icantthinkofaname

@icantthinkofaname (135)

Age 47

Joined myLot 13 years ago

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Being Left Behind

keithgwapz @keithgwapz (188) • Philippines 6 Aug 11

Have you ever wonder what your friends and classmates now?... i mean, i have a friend who is a nurse working abroad and here i am just plain old writing discussions at mylot.. i have also a friend working his life so hard in...

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icantthinkofaname I have some friends from school who appear to be very succesful in their jobs, achievements etc. I often wonder if I'd chose a different path, if I would be in a better position myself. But then I look around me ... I have my own house, 3 beautiful children...

6 Aug 11

How to persuade my husband to do something for us?

bobosusanwang @bobosusanwang (135) • China 5 Aug 11

Dear mylotters,my daughter is 16months old,I'm very happy to be a mum and enjoy every second being with her,however,I'm facing a big problem-my hubby.He is big fan of CS and online games,and I feel more and more that the only...

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icantthinkofaname I'm sorry if I sound harsh here. But if talking to him doesn't work I would kick him in touch. He sounds selfish and a poor role model for your daughter. Sounds like you are a single mum of 2!! I hope you manage to sort things x

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This morning I feel like the world's worst mother ....

GreenMoo @GreenMoo (11834) 6 Aug 11

I was carrying my youngest yesterday afternoon when my ankle gave way stepping down a bank and we both fell. I dislocated it last year, and it just didn't take my weight. He fell flat on his back, smacking his head on the road...

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icantthinkofaname You poor thing. It was an accident. It's not like you threw him down on purpose!! Give yourself a break. The advice here with a bump to the head is now to let them sleep. Just check on them to make sure their breathing is regular etc. You have had to...

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Do you belive in horoscope ?

George C @geojb90 (470) • Galati, Romania 13 Nov 08

My mother always tells me what the horoscope says...that means that she kinda believes in it. My zodiac is Libra and this morning my mother told me that I will have luck at work / school from what she red in the horoscope, but I...

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icantthinkofaname I personally find them amusing to read. But you could read every single one of them and at the end of the day find some way of linking them in. They are very clever in that you can read between the lines and make them fit your lives lol.

6 Aug 11

My husband has a girl friend

smilywomen @surekharathi (14146) • India 6 Aug 11

My dear mylotter friends and virtual family members I know you are think ohhh no this is a shocking news surekha's husband has a girl friend so sad. But dear all mylotter members first read full discussion. One day...

my husband has a girl friend

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icantthinkofaname I am glad your husband was able to give you the reassurance and love you needed. He truely is a keeper. Congratulations.

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meaning behind the colors of flowers

eynjel_1988 @eynjel_1988 (330) • Philippines 6 Aug 11

Hello.. Recently I am confused. I have this guy best friend. We've been friends since we were in grade school. I usually talks with him. I tell him everything ( except for girly stuffs ) I know him as much as he knows me. We have...

roses

white

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icantthinkofaname It might just be a friendly gesture. I think what might be a better question... If you are completely honest with yourself, would you like more from this man? Would you like him to be more than a friend? If the answer is no, take the flowers as a friendly...

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Breeding

CherryDiamonds @CherryDiamonds (69) • United States 19 Jul 11

My cousin wants us to breed our wolfs together. I'm iffy about the situation. She has the female wolf and we have the male wolf. Her wolf is 90 wolf and 10 husky and our wolf is 97 or 98 wolf not sure what the other percent is....

breeding

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icantthinkofaname I think you have already answered your own question. I know at times (especially family) can be quite persistant in trying to get you to do things you don't really want to. But stand your ground and do what you feel is best for your family and your dog. After...

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You definitely don't have any work ethics old ugly lady!

jdex_143 @jdex_143 (1093) • Philippines 19 Jul 11

I'm really pissed off with this old office mate of mine. (Just because I'm a new employee, that doesn't mean that she can treat me like that. I just hate her now.) Here's what happened. Our departments supply of OR run out and...

work

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icantthinkofaname LOL I have no idea what an OR is! But I do agree that this womans conduct with you was unproffesional and her attitude was completely uncalled for. Perhaps she was having a bad day? No excuse. But maybe she won't be as bad in the fuure once you become more...

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Would you buy in bulk if there is a free or discounted item for it?

myfb2009 @myfb2009 (8296) • Malaysia 19 Jul 11

When i go shopping with my cousins a few days ago, i saw many promotion going on in the shopping malls. My cousins had purchased a few clothes that being promoted "Buy 2 free 1". I even bought some children clothes which being...

save money

shopping promotion

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icantthinkofaname I only buy them if I am in need of the item in the first place. Something is only a bargain if you actually need it!!!

20 Jul 11

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How Do I Keep Up With MyLot Notifications

beingwell @beingwell (3625) • Thailand 19 Jul 11

I have been out for more than 10 days. My MyLot folder is therefore flooded with notifications which I would like to check out one by one. I would like to see what topics I can join. But it would really take a long time and I may...

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icantthinkofaname I haven't actually been in that position yet. But from what everyone else has already said, it seems that patience and doing a little at a time as often as you can seems the key to working through this back log of notifications. Good luck x

20 Jul 11

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Is my motther being selfish? Or is she's just being stubborn? Or both?

thetis74 @thetis74 (1525) 20 Jul 11

I am a mother and am watchful of my health because I'd hate to get sick one day or at an old age causing worries and trouble to my children just because they have to take care of me and spend a lot of money for the hospital for...

life

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smoking

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icantthinkofaname I feel for you and know you only want the best for your mother. Unfortunately smoking is an addiction like any other. Unless she wants to quit and has the strength and willpower to do so, nothing you or anyone else can say will make her quit. I wish you all...

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Honey in place of an antibiotic ointment for wounds?

3SnuggleBunnies @3SnuggleBunnies (16374) • United States 19 Jul 11

Has anyone heard of this? I've been reading up on how this can be used on wounds that are stubborn to heal or to help keep wounds from getting infected. Other than the articles I have yet to hear of anyone doing this. But I...

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icantthinkofaname I have never heard of this before. I think I would be worried about the smell attracting bees lol. But definately worth looking in to as an alternative if the usual remedies have run out.

20 Jul 11

A Big Wedding vs a Good Marriage?

sarahruthbeth22 @sarahruthbeth22 (43143) • United States 19 Jul 11

Wendy Williams said something that made me think. She said weddings were stupid. She and her husband went to the courthouse and got married. Then she said she loves Marriage. I thought wow, a woman who wanted to get married...

debate

marriage

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icantthinkofaname I don't see the point in spending so much money on one day. i love my partner to bits and when we decide to tie the knot I don't care how we do it. All that will matter is that we will have declared our love and promises to each other.

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Breast Feeding Doll

AishaBR @AishaBR (345) • United States 19 Jul 11

I was watching the news today, ad they were talking about a breast feeding doll for little girls. They are trying to ship it over into the United States. The girl puts on a bib which basically has two nipples on it and then the...

baby

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icantthinkofaname I am a great believer in breast feeding and promoting it as the most natural thing in the world. But this doll is not natural. It makes my skin crawl to think of young girls playing with it. I think it may have been a better idea, if made a bit more...

20 Jul 11

How do you feel about teenagers marrying?

Awinds @Awinds (2468) • United States 19 Jul 11

Some teens marry quite young - while in high school. Some of these young marriages turn out fine, but many end in divorce. So my question to you is, how do you feel about older kids marrying? What is the good and the bad? Do you...

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icantthinkofaname Personally I don't see the need for them to rush in to things so young. If they are truely in love then the relationship will last, with or without that piece of paper. I am in no way going to belittle a teenagers feelings saying that it won't last etc etc, as...

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Finally a mother

jasmin_niza @jasmin_niza (362) • Philippines 9 Jul 11

After 38 weeks and 2 days, i finally gave birth to a beautiful baby girl last July 1, 2011. I never experienced the usual labor process, breaking of water bag, mucus plug and others. At 38th week of pregnancy, my ultrasound showed...

birth

motherhood

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icantthinkofaname Congratulations jasmin xxxxx

9 Jul 11