jfier001

@jfier001 (14)

United States • Age 38

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falling asleep on the phone

xxazndragon01 @xxazndragon01 (1250) • United States 20 Apr 10

Ladies and gentlemen I was talking to my girlfriend on the phone the other day and it was late at night as i was talking to her it got really late and she became tired so she passed out on the phone (= has this every happen to you...

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jfier001 I used to do that too. My oyfriend would call at odd hours in the night because of his work schedule. I would be so tired I would fall asleep while he was talking. Usually I'd wake up a minute later to hear him still talking.

20 Apr 10

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Does Love Exist without Trust?

mirajean @mirajean (10) • Philippines 10 Apr 10

I've been in a relationship for almost three years. As time goes by, i realize that we have different point of views in life and different priorities but i'm aware that the love still there. The problem is when we quarrel he keep...

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jfier001 Any relationship needs to have trust. It must be based on trust for a solid relationship to hold up. If he can't seem to trust you and you haven't done a thing to him to make him lose his trust in you, then the problem lies with him. There could have been some...

10 Apr 10

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Joint savings account with spouse

myzire72 @myzire72 (1154) • Singapore 10 Apr 10

Do you have a joint savings account with your spouse? For my wife and I, we have jointly opened a savings account for our family planning since early in our marriage. We each have to contribute $200 every month into the account....

comes in handy

contribute monthly

family planning

joint savings account

since marriage

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jfier001 I like joint bank accounts, especially if the couple are married or committed to each other. As you said, the money from the joint account came in handy. I'd like to add that while a joint account can be a good thing, it may also be a good idea to still have...

10 Apr 10

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Meeting the boyfriend's family

Hecate @Hecate (5) • Philippines 10 Apr 10

I can't sleep. It is one of those days I feel blue all of a sudden. I have yet to meet the boyfriend's family after 1 year and 6 months. I don't know about you, but this is a big deal for me. The boyfriend's really as sweet as...

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jfier001 I'd treat it as a bug deal too, especially after a year and a half. Do his family live close by? Was he close to them as he was growing up? Has he had a falling out with anyone? Unless any of these have happened I'd be wondering why I haven't met his family...

10 Apr 10

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A map or a phone?Which of these two do you prefer to carry during travel?

cloud31 @cloud31 (5809) 10 Apr 10

How useful these two things when you for travel? How many of you carrying map/phone ? And do you think map is useful stuff to bring along with? Or you might think carrying a phone is more important than a map? [b]Which...

travel

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jfier001 I always have my phone on me, but I'd prefer to have the map with me. That way I have a hard copy in front of me of where ever I need to go.

10 Apr 10

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substitute teaching

jfier001 @jfier001 (14) • United States 9 Apr 10

Everyone always pegged me as the future teacher in the family. After college I became a substitute teacher, figuring that would be ok until I decided if I really wanted to be in education. Had anyone ever second guessed their...

career

education

teaching

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I said yes, then he said no!

jfier001 @jfier001 (14) • United States 6 Apr 10

My boyfriend was always telling me how much he loves me and that I'm his everything, the love of his life. This past December he proposed to me! He gave me the ring right before a party my family was having. At the party my mom...

break ups

engagement

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should I agree to stay with my in-laws?

maanrodriguez @maanrodriguez (604) • Philippines 6 Apr 10

I recently got married 3 months ago. my husband is working abroad and is currently living with his dad and 2 siblings. my husband wants me to follow him there but since we cannnot afford to get our own house, he wants me to stay...

in laws

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jfier001 In-laws are tough sometimes. But I think it might be worth it to live with them for a short while if it means you get to spend more time with your husband, especially if you just got married 3 months ago. Congrats on getting married! This is a time at the...

6 Apr 10

Do you ever think about kid names?

artsyfartsygypsy @artsyfartsygypsy (755) • Canada 6 Apr 10

I sit there wuith my sister and plan out our lives soemtimes. We talk about guys and kids and all that. Im just wondering if anyone else thinks about what they would name their kids when they are no where close to having kids or...

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jfier001 I do the same thing with my sister. We've decided that we want our first daughters to be named with rhyming names. We think it's cute. I also did the same thing with my fiance before we were engaged. It's something fun to do, and it helps in a relationship to...

6 Apr 10

Going back to college

jfier001 @jfier001 (14) • United States 6 Apr 10

I have finished college and have a BA. Does anyone else feel like having a Bachelor's degree just doesn't cut it anymore in the job market? I've thought about going back for my Master's degree, but I'd like to know what other...

college

degree

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Have you ever thought of opening a business? If you had money what would it be?

blimb @grkelly (1206) • Malta 6 Apr 10

I always wished to open a business. Unfortuntaely money keeps me away from doing so. What type of business would you open if you could?

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jfier001 I read that at some point in life, mostly everyone is interested in starting their own business, yet only a handful of people do. I would love to open my own business. It would probably be something like a photography business or freelance writer. The start up...

6 Apr 10

boyfriend's trust

angelgirl_JNM @angelgirl_JNM (64) • Canada 5 Apr 10

ok so when u have a long distance relationship wit someone how do u get to have their trust? .. my bf say's he trust me but gets jealous for everything. I know he loves me but how do u know when he really does trust u??

love

relationship

trust

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jfier001 In any long distance relationship the communication has to be open. Try talking to your boyfriend about how you feel, but be careful to not blame him for anything. Use words such as "I feel" and try to avoid you language ( such as "you always.. or you...

5 Apr 10

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