jmbauer

@jmbauer (43)

United States • Age 38

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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Do you ever search before posting?

jakester519 @jakester519 (355) 22 Sep 07

Come on...own up, do you do a search on Mylot to see if a discussion you want to start has already been started or do you just go ahead and post anyway. I must admit I search only about 1 in 10 of my discussions as it seems so...

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jmbauer Hi,I'm new here, so have just been getting acquainted--hanging around the forum, reading, posting, commenting, but not starting any discussions. However, the search-or-not-search problem has come into my mind a few times, and my conclusion is this: if my...

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I'm A Lonner

jgen18jg17 @jgen18jg17 (163) • Philippines 23 Sep 07

I'm a lonner, I prefer to be alone and I'm happy to be alone. But not all the time... Ever since I was a child I've become like this I don't know why. I loved writing anything, observe people, stay at home and listen music or...

advice

help

lonner

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jmbauer Hi, If you feel uncomfortable interacting on a large scale, simply cut back a bit. Start by finding one or two people who you perceive interesting and strike up a conversation. It helps if you have like interests. Exchange names, share experiences, most of...

23 Sep 07

Careless Child, Inattentive Parent

theprogamer @theprogamer (10534) • United States 23 Sep 07

Okay this discussion should get someone going. Or maybe you won't care. I'm still posting it though. What happened was, I was taking a family member to their workplace. After they got out, I continued out of the strip mall....

parenting

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jmbauer Firstly, I think your expectations are on target. Secondly, how old was the child? While I do believe that parents are responsible for guiding their children in terms of safety and the difference between right and wrong, I also think that there comes a time...

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I won $400 from donkeymails.

deebomb @deebomb (15304) • United States 22 Sep 07

I just got an email from donkeyemail and it said that I won $400. but in order to get it I have to become a mamber of the gold games club. can any one tell me if this is a scam because they are asking not only for my account but...

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jmbauer This sounds to be nothing more than a phishing attempt--and a bad one to boot. It's generally good practice to be wherry of e-mails that ask you for accounts, passwords, or any form of personally identifiable information and to avoid clicking links provided...

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Do any of you have a favorite tea for different seasons?

Midwesternnights @Midwesternnights (35) • United States 22 Sep 07

Heres the jist: Lemon tea I love in the summer. I find it cool, refreshing and great in ice teas. In the fall and winter I love mint tea for the crisp, sharp flavor it seems to give off, and the heady smell that radiates from...

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jmbauer Hi, In the winter, I enjoy ginger, cinnaman, and peppermint teas a great deal. In the summer I tend to avoid tea, as I hate iced tea. In the spring, it's definitely honey or chamomile. I've really never stopped to associate a tea with automn. Good teas...

23 Sep 07

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I Love You?

ebusaf @ebusaf (329) • United States 22 Sep 07

How often do you need to hear these words from your mate. I hear some couples say it everyday, and some haven't said those words in months, even years. In my marriage we say it quite often to each other and to the kids. But how...

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jmbauer In most cases, actions do speak louder than words. However, there's nothing like hearing those three words with the underlying passion and conviction the utterance of such a meaningful pledge evokes.

23 Sep 07

my friends list on mylot....is this being rude?

wisconsin26 @wisconsin26 (3859) • United States 22 Sep 07

I am just wondering if this is being rude or mean... I get over 30-40 e-mails from ONE person on mylot and all of this persons posts are non sense.. So I deleted them from my friends list am I being rude by doing this? Personally...

limits

mylot

post

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jmbauer Nope, not being rude at all. It's your friends list and you manage it as you deem fit. I can see the desire to garner an extra cent, but you shouldn't feel obligated to read all the nonsense if you aren't so inclined. I think it would be another matter...

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Do you always finish a book?

luintaurien @luintaurien (972) • United States 22 Sep 07

If you pick up a book and you just can't get into it, do you go ahead and fight your way through it no matter what? Do you have a page limit where if you are not interested you stop and read a different book? Do you ever go back...

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jmbauer I usually give a book about a quarter of its length to work out any slowness etc. If I'm not into the work by then, it's time to go on to something else. Sometimes, I will retry a book I'd previously abandoned in the hope that I'll deem it a better read with a...

22 Sep 07

Help, I'm drownding and I cannot see over the pile of discussions

teapotmommommerced @teapotmommommerced (10359) • United States 21 Sep 07

I am trying to be a good friend and answer all of my friends discussions, but I am 400 discussions behind. I do not know if I will ever be able to catch up. I have 133 friends and with all of them I have their notify on. I get...

drowning in emails

help

i love my friends

to many discussions to respond to

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jmbauer Disable all discussion notifications sent by e-mail until you are caught up to your satisfaction. I'm new here (so I can't share in your whoes LOL), but I wish you luck in whatever course you choose. I've had similar problems on e-mail lists and other...

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Nonviolence

Pose123 @Pose123 (21635) • Canada 22 Sep 07

The concept of nonviolence as advocated by Mahatma Gandhi, is really love in action. It is said that Gandhi, at one time, considered becoming a Christian, It is well known that he was greatly impressed by the teachings of Christ,...

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jmbauer Some Christians place too great an emphasis on judging others based on belief methods (or lack thereof), live a life guided by selfish fears of the afterlife and their own merits rather than focusing on love and kindness toward their fellow human being, and...

22 Sep 07

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10 year old boy drowns while 2 community Police officers watch.

nancyrowina @nancyrowina (3850) 22 Sep 07

In May two children (Brother and sister) were catching tadpoles by a pond when the sister fell in, her brother jumped in to save her and 2 fishermen were able to pull her out using their rods. After supporting her in the 6 foot...

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jmbauer In my opinion, common sense should've been screaming to throw something--a rope, a lifeline, anything--to the boy to facilittate a succesfull rescue. Also, if these men were community police, one would think they would tote some form of a flotation...

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Group projects

k1tten @k1tten (2318) • United States 21 Sep 07

I've always hated group projects, ever since my early school years. I've had to do a lot of group projects lately and I still hate them. I've always liked to do things my way because at least I know how to turn my mind around the...

group work

groups

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jmbauer I've had some really good group project experiences--where everyone is smart, open-minded, willing to brainstorm and be creative, responsible, and lacking in aggression. Conversly, I've had some pretty bad group experiences as well--people who showed up a...

22 Sep 07

Do you have enough guts?

JackBravo @JackBravo (970) • United States 21 Sep 07

If your neighbor is playing music of bass so loud it comes through your walls and gives you wife a headache and disrupts your household in general, would you have the guts to go over there and ask him/her to turn it down? And...

discussion

guts

neighbors

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jmbauer I agree with the poster who said be straightforward but tactful. Now, say whatever disturbance has got you fighting mad. Are you more or less likely to go over and plunge right in, irrespective of any consiquences?

22 Sep 07

Writers: What current projects are you working on?

gwendovere @gwendovere (1279) • United States 22 Sep 07

A book? Poetry? A novel? An essay? Please share!

writing

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jmbauer For me, the answer to this question varies from time to time. Sometimes I find myself with multiple projects unfinished and clamoring for my attention; other times--mainly in the case of a short story or essay--I start something and stay with it to the bitter...

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do you compose a tone for your mobile ring?

wonderful1 @wonderful1 (2075) • China 22 Sep 07

sometimes i will compose a tone for my own \mobile ring. but it sounds bad. have you composed a tone for you mobile ring?

listening to music

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jmbauer I've composed a few ringtones for my phone, but I like to arrange them in my sequencer first then send them over using bluetooth technology. So, while I do actually write the tones, is it cheating not to compose in the phone's interface?

22 Sep 07

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