janetan17

@janetan17 (25)

Philippines • Age 52

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spoon, fork, chopsticks or hands?

louievill @louievill (28851) • Philippines 17 Nov 10

Just want to ask , i'm new on this site and have noticed the diversity of people and cultures here, what do you prefer to use when eating spoon, fork, chopsticks or hands?

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janetan17 I prefer chopsticks when I eat noodles. I use hands when the "ulam' is 'tuyo' or 'sugpo' or crab or lobster. Otherwise, I use spoon and fork.

17 Nov 10

What was your favorite class in college/university?

trickiwoo @trickiwoo (2702) • United States 16 Nov 10

What class did you most enjoy taking while you were at college or university? Did it have something to do with your major? Or was it totally unrelated? Was it a class required for graduation? Or was it something you just took for...

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janetan17 My favorite was History Class which is far from my major which is IT. My professor was very creative and energetic and he would always make the us laugh. It was so enjoyable!

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I am white sheet of paper..

hestylim @hestylim (1210) • Indonesia 17 Nov 10

I can't even word out my own opinion. I am totally blank. I love writing. I do. I had realized it few years ago.. And I always want to publish my own book. But it hasn't happened yet. I have this ambition to a writer. I do...

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janetan17 Don't force yourself. You are under stress. Take a break. Writing is an art and most artists produce quality output when they are in the right mood. I used to write online also. And I dream of writing a book too.But with my current stressful (and almost...

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What kind of de-stressing activities do you guys do?

Jacobus1919 @Jacobus1919 (1683) • Philippines 17 Nov 10

We all know everyone will undergo stress, and people need some time off from time to time, right? Everyone has different ways of relaxing and letting those bad vibes go away. In my part, I work out, and just hang out with friends...

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janetan17 watching comedy shows and comedy movie clips is a great de-stressing activity for me. Also, chatting online and shopping in the mall are like therapies for mental and emotional stress. For physical stress, its really laughter and sleep.

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chinese recipes are here to stay!!

san1980 @san1980 (69) • India 17 Nov 10

hi guys, my favourite chinese dish is fried rice and chilly chicken.i simply love it. i really don't know, what ingredients really flavours the chinese recipes. if you know regarding the secret ingredients..do share it here

recipes

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janetan17 My husband is Chinese. He cooks under big fire. He uses a lot of spices like yellow ginger, curry, garlic, 5herb combination of spices that come in 1 tiny pack, peppers, mushroom and other stuff that can be bought only in Chinatown. He always put soy sauce and...

17 Nov 10

How do you handle intimacy issues in your marriage?

sender621 @sender621 (14894) • United States 17 Nov 10

When we marry someone we always think we will be happy and satisfied in our relationship with that person. Marriage can't always be the bed of roses we want it to be. Sometimes intimate moments become less...

intimacy

marriage

relationships

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janetan17 I have gone through severe crisis with regards to intimacy issues with my husband. I did a lot of reading and listened to counseling sessions about intimacy and learned that getting intimate is not limited to the act in bed but also through touching,...

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What do you love to do in leisure?

dante_off @dante_off (607) • India 17 Nov 10

We all get a bit of leisure everyday, many of us do what we feel like doing. I love to play games on my PC. What do you love to do?

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janetan17 It depends on my mood. Sometimes I would read a book or watch a show. SOmetimes I would play with my dogs. Sometimes chat with friends in the Net.

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How do I change Childish so mature?

gengeni @gengeni (3308) • Indonesia 17 Nov 10

Many people say that I am very Childish, ranging from face, body and attitude. instead there are people who have thought I was a child teens, when I was 26 years old. please help me, so I'm more mature and not exactly like a kid...

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janetan17 You can watch films and tv shows, or search the net to observe how women your age speak, walk, behave, and dress up. Then go to the mirror and compare how you speak and act with those women you've observed. Try to imitate their ways. Do it often. Practice in...

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How much humiliations you can tolerate?

breathofja @breathofja (83) • China 17 Nov 10

Hey,friends.When somebody is shaming you at your friend's presence,what will you do?You gonna kick this guy's a*s or just swallow humiliation silently?You know,jesus always teach us to love your enemy,let alone someone just insult...

humiliation

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janetan17 I am a devout Christian and though it's hard, I try to love even my enemy but I do so by not destroying their lives even if i have the power to do so, by praying that they be changed, by helping them realize their mistakes, and by helping whenever they needed...

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What is the greatest thing you evr learned from ypur parents?

mayrah @mayrah (1144) • United States 16 Nov 10

Our parents is our first teacher. Before we enter school, they taught us a lot of things. No responsible parents would teach their child on how to do bad things to other people. Our parents have been there before and up to now...

family

lifempeople

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janetan17 The greatest thing I learned from my father is loving unconditionally. You might not believe this but I grew up seeing my father being beaten up by my mother always because mother dislikes father's drinking habit. But he never lay a single hand on...

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I really want to Live a happy Life

Loverica19 @Loverica19 (43) • Philippines 15 Nov 10

I want to shake things off, I want forget the hurt I've got in my heart and forget my friends who hurt me. I want to be strong enough and be fair and brave enough. Most of all I want to take chances for my life to be successful.....

please help

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janetan17 Give yourself a break. Breathe...maintain distance from these people and situations that stress you up. Find new friends. They could still hurt you in the future but at least they would help you forget the past hurts. Involve yourself in a new activity like a...

16 Nov 10

What do you do to enjoy life?

dante_off @dante_off (607) • India 16 Nov 10

Everywhere, be it a gathering of spiritual speakers or successful leaders, everyone speaks the same thing that enjoy your life, always smile and etc. What exactly enjoying life means? Is it just happiness? Won't it be...

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janetan17 I think enjoying life means accepting whatever things life brings whether good or bad, and not dwelling on the negative side. I beleive it means being able to laugh after you cry, stand up after you fall, love after you hate, rest after your journey or your...

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being a good listener can proof many problem!

ontenjuliantini @ontenjuliantini (36) • Indonesia 16 Nov 10

I am a student from an university which not really very well known in around the world. but, sometimes in every university or each university, particularly in the campus, we have a lot of same problems that we get from the...

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janetan17 I agree. Being a good listener solves many problems. Being a poor listener results to a lot of misunderstanding. However, listening is not an easy work nowadays, when everything seems to be instant and everybody is always in a hurry to say something or do...

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is men's failure women's pleasure ?

K.Rajib G. @krajibg (11923) • Guwahati, India 16 Nov 10

Hi folks, Well, cooking is supposedly women’s job. However this does not mean that men are the worst at this business. But if the ratio is viewed men are poor at cooking. Now does this hint at the myth that failure of men...

men are bad cooks

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janetan17 I believe that men are very good cook. I watch cooking shows and I can testify also because my husband really cooks great! When i cook and it tastes better than his, i feel good. Who wouldnt? I don't really cook at all! And if my cooking is better than someone...

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Chrsitmas Season

shattered @shattered (1728) • Philippines 16 Nov 10

You know its Christmas Season when its a holiday and the malls (even Shangrila!) are packed with people... Even the roof deck parking is full! WOW and they say poverty is increasing...

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janetan17 We used to park very easily because our car is tiny and there is not much people parking in the mall near our place...until November arrived... and I had to get off the car and do the shopping alone while my husband waits until someone pulls out of the parking...

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What do women find repulsive in men?

theredquill @theredquill (586) • Philippines 16 Nov 10

I have started the discussion "what do men find repulsive in women" and I've only got three responses. I was thinking maybe because the men here are just too polite to say what they think about the topic, or maybe some don't want...

disapproval

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janetan17 i find it repulsive if a man cannot make up his mind, cannot stand up for his decision, no backbone, and fickle-minded. Hey, those are commonly attributed to ladies! Physically, i hate a man who does not take care of himself. How canhe take care of a woman if...

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Long Distance Relationship, Would you settle for it or not?

tokwa99 @tokwa99 (92) • Philippines 16 Nov 10

I believe that the are long distance relationship that works and there are isntances that it did not. In my own opnion...its not gonna work for me. I believe that physical presence is important in any given...

long distance

lvoe

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janetan17 I have friends who ended up in marriage after dating online for sometime and they are still happily married now. I tried online dating for some time but it did not work for me. I always get 'distracted' by someone who is by my side. I ended up marrying a...

16 Nov 10

Lose Weight? Here Are Some Weird Tips

ellyse2003 @ellyse2003 (1463) • Philippines 16 Nov 10

I just want to share some weird tips to lose weight, I read it from the internet and I just want to share it with you. Let's get started. *Toothpaste Diet No, you don't have to eat toothpaste and suck them in your mouth,...

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janetan17 i like the suggestions...weird but works! i actually move around the house during tv commercial breaks and prefer smaller plates and healthier food choices. I just don't like the gross suggestion. Who would, with all the other better & more hygienic choices...

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