stay or visit. Learning one's culture is a way of respecting their ways and at the same time knowing what are those things/actions that could anger them, such...

21 Sep 10

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How Living On Less While Unemployed Can Still Be Rewarding

holdingfast @holdingfast (117) • Philippines 1 Sep 10

Unemployment due to global financial crisis is not just mentally and emotionally exhausting but most of all, financially killing. In this situation, is there any means to survive yet enjoy a satisfying life? Be resourceful by...

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ferdilee26 Thank you for those pieces of advice. Even if one has a job, these tips can be very helpful in order to save more. One just needs self-discipline and determination to follow the plan. :)

2 Sep 10

Would you be happy to be compared or pressured to be like someone?

SimpleBB @SimpleBB (1329) • Philippines 2 Sep 10

People have individual differences. We all varies in our likes, principles, dreams, beliefs, and many more, actually almost in all aspects. There might some people who unintentional to be have in common. But have you experience...

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ferdilee26 No. Each of us have been created unique in a way. We all have our own personalities. If we try to imitate others, that's the moment we lose our individuality. Somehow, being compared to others is not actually a form of pressure. Instead, it is an insult, and...

2 Sep 10

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Is friend in their need is friend in deed!!

ANSHULMAHAJAN @ANSHULMAHAJAN (703) • United Arab Emirates 1 Sep 10

Is friend in their need is friend indeed, i have sooooooooo many of them and I know they are not true friends.

best friends

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ferdilee26 It depends. Friendship is considered a mutual relationship. You give and you receive. If you just give and give, it shows that you are really a friend. But if they just receive and receive and ask for your help in times of need and forgets you in times of...

1 Sep 10

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If you have 1 day left for live life enjoyfully

sauravshrm @sauravshrm (239) • India 1 Sep 10

hello friends If you have 1 day left for live life enjoy fully when what you do in your life for die happily.

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ferdilee26 If that happens to me, I would spend the last day of my life with my love ones and friends. We would spend the whole day laughing and doing things that we usually do. I would thank them all for their company. I would also ask people that I have hurt for...

1 Sep 10

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what will u do when your current boyfriend become your best friend's boyfriend??

shineyourlight @shineyourlight (22) • China 31 Aug 10

I am not sure whether it's suitable or not to talk about this topic here. But I wonder what's your opinions concerning this? He tells me to accept this peacefully. And he also texts me that she says no firstly. Becasue she...

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ferdilee26 If I were you, I would stay away from your best friend and from your ex-boyfriend. Your ex having relationship with your best friend is just too much, considering the fact that she is your BEST friend. I would cut any form of ties with her and probably look...

1 Sep 10

Do you wish you were younger or do you wish your more mature?

santosmarichris @santosmarichris (1849) • Philippines 2 Jul 10

For me, I wish I am more mature. Because mature people have already been there and done that. Their experience in life is full and rich. When your life is in between, your life is like always rush, rush, rush, work, work, work,...

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ferdilee26 I haven't stopped thinking about returning to being a child, where everything is free and without any responsibility. :) But that is just a dream. In reality, I could never go back to the past nor go forward to the future. What I can do is to direct myself in...

3 Jul 10

Working for Money or for Happiness?

aurorastorm @aurorastorm (1131) • United States 3 Jul 10

Would you rather make a lot of money at a job you hate? or make barely enough money to pay your bills at a job you love? This is a discussion I have had recently and I am really torn about it. I have a job I don't like so much...

happiness

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ferdilee26 I would rather have less money at a job that I love. Because I would last longer in such a job, knowing that I enjoy it. you can't be happy with just money. Maybe I'll just find a sideline like what I'm doing right now.

3 Jul 10

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what is your best experience in macau?

loralie1106 @loralie1106 (208) • Philippines 4 Jun 10

macau is a very small but a very nice place, wherein you could visit all its attractions in just 1 day. For me the best spot I've seen is Venetian!!!then the visit to the Ruins of St. PAul

macau

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ferdilee26 I spent about 40 thou per head. We stayed for 5 days. we were able to go around the tourist spots in a day. Then spent another day in Venetian.Also went to casinos to try on my lady luck... Though we were there during their winter(around January). We stayed at...

11 Jun 10

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which do you prefer, coke or pepsi?

loralie1106 @loralie1106 (208) • Philippines 4 Jun 10

For those who can't eat their fries or burger without sodas?I'd like to ask which do you prefer?Pepsi or coke?

coke

pepsi

sodas

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ferdilee26 I love te acidity and sweetness of coke!

4 Jun 10