finnyjoysarvodayite

@finnyjoysarvodayite (49)

India • Age 33

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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do you get hurt easily?

deve_annrn @deve_annrn (1856) • Philippines 5 Aug 10

i admit that i am a very sensitive person.. i get hurt by words alone and gestures that implies rejection... i feel hurt when my boyfriend does not exert effort to make me happy., or when my friends are too busy to be with me......

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finnyjoysarvodayite yeah I am kinda like you, but 20 years of life has taught me enough that nowadays even when I get hurt internally I just act that I am cool, but later when I am alone I just think over it and gets frustrated or sad or incompetent. I don't have a girl friend,...

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Being alone is good for us!

careguarden @careguarden (5670) • Philippines 15 Oct 09

There's a big difference between being alone and lonely. Some people are happy being alone. They consider being alone as an opportunity to explore their self and discover new things and ideas for self improvement. Research said...

alone

not lonely

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finnyjoysarvodayite I hate being alone cos thats one stupid time. it brings in lustful thoughts, it brings in feelings that I am all alone in this world and there is nobody to care about me. I really need a partner, a loving,understanding cute girl to be with me. But this was not...

3 Aug 10

Which is the Best Browser for My Windows XP?

Angelgirl16 @Angelgirl16 (2171) • United States 20 Jul 10

Hi Everyone, I need your help in deciding which web browser is best to use on my computer. Please tell me which one you are using and why you think it is the best or even if you think I should use it. Right now I am using...

internet explorer 8

web browsers

windows xp

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finnyjoysarvodayite I think its Mozilla firefox..cos not only is it user friendly but also you can (I use that) download even HD videos from youtube if you install one add on called Greasemonkey and if you have internet download manager full version.

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Life is So Tiring

naoimi09 @naoimi09 (106) • Philippines 20 Jul 10

Sometimes we really can't understand life. The problems, trials, challenges and everyday experiences. I believed I'm a strong willed person, God fearing, full of self confidence and a lot more to describe myself. But there are...

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finnyjoysarvodayite I don't know of what age you are but I am a 20 year old college student and a dayscholar . I experience almost everything that you so well explained . I was once a strong believer of God, but as I grow up I find it hard to believe that there is a God. But...

21 Jul 10

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Being alone is good for us!

careguarden @careguarden (5670) • Philippines 15 Oct 09

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finnyjoysarvodayite a question that struck a chord in my heart...i was very much frustrated when i found myself alone..but tat was only the initial stages ..but as you have said rightly ..i got the chance and the freedom to think about my past mess..about what went wrong in my...

16 Oct 09

Can You Trust This email ?

advokatku @advokatku (4033) • Indonesia 15 Oct 09

I got an email from someone whose contents like this: Dear Friend, My name is Mr Adams Kam, I am from Burkina Faso -West Africa, working with African Development Bank (ADB). I am contacting you independently of my...

hoax

people

trust

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finnyjoysarvodayite lol..this is surely an hoax..i recieve them quite frequently...just delete them..and thats the best thing you can do..happy mylotting

16 Oct 09

How often you wash your hair?

karenkarenkk @karenkarenkk (1121) • China 15 Oct 09

I used to wash my hair once in two to three days when I was with my long hair. Now I wash my hair every one to two days. I am really happy with my short hair as it is pretty convenient. Dear mylotters, is your hair long or...

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finnyjoysarvodayite my hair is short..i wash that daily..otherwise i wont feel easy...and its unhygienic too..have a nice day..

16 Oct 09

What are your ambitions?

Lxandra79 @Lxandra79 (1535) • United States 15 Oct 09

I have a problem I dont have any... Im 29 about to be 30 and I still havent gone to school yet. Im like a kid really, when I want to do something one week I change my mind the next week..its really hectic and annoying! I have...

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finnyjoysarvodayite as i read through your problem the first thing i felt as your problem is that you lack self confidence.." im scared to go to school" why should you be scraed..? are there any ghosts there? i think your man is saying the right thing to get you motivated..if u...

15 Oct 09

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Are u here for earning money or to have discussions???

mohan89 @mohan89 (240) • India 14 Oct 09

Hi friends.... I saw several people are registering to my lot just for sake of earning . The Various discussions every day on this site improves knowledge too. Suppose suddenly molot stops paying for discussions . even then you...

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finnyjoysarvodayite to be frank i am here for knowledge more and money as it would like..i dont care much about how much i earn and true to my word my earnings are so low ...i dont get much time....and if they stopped paying in my present situation i can say i dont care much..but...

15 Oct 09

What social networking sites are you on ?

ronnyb @ronnyb (6113) • Jamaica 13 Oct 09

I must admit that I am a frequent visitor of social networking sites in particular Tagged .I primarily visits those sites for talking and I have met some really wonderfull people on them ,friends who will be so for life .I have...

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finnyjoysarvodayite my previous favourite social networking site had been orkut.but i have lost interest..now i am more glued to facebook..i get into social networking sites to stay in touch with my foreign relatives and friends , to get new friends and to play some cool games.

14 Oct 09

How to Clean up and Organize my Desktop?

getbrowser @getbrowser (1708) • China 13 Oct 09

Nowadays, my desktop is full of icons and files and I have no idea about how to organize and tidy them. What a mess! Could you show me a better way to clean up and organize all icons and files without deleting them. Perhaps a...

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finnyjoysarvodayite i think you can do that manually for which you need to have some patience and if you lack patience go for a desktop cleaning software...and while you install softwares when they ask whether to put a shortcut in desktop if you are not using that quite often...

14 Oct 09

Is Football Playing is Good For Health ?

birdao86 @birdao86 (66) • India 14 Oct 09

I love to play football so i do play everyday but i don't know if its good for health or not ? But i do think...

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finnyjoysarvodayite its surprising that you sa you have been playing football for so long and yet you haven`t realised that its very good for health, in my opinion the best game as far as fitness is concerned.. but if you don`t play the way its to be played your health would be...

14 Oct 09

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which one do you prefer marriage or career?

mafi0831 @mafi0831 (108) • Philippines 9 Oct 09

if you believe, i should say feel that you have finally found the man you want to be with forever, i have to choose marriage because career is just anywhere. you can look for a career as long as you are patient enough to look for...

decision

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finnyjoysarvodayite i would choose career first cos that fascinates me more than a girl..if u marry..then u have lots of responsibilites- wife, her well being, children and their well being, the overall improvement of living conditions, the possible naggings of wife ...hehe..and...

10 Oct 09

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Friends who borrow things and don't give them back

themdno @themdno (402) • United States 9 Oct 09

I have a friend who I loaned something of mine, which is fairly expensive. I thought I could trust him with it, but now he is claiming he has no way to get over here to bring it back. So I say, I'll come get it, and now he...

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finnyjoysarvodayite In the first instance i would not lend an expensive thing even to my father ..lol.without proper records ..then if i am faced with such an scenario, i would somehow get to him and make it very clear, return it within this time..or face legal action all the...

10 Oct 09

Would you like to visit a beach, a moutain or a city?

maximax8 @maximax8 (31053) • United Kingdom 9 Oct 09

I think beaches can be really relaxing. Climbing a mountain can be peaceful and energetic. I think it can be interesting to visit a city with attractive looking architecture. What sort of beaches would you like to...

beaches

cities

mountains

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finnyjoysarvodayite hi max, being a (to be) civil engineer..i would love to visit a city..and i would love to visit as many cities as i can..so that i would be able to know of their cultures, meet new friends, learn new things...also being a young guy and being crzy about...

10 Oct 09

Do you believe that emotions can influence your health?

careguarden @careguarden (5670) • Philippines 9 Oct 09

Study shows that fear, anger, distrust, worries and any negative feeling and emotions can weaken our nervous system which leads to cancer and life-threatening illness. Each distressing emotions produces a very powerful hormone,...

negative emotions

weaken immune system

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finnyjoysarvodayite hi careguarden,its an absolute truth...and i have experience that in my life too..being a teenager and now a youth me too had days in which i dont know wat to say, stressful days...and it was not very late tat i realised how badly it affected my body..my body...

10 Oct 09

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A married man asked me as his friend, do you think is it appropriate?

Betty Deng @bettydeng5 (1822) • China 7 Oct 09

Today, a man added my QQ, and said hello to me, then he asked me much things, we got a good chat. He told me that he was so lonely, and he said he need friends, because his wife can't understand his feeling, he worked very hard...

relationships

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finnyjoysarvodayite if its just friends its alright.but beware of the internet predators who are in the lookout for girls in the name of friendship..

8 Oct 09

Todays Question: How Important Is Money In Your Life Today?

smsky2009 @smsky2009 (455) • United States 7 Oct 09

We all love money, who doesnt right? ^^ So can you tell us how much money is important in your life today? Tell us and be creative with your response if you want, can be funny too.. Not always serious. ^^ So is it more...

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finnyjoysarvodayite yeah i love to have enough money so that i can be self dependent..to buy the stuffs i like,,ipod, computer stuffs, car anything that i want.. but.. money is not everything and i dont find money above family..tats different..u have to feel it..love..can...

8 Oct 09

The Homeless are not all drunks,druggies, or mental cases.

Patsie Hatley @Hatley (163781) • Garden Grove, California 7 Oct 09

This may be abit of a rant but it really hurts me that all people think that all homeless people are either drunks,druggies, or mentally ill. for heavens sake one month I was just another middle class woman living with my adult...

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finnyjoysarvodayite so sad to hear about your plight..as a young guy i am only realising how cruel this world can be..and till i read your post i was also under the impression that its drunkards and drug addicts and similar bad habit people who are homeless and penniless because...

8 Oct 09

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Between father or to mother: Whom do you think the child is more attached?

neelianoscet @neelianoscet (9615) • Philippines 7 Oct 09

In general, I could say that a child is more attached to the mother. As mother spend more time with their children and mother shows more emotional support to their kids. As a consequences, a child is more closer to their...

father or mother

parenting

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finnyjoysarvodayite i think in the young age all the children irrespective of age are attached more to their mommies..but when it comes to teenage..mommies seem the most "irritating ones" with their frequent shoutings although i know its cos of her love but in that age its kinda...

8 Oct 09

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