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happy2bfree @happy2bfree (16) • United States 24 Jan 08

I found out in October that my husband of 9 years had been having an affair for 6 months prior. The week after I found out about the affair I found out the other woman was pregnant. I don't know how many marriages have...

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happy2bfree Thank You lala766!

25 Jan 08

happy2bfree @happy2bfree (16) • United States 24 Jan 08

I found out in October that my husband of 9 years had been having an affair for 6 months prior. The week after I found out about the affair I found out the other woman was pregnant. I don't know how many marriages have...

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happy2bfree Bellaofchaos, no you do not sound harsh. You are only telling the truth. What you said in your response, the majority is right on point. I actually talked with the 'other' woman and while she said that he told her we were no longer together she knew something...

25 Jan 08

happy2bfree @happy2bfree (16) • United States 24 Jan 08

I found out in October that my husband of 9 years had been having an affair for 6 months prior. The week after I found out about the affair I found out the other woman was pregnant. I don't know how many marriages have...

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happy2bfree No need to be sorry. I'd say the affair was 100% his fault because he didn't have to go there. It was childish and selfish no matter what was going on at home.

24 Jan 08

happy2bfree @happy2bfree (16) • United States 24 Jan 08

I found out in October that my husband of 9 years had been having an affair for 6 months prior. The week after I found out about the affair I found out the other woman was pregnant. I don't know how many marriages have...

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happy2bfree I am laughing at your response because about 3 years ago I would have done just that. The past 3 years I have grown a great deal spiritually which is the only reason I haven't kicked him to the curb.

24 Jan 08

happy2bfree @happy2bfree (16) • United States 24 Jan 08

I found out in October that my husband of 9 years had been having an affair for 6 months prior. The week after I found out about the affair I found out the other woman was pregnant. I don't know how many marriages have...

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happy2bfree You might not think you have encouraging words but your response is encouragement enough. I really think that I have forgiven him. I don't feel bitter towards him. I do know that we do have things to work on. Our discussions have gotten a little heated...

24 Jan 08

happy2bfree @happy2bfree (16) • United States 24 Jan 08

I found out in October that my husband of 9 years had been having an affair for 6 months prior. The week after I found out about the affair I found out the other woman was pregnant. I don't know how many marriages have...

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happy2bfree Stephanie5, I know what you are saying. The trust thing is the biggest factor for me. I know it wouldn't be just for the kids because like I said earlier, I do still love him. I love his company and we had fun together. Neither of us likes to fight and we...

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just2crazygirlz @just2crazygirlz (2479) • United States 24 Jan 08

My star number has now gone down to 4. Last week it was a 9. I can only assume someone is following my discussions and rating them all negatively. Anyway, that isn't the point. I did not earn any money yesterday on here. Does...

earnings

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happy2bfree Thanks for the info! I would have been going crazy looking for my rankings before I reached 100 posts.

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just2crazygirlz @just2crazygirlz (2479) • United States 24 Jan 08

My star number has now gone down to 4. Last week it was a 9. I can only assume someone is following my discussions and rating them all negatively. Anyway, that isn't the point. I did not earn any money yesterday on here. Does...

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happy2bfree Hi just2crazygirlz. I am new here and I was wondering about this rating thing. Do people automatically rate you and are you supposed to rate discussions you go into? Thanks for any info!

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wondericequeen @wondericequeen (7876) • Hong Kong 24 Jan 08

Ladies and gentlemen! I think I have broken my track record of spending the longest hours during a day in mylot (my record!). I have counted and I have spent around 15 hours straight in mylot for my past 24 hours! What a record -...

longest hours in mylot

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happy2bfree Wondericequeen, take care of that cold! How in the world did you stay on for 15 hours straight? Were there any interruptions in there?

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pimpsterque999 @pimpsterque999 (227) • United States 23 Jan 08

Its 2008 life hasnt gotten any better. my phone is still off, im with the same guy, my son is still with my parents, i still have no friends, im broke as a joke, trying to find somewhere to live in another town while trying to...

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happy2bfree Hang in there, things WILL get better. Remember, what doesn't kill you makes you stronger! Love yourself first. Don't look for anyone else to do it. Love your son with all your heart! Don't let anyone use/abuse you. I am not one to have many friends either,...

24 Jan 08

happy2bfree @happy2bfree (16) • United States 24 Jan 08

I found out in October that my husband of 9 years had been having an affair for 6 months prior. The week after I found out about the affair I found out the other woman was pregnant. I don't know how many marriages have...

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happy2bfree Lightningd, sorry to hear about your marriage. I guess only time will tell how things work out for me. We are still really loving towards each other. I know that he wishes he could make the whole thing go away. I keep telling him we have to deal with it...

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happy2bfree @happy2bfree (16) • United States 24 Jan 08

I found out in October that my husband of 9 years had been having an affair for 6 months prior. The week after I found out about the affair I found out the other woman was pregnant. I don't know how many marriages have...

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happy2bfree Hindsight is 20/20. Looking back, he suggested we go to counseling earlier in the year but I didn't take him seriously. I felt like the little problems we were having we could work out ourselves. Boy, was I wrong. Anyways, now I have put the ball in his court...

24 Jan 08

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suspenseful @suspenseful (40193) • Canada 23 Jan 08

Our own flesh, from Satan himself, or is it from being afraid to stand up because of fear of persecution, either emotionally or physically. It seems that there is no trouble standing up to those who are of a different religion...

greatest danger to christianity

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happy2bfree The greatest danger is from ourselves. We have the power to overcome anything when we realize that the Spirit of God is living within us. The problem is that for most christians they do not realize how good God is. It's not because God hasn't been good to them...

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happy2bfree @happy2bfree (16) • United States 24 Jan 08

I found out in October that my husband of 9 years had been having an affair for 6 months prior. The week after I found out about the affair I found out the other woman was pregnant. I don't know how many marriages have...

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