hailsferrer

@hailsferrer (76)

Philippines • Age 50

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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if you had to teach a child one thing about life what would it be

easymoney75503 @easymoney75503 (1702) • United States 16 Jul 08

personally i try to teach my kids alot of things but one thing that we try to teach them most is nothing is worth anything unless you work for and earn it. weather that be earning it by being kind to someone, helping someone,...

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hailsferrer nothing beats the golden rule: do unto others what you want others to do unto you.

17 Jul 08

my kids nanny already give up

namrelaer @namrelaer (42) • Philippines 17 Jul 08

i have three kids and they are all girls. i hired a nanny whom will llok after them because me and my wife are both working. at first as my observation the nanny i hired can cope with my kids behavior. but after four months she is...

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hailsferrer if you cannot stand to be with your kids, how would you expect a nanny or others to do so? what expectations do you have from your kids' behavior if they grow up with nannies, instead of parents' discipline?

17 Jul 08

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Is money the root of evil????

lynnchua @lynnchua (3412) • Singapore 5 Jul 08

What is the root of evil? jealous, money etc.........name one and the reason.

evil

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hailsferrer yes. because every want and greed in this world is because of money.

5 Jul 08

You find friends or friends find you?

richiem @richiem (3644) • Philippines 3 Jul 08

In case of friendships here in mylot, are most of your friends you sent friend request to or are they the one who send requests to you? Is this also true in your real life? What about in other online community? In mylot, I am...

find

friends

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hailsferrer i need to learn how to socialize, i wait for friends. lol.

4 Jul 08

does my husband deserves another chance?

sophie_142005 @sophie_142005 (52) • Philippines 2 Jul 08

my husband and i had a very serious problem.. it almost ruin our family.. he cheated on me many times and this time i gave up.. i returned everything including our wedding ring.. i packed his clothes and all his belongings.. and...

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hailsferrer if you forgive him, expect that he will do it again. because he knows you will forgive him.

3 Jul 08

Do men and women have the same right?..

Odamashin @Odamashin (434) • Philippines 3 Jul 08

Do you believe that we all have the same right?..i mean..if both men and women cheat on their partners is really the same thing?..but why do some men believes that there's nothing wrong if they cheat..that they got nothing to lose...

cheating

relationship

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hailsferrer it is really a question of morality, not about rights. there are also women who think the same thus they cheat. it is about values, baby and not about rights.

3 Jul 08

How can you not know?

Trace86 @Trace86 (5030) • United States 2 Jul 08

The residents at the nursing home tend to watch daytime sensationalist tv, like Maury. There seems to be a plethora of women who don't have any idea who is the father of their children, yes plural. How can you not know who is the...

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hailsferrer this is just too much promiscuity. multiple partnership is such a fad these days, but i ma not hopping in.

3 Jul 08

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How often do you celebrate family reunions?

m18j7crystal @m18j7crystal (184) 29 Jun 08

Well for us, it's just once a year...

often

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hailsferrer almost every month with my siblings and our kids with my mom. every year with my maternal clan

2 Jul 08

Would You Be Embarrassed To Attend Your Reunion....

eihdra @eihdra (3115) • Philippines 2 Jul 08

Because You Didn't Become Successful? Would You Consider On Not Going Because You Don't Have Anything To Show Off? Or To Heck With Them? You'll Still Attend? Some would be unwilling to go because they are embarrassed of what...

reunions

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hailsferrer no. for me it will not be about material things or finances, reunion for me is reconnecting with people who made history with me then.

2 Jul 08

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How do you know you are really for a Baby

patzel88 @patzel88 (3310) • Philippines 1 Jul 08

A question to raised ask by my youger sister who recently married and busy with each respective career. How can really an early couple acknowledge that they are ready for a baby?

baby

couple

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hailsferrer nothing really prepares you for parenting except when both parents are willing to be part of nurturing the children.

1 Jul 08

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My sister is 18 with a 4 month old and thinks she might be pregnant!!!

meganparsons_4 @meganparsons_4 (97) • United States 30 Jun 08

My younger sister just turned 18 in May. She graduated high school when at semester, and had a baby in Feb. She has been really sick the last week and thinks she might be pregnant. I am a mother of two. One is four years old...

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hailsferrer she needs your support more than anything else.

1 Jul 08

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Do you ever get bored of watching TV?

arddi2007 @arddi2007 (202) • Albania 19 Jun 08

I am a big fan of TV. I watch it everyday. I have acble TV, as well. But sometimes there is nothing to watch. There are boring movies, no good music at all...Do you ever get bored of TV because there is nothing interesting to...

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hailsferrer yes. i hate waiting for the next scene or commercials to be finished. and it is not interactive unlike blogging.

1 Jul 08

Do you watch television every night?

gloreymay @gloreymay (882) • Philippines 26 Jun 08

I do when I'm at home since it is the only time I can relax and watch my favorite sitcom unless I am not out for something. How about you guys?

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hailsferrer not every night. i would rather blog till wee hours in the morning!

1 Jul 08

what would you do if there was no TV and computer?

arddi2007 @arddi2007 (202) • Albania 1 Jul 08

how would you spend the whole day if there wasnt any tv or computer at all? as for me, i would bike the whole day! i just enjoy biking!

computer

fun

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hailsferrer i will count my hair! seriously, i will write with my pen or cook till i break the weighing scale.

1 Jul 08

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Did God create us or we create God?

hearmyview @hearmyview (69) • Malaysia 23 Jun 08

I have been wondering all these while whether there is a God. I believe many people are also wondering. So I thought it would be good for discussion which should benefit all of us who are interested to find out the truth. People...

god

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hailsferrer There is God. and He is alive. There reason why your heart keeps on beating and brain keeps functioning is because God makes and wills them to. How can we create Someone whom you do not see? Most destructive happenings around us are consequences of our own...

30 Jun 08

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how would u like to die?

vaivhav @vaivhav (355) • India 13 Jan 07

death is something we all are scared of. it gives us creeps just by thinking about it. but that doesnt stop us from thinking about the way we want to die and it is not bad to think about it either. for me, i would like to die...

death

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hailsferrer i do not like to die.

30 Jun 08

Gone through difficult times...... How did you manage it?

gsgonzalez2007 @gsgonzalez2007 (1004) • Philippines 23 Jun 08

hello there my friends. I'd been quiet for so many months. Well, I'd been through difficult times. A Lot of trials came and I'd been down and so disappointed. I now believe that you can only count on your friends when you...

disappointments

friends

trials

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hailsferrer been there. been bruised. made me tougher. rules i followed: 1. pray 2. believe that everything happens for a reason 3. i always quote: "this too, shall pass." 4. get my family support. 5. be positive that God, not me, who is wiser is in charge!

24 Jun 08

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Which is worst? Life or Death?

Katherleen @Katherleen (390) • China 19 Jun 08

Hey! Just thinking,so many people talk about how life ain't worth living because the world is cold and full of anger,and then i say:doesn't that point of view just make it worse?

worst

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hailsferrer none. both is good.

22 Jun 08

when you die, which do you prefer, to be cremated or to be buried?

dierdre @dierdre (2207) • Philippines 21 Jun 08

i dont mind being buried or cremated, but im a little bit partial to be buried, coz cremation reminds me of hell-- you know, the fiery flames and stuff, who knows, that just might be my destination so might as well preserve my...

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hailsferrer i would like not to think about it.

22 Jun 08

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How was your pregnancy?

squirt051305 @squirt051305 (381) • United States 18 Jun 08

I just had my first baby in May. I had a pretty rough pregnancy. I was sick for the first 5 months. I have a pheoba of throwing up so I would swallow it and then pass out. :) I had high blood pressure before I got pregnant and it...

pregnancy

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hailsferrer i had 3 babies in five years, consecutive. it was not difficult cause i was young; my age when i had them were: 24, 25 and 28. the difficult part was when i had to deliver all through C-sections. thus, i had 3 operations in five years.

21 Jun 08

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