ihr485

@ihr485 (117)

Philippines • Age 56

Joined myLot 17 years ago

Simply Meeh!!!

Responses (44)

ihr485's Responses

People-How direct are you when conversing with others?

mzbubblie @mzbubblie (3839) • United States 10 Feb 07

I admit, I'm one of those people who always speak what's on my mind. I've very direct and to the point. No beating around the bush, no hesitation... The problem I have found with that is some people find it to be harsh. Not...

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ihr485 I think first before i utter any words to other to avoid being misunderstood. In that way,we can avoid confrontations and broken relationships.

11 Feb 07

I knew I loved you before I met you...

smints8985 @smints8985 (1594) • United States 6 Feb 07

Is it possible to fall in love with a person you haven't even met? Love without the physical connection. Yeah you have nightly conversations but then you haven't even met in person yet, could it be true love that you feel or...

love

physical

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ihr485 its possible i think most especially if that person is your soulmate...

8 Feb 07

how to fix a broken heart

langhua @langhua (501) • China 8 Feb 07

super glue,wood glue,band-aids,gum,tranquilizers,exercise,"positive thinking",reframing ones thoughts,grieving,red bull(but that stings),triple anti biotic ointment, and whiskey? what your advise or remedy for a broken heart?

fix broken heart

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ihr485 to fix a broken heart??? you kuz need TIME to heal it my frend and everything will be okay... and you should have the courage to accept the truth that everything is over between the two of you...

8 Feb 07

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how did u feel when u learned that your ex is goin to be married

lance0x6 @lance0x6 (31) • Philippines 6 Feb 07

or someone u had feelings for is goin to marry somebody else?

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ihr485 it depends...if i still have this feelings for him for sure i'll be hurt upon hearing that, and im sure i will cry too...

8 Feb 07

What will you do if you only have one day left alive

firedog1985 @firedog1985 (258) • China 8 Feb 07

Suppose tomorrow is the endmost day in your life,what will you do in that day? I think I will spend it with mt lover and my parent

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ihr485 iwant to see my first love and let him feel that i still love him & will love him till eternity...

8 Feb 07

how can i find true love ?

amrnagy @amrnagy (175) • Egypt 7 Feb 07

i tired for search for love i didn't find true love in my life all is liar

love

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ihr485 You cant find true love...let true love finds you...it will come at the right time & place...Let fate do its part and God will do the rest.

8 Feb 07

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Why Do We Need Friends?

Geoas @ashjoe76 (1422) • India 7 Feb 07

Aren't we all happy if we have a good family - a great looking spouse, a couple of wonderful kids and to add to this, if we have a good white collar job? Why do we need friends in life? Just to give vent to our frustruations, or...

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ihr485 We need friends because no man is an island,we need someone to share our life with, our dreams, happiness, someone to talk to in our down moments. Imagine yourself living in an island alone, do you think you could survived there on your own?

7 Feb 07

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the one you love or the one who loves you?

Autisteek @Autisteek (326) • Philippines 7 Feb 07

when a time comes that these two persons happened to be with you at the same time and you have to choose only one, who would you choose?

love

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ihr485 i would choose the one that i love because how can i spent the rest of my life with someone i dont love at all, both of us will only suffer and there's no happiness between us. it will end up to split up if ever.

7 Feb 07

which is best love marriage or arrange marriage?

aryan_rana2004 @aryan_rana2004 (29) • India 5 Feb 07

in my point of view love marriage better than arrange.what do u think?

comparison

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ihr485 Love marriage is the best because the marriage foundation is much stronger for there is LOVE between the two couple, understanding & respect with each other is present and theres a good harmony between them.

7 Feb 07

Do you like being compared to other people?

hopeful28 @hopeful28 (1439) • Singapore 7 Feb 07

One of the things that I resented when I was young and even now is when I am being compared with my siblings, relatives or friends. I am always not as clever, as hardworking, as good looking, as smart or hardworking than this or...

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ihr485 I dont like being compared to other people because i have my own identity & personality...all of us are born unique and have our own character so its not right that we should ourselves to other people.

7 Feb 07

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At what age u had ur first gf/bf?

mathurvarun @mathurvarun (980) • India 6 Feb 07

At what age did u had ur first girlfriend or boyfriend?

love

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ihr485 i had my first boyfriend at the age of 21, he's my classmate in college.

6 Feb 07

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have you ever cried for someone??????

nehaaaa @nehaaaa (1748) • India 31 Dec 06

yaa i have...infact daily i cry for my beloved...

cry

crying

someone

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ihr485 i always cry bacause of someone...and that someone who makes me cry are the people that i care & love so much...

6 Feb 07

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Can friendship come after love?

vintage_blowout @vintage_blowout (277) • Philippines 16 Jan 07

After the love has gone and the romance has fizzled, can ex-lovers really build true friendship? Or is it really over when it's over?

love

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ihr485 Its hard to make friends with an ex lover because the harmony of their relationship is broken and the trust & respect was gone...

6 Feb 07

At what age do most people get married?

simpleatif @simpleatif (2508) • China 5 Feb 07

At what age do most people get married?

relationships

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ihr485 Theres no such age to get married, The important thing to be considered is that the two people involved were both matured enough to handle their new life together, mentally,spiritually & emotionally matured.

5 Feb 07

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Rich Boyfriend

legpain @legpain (86) • Malaysia 31 Jan 07

How many of you girls have a rich boyfriend? Or how many of you guys consider yourself as a rich boyfriend? How does it affects/helps the relationship?

rich love money

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ihr485 I had a rich boyfriend before but there are so many problems that weakens the relationship, other people thought that you're just after the money and so many issues...we broke up, maybe we're not really meant for each other..

5 Feb 07

define love in one word?

alokmis @alokmis (224) • India 5 Feb 07

Hi i define belive

love

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ihr485 Love is sacred!!!

5 Feb 07

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Crying

emilieespino @emilieespino (963) • Philippines 28 Jan 07

Does crying make you feel better? It does make me feel better afterwards. How about you? But it's not just sadness that makes us cry. Sometimes we also cry tears of joy, don't we?

crying

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ihr485 Crying is our way of getting in touch with our own deepest emotions...our way of showing compassion & love. it also helps us ease the burden that we felt deep inside...

30 Jan 07

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Euthanasia: Would you do it?

coffeechat @coffeechat (1961) • New Zealand 29 Jan 07

In general, euthanasia is an act of killing painlessly - MERCY KILLING. If your loved one is in a hospital bed, brain dead with no hope to live except for the machines that keeps him/her alive, would you, as an immediate family...

euthanasia for terminal sickness

mercy killing

pulling the plug

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ihr485 it depends on the situation...if its already a hopeless case and you cant stand the pain & sufferings of your loved one, even its a tough decision maybe you should go for it...

30 Jan 07