fluffleshark responded to a discussion called The Dumb Things We Do in love.
1 month ago
Please don't feel upset with yourself for 'allowing' the abuse. Women in abusive relationships*never* allow or choose the abuse. Studies have shown that abusive men specifically target, and then 'groom', their partners in EXACTLY the same way that child molestors target and then groom their victims. Would you blame a child for being abused? Well women in domestic violence situations are subjec...

fluffleshark responded to a discussion called When the victim forgives the criminal, does that forgive the crime? in people.
2 months ago
Even though the girl has forgiven him, she would have suffered SO much pain and trauma over her life because of what happened to her. He should be punished for the pain he caused her, forgiveness or not. Also I think to let him off would really be giving out a bad message, i.e. the rich and famous can get away with brutal crime.

fluffleshark responded to a discussion called Would you jump in front of a bullet for someone you love? in questions & answers.
2 months ago
Yes I would take a bullet for those I love dearly, no question. I doubt though that I would take a bullet for a stranger - apart from anything else doing so would be extremely selfish of me because I have a young daughter to look after, so taking a bullet for a stranger would leave her with no-one to look after her.

fluffleshark responded to a discussion called husband to wife: listen to my mom, she's right!! in life.
2 months ago
Well I do think it's admirable for the man to want to make is mother happy, but I think it's sad that he wants to do this at the expense of his wife. When he married her he would have vowed to love her and respect her, but his actions are not doing this. A husband and wife should have equal say in the household, and if this man wanted to spend the rest of his life pleasing his mother over every...

fluffleshark responded to a discussion called Why I Love Spanking The Panda! in panda spanking.
2 months ago
I do like spanking my panda, but I insist that we take turns! hee hee

fluffleshark commented in a discussion called Child Abuse in children.
2 months ago
Well yes it is going to be more difficult to control your kids without the fear of physical violence, and it will require more work. What I was saying is that you and your friends who spank, like my parents, may be totally in the dark as to the devastating results in later life. My parents have no idea because the whole thing is too nightmarishly horrific for me so I have never told them what i...

fluffleshark commented in a discussion called How Can A Mother Hit Her Child Everday?? in mother.
2 months ago
Meluan so you'd rather sentence this boy to guaranteed daily severe abuse, rather than risk a very minimal possibility of abuse in a foster home?

fluffleshark commented in a discussion called How Can A Mother Hit Her Child Everday?? in mother.
2 months ago
Well you know 100% he's not safe now. You can't guarantee that he won't be abused in the future - it can happen to anyone - alhough it's a very slim possibility. Foster abuse is much less prevalent than it was before. What it seems you can guarantee is that if nobody makes that call, the child will, 100% sure, continue to be abused. Meluan - did you read Archie's initial description of what ...

fluffleshark commented in a discussion called husband to wife: listen to my mom, she's right!! in life.
2 months ago
Congratulations on your copying and pasting abilities!

fluffleshark added a new interest under Things I want to do with my life.
2 months ago
fluffleshark wants to panda spanking.