jenius

@jenius (131)

United States • Age 45

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cortizone shots

nyletty3 @nyletty3 (25) • United States 10 Mar 07

I was wondering if anyone suffering from wrist pain ever received cortizone shots to the wrist? what was your experience?

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jenius I had a stubborn flare up in my wrist and had a cortizone shot directly in my wrist. I was already in so much pain the shot didn't bother. It did give me relief as cortizone always does. I've been told cortizone should only be used twice a year maximum. When I...

24 Jul 07

who is clever? a man or woman?

sheenshaukat @sheenshaukat (2617) • Pakistan 16 Jul 07

Man is strong. Man is brave. Man is handsome. But woman? woman is a woman after all. She is weak comparing to a man, but she is more clever than a man. But we feel that some time men also behave like a clever person. Who is more...

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jenius I'm sure most men could beat me at arm wrestling no question there. But that does not make me weaker in other areas. Men do not have the market cornered on bravery,strength or physical good looks. And neither do women have the market cornered on cleverness....

17 Jul 07

Read the story and tell me who your answer is.

smints8985 @smints8985 (1594) • United States 16 Jul 07

There were 6 siblings. The eldest was the only son who's married and have one child, they are living abroad. The next one was the oldest of the 5 sisters, married with two children and 2 grandchildren, also living abroad. The...

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jenius It is not clear if the mother is in physical need of constant care. If she is not and is happy with things as they are why not leave it be? As the saying goes...if it isn't broken don't fix it. She sounds a bit like me in that she doesn't mind having time...

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can you help me find a gift?

polofield32 @polofield32 (346) • Philippines 17 Jul 07

my parents' wedding anniversary is fast approaching...can anyone help me find a good gift for their wedding anniversary???

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jenius I don't know what your budget allows but I'm thinking a gift certificate to a nice restaurant or for a weekend away would be nice and hopefully romantic for them.

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Anniversary

myahw20 @myahw20 (1115) • Canada 17 Jul 07

ei guys..on friday, it will bemy 3rd anniversary with my bf.. im currently in canada though and he's in the philippines.. can you give me some ideas on how to make our day special on friday???i already have some surprises..but i...

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jenius I too am in a long distance relationship I know how difficult that is. One thing I like to do is send gifts then have him open them when we are online together. Just having time with him makes any day special. Either using voice chat or the phone and hearing...

17 Jul 07

Should different religions marry?

zeloguy @zeloguy (4911) • United States 17 Jul 07

My wife is Arabic (Muslim) and I am American (Christian) and we find it hard sometimes in the category of religion. Should people of different religions marry... and if you are in an inter-religion marriage how is it and how do...

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jenius I don't see a problem as long as both people respect each other beliefs and can find ways to compromise. It sounds like you have done just that.

17 Jul 07

Aint these women weird creatures? Last x-mas i was stuck for ideas on whet to

kimthedane @kimthedane (945) • Denmark 17 Jul 07

buy my partner for x-mas pressie. She is 42 and a very misserable woman who got everything. I was fed up with the traditional parfumerie and wanted to give her something that she really wanted. But when i asked her what she wanted...

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jenius This one sure has me chuckling! Yes indeed we are weird creatures. If only you guys had a clue to things unspoken :D. Quite often when I am asked what I would like for my birthday or Christmas I draw a blank. Sometimes I feel funny asking for things as well,so...

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First months of a relationship

Vangakanuts11 @Vangakanuts11 (20) • United States 17 Jul 07

How do you know that a Person truly loves you within the first few months of a relationship and that they are not just playing or messing with you? I have seen many r/ships end up in disappointments, even some that seemed to be...

making the right decision

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jenius Maybe it's just me but I tend to be suspicious of guys professing love too early in a relationship. Give it some time get to know one another if the feelings grow to love that's great! A few months doesn't seem all that long to me. As far as trust and true...

17 Jul 07

What if your parents and family disapprove of your future husband/wife ?

010878 @010878 (303) • Indonesia 17 Jul 07

What if your parents and family disapprove of your future husband/wife ? Would you dump him/her ? Would you ignore them and aloop ? Would you cry and begging your family to accept him/her ? My mother disapprove of my sister's...

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jenius First off I always think it is sad when such turmoil and disagreements go on for so long within families and I'm sorry to hear that is the case. All I can say is I am engaged and very much in love. With feelings that strong no one would be able to convince me...

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You are looking at the wrong places!

ibuemma @ibuemma (2953) • United States 17 Jul 07

This might be little bit funny. Last weekend, me and the girlfriends hang out together. Somehow the conversation got into "how and where to find a good man". One of my friend is a single mother, she divorced already like couple...

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jenius Personally I don't feel actively looking is all that effective. You can't plan where or when to meet the right person or when to fall in love. It mostly seems by chance. Love snuck up on me when I wasn't looking or expecting it. I think if asked my bf would...

17 Jul 07

How far are you willing to go?

alnilam @alnilam (969) • United States 17 Jul 07

what does it take for you to end a relationship? cheating? small mistakes? What can you forgive in a relationship? could you forgive cheating and by what circumstances you would do that??

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jenius There are two things I could not forgive. Cheating and abuse especially physical. A man would never get another opportunity to do either to me more than once.

17 Jul 07

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what do U think is the optimum age for marriage for Women???

binny29 @binny29 (1527) • India 17 Jul 07

16-28 18-20 20-22 or above for me its around 22-24

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jenius Going along the same lines as others who have responded before me I'd have to say it isn't so much age as it is maturity and readiness. There is no majic age when this happens each individual reaches that point in their own time. I must say I do feel people in...

17 Jul 07

why do each person in a relationship change as it goes on?

mkcallejo @mkcallejo (318) • Philippines 17 Jul 07

How come people change while they are in a relationship? Sometimes you feel as if your partner is not the person that you got involved with before...

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jenius You do not mention the length of the relationship. If it has been a short time then maybe it is not so much change as it is just getting to know one another better. In the beginning it seems people are on best behavior which may change as they grow more...

17 Jul 07

When a woman says a guy is "hot", do they mean his looks or his personality ?

kudeshi @kudeshi (529) • India 17 Jul 07

When a woman says a guy is "hot", do they mean his looks or his personality ?

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jenius I have to go along with the crowd on this one. Hot generally refers to looks. When I think of the word hot in terms of personality I think of temper and a hot temper isn't always a good thing. Turning the question around what do guys mean when they say a gilr...

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How often do you change your mobile phones?

kudeshi @kudeshi (529) • India 17 Jul 07

How often do you change your mobile phones? As for me, i change it once in 3 years or so. But i do have a friend who has this tendency of changing his phone every month.

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jenius In two years I've changed my phone once and that was only because I was stupid enough to leave my first one in a pocket and put it through the washer.(blushing in embarrassment) A friend of mine told me of a trick to dry it out by removing the battery and...

17 Jul 07

Which car do you own at present ?

kudeshi @kudeshi (529) • India 17 Jul 07

Which car do you own at present ? Are you happy with your current car ? Which is your dream car which you always wished to buy ?

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jenius I have two cars a 1999 Jeep Cherokee (my every day car) which I love and is perfect for driving in New England winters. I also have a 1979 Trans Am which I call my fair weather car. I store it away in winter and only drive it during spring,summer and autumn....

17 Jul 07

Do you buy things online?

kelleylwx @kelleylwx (12) • China 17 Jul 07

I always buy things online. Because I think it's convenient, you needn't go to the shopping mall and you can buy a lot of things that you can't buy at your place. You can easily compare the price of same things. But you also can...

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jenius I love buying things online. In fact did all my Christmas shopping online last year. I was hesitant at first thinking it was risky but,I have not had one problem. The selections and options are great and you don't have to waste hours and hours walking miles...

17 Jul 07

Is there a need to know the reason for anything?

whyaskq @whyaskq (7523) • Singapore 17 Jul 07

"When you are asked to do something, you need to know the reason why you are doing it and all the historical events behind it, then you are doing things right, otherwise, what you are doing is wrong." The above is the pet...

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jenius I don't necesarily agree totally with his statement but, can certainly see the value of knowing some history. We learn from past experience and use that knowledge to help make present and future decisions thus avoid repeating mistakes. I personally like to...

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