| | | my activity | iocustheoda responded to a discussion called Have you ever had a recurring nightmare? in life.
1 month ago
 Hm...maybe it's showing how it would feel if you choose the alternative option, that is running away instead if accepting to be with them. Dreams are not always about results, they can be an unconscious way for us to quench our curiosity of"what if?"
What if you avoid them? So,dreams let you feel it hands on. It does not envision future or problems, they can be a way of coping, a solution f... |
| iocustheoda responded to a discussion called i don't want to lose him.. in love.
1 month ago
 Cooling down. Both of you needs time to cool down. You are afraid of losing him, but does he feel the same? We probably won't know that. However, it's time to let time decide whether this is just a passing argue or the end. Focus on friends you still have, lessens more on trying to get him back. Your friends are probably felt left out (even if they deny this) if you are to worry about him.
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| iocustheoda responded to a discussion called What things do you think could help you to stay in love? in relationships.
1 month ago
 If you share a bed with your partner, or live with them, then this is one trick that my parents hold on for their 26 years of marriage ( and still counting!):1.Smile, or even better grin, the first thing in the morning when you see each other. Doesn't matter for what reason. Sure, maybe she'll think you are crazy for the first week of trying, but smiling s infectious and cure 'heartache' ni... |
| iocustheoda responded to a discussion called Choosing between your children? in parenting.
1 month ago
 Honey, graduation is a big thing. Even bigger than extra school day. But first, ask your younger son, is he willing to attend Saturday School so both of you can attend the big day for your older son? If he is, you should ask your older brother to get a surprise gift for his younger brother. It may be his graduation day, but his younger brother is taking a risk to go for it, a little appreciatio... |
| iocustheoda responded to a discussion called If your wife left home after quarrel with you,how would you do? in me.
1 month ago
 You said you usually apologize to her aferwards. How about a change of pace? Instead of going to her to apologize, again, why don't you let it be for a few weeks. She probably needs her cooling down time, and I think it is also much needed on your part. Besides, marriage is mutual partnership. If you are the one who always need to give in, that wouldn't be fair. She needs to remember you are a ... |
| iocustheoda responded to a discussion called How to cope with getting older? in life.
1 month ago
Remember this sweetie: For men, life begins when you finish high school. But for women, life begins at 40.It means this is the phase where don't even need to care about those things, because people can usually get away with many things during this phase. heck, midlife crisis is the best excuse for us to whisk away for a romantic getaway! |
| iocustheoda responded to a discussion called Emotional Intelligence and IQ, Which One is More Important? in questions & answers.
1 month ago
 IQ intelligence people can create many discoveries, but Emotional intelligence people can spot successful people a.k.a. IQ intelligence people, and smart enough to know how to utilize this knowledge.
So, which is more successful in life, the cow who gave milk, or the herder who collect and sell those milk?
I know, unfair world. |
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| There was a time when intelligence quotient(IQ) was considered the leading determinant of success. At that time, people who had a high IQ were more likely to succeed.
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| I have a son who will be graduating from the Marines Nov. 20th, who I am so very proud of. Graduation is in South Carolina. I want so badly to attend but I run into the problem of having to take my... | |
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| I mean in a marriage? or in a relationship? How to stay in love?caring for your partner?
effective communication?
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